please read this chart

[carsim]

Hi everyone here.
Can you read this chart? most interest is in love live at this moment.
here is chart"
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?r...go.x=15&go.y=4

[smilingsteph]

Your rising sign is in cancer and your descendant is in capricorn, thus you want to take on the role of caring and nurturing for someone that "needs" you and you want to find security in a relationship.

Your sun is in the 12th house, where you enjoy your privacy and time alone, shy and reserved, however your jupiter rising shows that you enjoy going out in the world and seeing everything that you can, loving to explore and embrace life for what life is...So your jupiter sun combo can make you optimistic and generally nice and giving to people with optimism.
Your eleventh house is packed!
Eleventh house shows us about friends, wishes, and money from career
You have aries on the cusp of this house, meaning that you form many friends and have a rather large circle of contacts, but may not be lasting contacts. With a Gemini sun (I feel this way) that you would rather have lots of relationships with others and yet feel fine if they come and go. You enjoy and identify yourself with others.
Venus is in your eleventh house, making a connection to your neptune! This could indicate that you fall in love very easily, and not in love per say, but the idea of what love brings, like a fairy-tale romance. This can also mean that instead of having one relationship you might fall in love with different people at the same time. Or maybe you may fall in love with someone that is really not right for you, because this placement is known for the term "love is blind."
Uranus on the IC in the fourth shows that you may have had a hard early life, where you moved a lot or were unable to put down a secure feeling in the home, thus as an adult you will either crave for that security or rebel with wanting security, either independantly or with a mate.
Mars in the eleventh shows that you surround yourself with fiesty people or you yourself is a bit fiesty in your relationships with others.
I dont know you, so sorry if I generalize and tell me if I am off the path, but
In a relationship you may be looking for security and the desire to take care of another individual, neptune venus does not necessarily discriminate against people that may not be good for you. Maybe those relationships that you are in are not healthy, where one may take advantage of your warm personality and of your wanting to take pride (leo) in those you care for. Or you are somehow attracted to those that are aggressive around you, mars in eleventh with saturn connection. You might find yourself in a relationship where another person may dominate you, or maybe vise versa, which is not healthy.
I hope I have helped...
Steph

[carsim]

you are right. Thank you.

[smilingsteph]

This is not your chart is it?
I had the feeling while replying back to you that this chart was not yours....I looked up other posts and this is another person's chart right?
Well if I think that this is not yours then....can I go on about the bad stuff???
Well this person has had a lot of damage at a young age due to his parental figures..
He has a really friendly personality and wants to be in a secure relationship but really cannot, he might be a violent person? So friendly that he may depend on his friends for his security in life.
He is egotistical, Leo moon and uses his ego to control or place power over others.
Like I said earlier, he loves the idea of being in love, so he might not be able to really have a single monogamous relationship, or he gets bored fast and throws himself into another relationship.
I just dont think he can be honest in a relationship, because of his childhood experiences with mistrust with his family.
I think it would be better to stay away as this person can have issues with violence around others....
Good luck!
Steph

[carsim]

You are right. This chart belongs to a friend of mine. I know very well that he had problems with his family and his childhood was not a happy one. He had a lot of problems with his health.At the age of 9 he had a terrible car accident. I am confused about his behavior. I have just a friendly relationship with him . Sometimes I am confused about his behavior.I know much about his personal life. He is divorced now and try to get another chance to make a new family, but the problem is that he is boring quikly.Likes to be in love but for a short time because he became dissapointed but I think HE is his problem. As his friend I try to help him but I don't know how. Also he has health problems (liver).I have some questions if you can answer. Now he is in love again with a woman at a relative long distance from him and he would like to spend winter holidays with her,but it seems that that woman is not as he think she is.This relation will last? Will he ever marry again?He will have again health problems?

[smilingsteph]

I am not really into medical astrology, however analyzing my aunts chart has shown me her liver problems...and his is sort of the same!
Jupiter in the 12th in cancer can indicate chronic liver problems...
does he do drugs? does he drink alcohol?
He might have hepatitis C as well which can come from sexual activity or sharing of needles...
I dont think he will listen to your advice...as well as I am sure he is not in love with this woman...I hope it would work out of course, but he is just one of those souls that fall in love, get bored and leave! He is travelling to see this woman? Well maybe he is so excited to travel to see her it is making the possibility of falling in love fun, but maybe when he gets there he will get bored very fast. He seems to use his friends (you) for things and has a charming yet demanding way with his friends. I think the best thing to do would to listen to him, but ultimatly you nor anyone else can change him...he has to do it himself. Plus the lessons he will gain by figuring things out for himself is best, as it seems that he depends so much on his friends.
Pluto is transiting into the sixth house, so this could mean that he might overdo things and become more ill, job loss can also be seen with this transit.
Also since he is in his 40's the generational planets are making transits to his natal planets:
Neptune square neptune (a midlife transit)- make a person feel like the work they do is for nothing, which can lead to drugs, alcohol or sex as a way out. He may not be seeing things clearly and may get into relationships he may later regret!
Here is a list of the midlife transits..and at the bottom according to his date of birth you can see which one he is into...
Good luck!
Steph

[carsim]

Oh, My God....you are perfectly right.
He had hepatitis C treated with "Interferon". He does not use drugs but sometimes he drinks more than necessary and sexual life is...agitated. Yes he travelled to see that woman.he told me that he loves her...but she...it seems that hesitate to have a serious relationship with him. I feel that he depends on me, counting on my friendship but I can only to give him some advices for his sake. I care of him, but he is the only one who solve his problems. Last week he made some analysis for liver...they were ok, but hepatitis C is a chronic disease, and could cause him problems again.
Thank you for all you told me.It was the real truth.

[carsim]

I forgotten to tell you...where is the list you told about?