I have a chart of 1st sexual encounter with a man I recently dated. I was told it is better for relationship to have 1st encounter when moon is growing and in Cardinal Sign and not VOC. When we had sex, moon was almost 2 degrees Capricorn and right before full moon. He recently broke it off and I am just wondering if anything is to come of this.
Here is link for 1st sex chart.
1st Sex Chart interp. Moon is 1' 30'' Capricorn in house 7. Pluto also in 7th house. I became too obsessive in relationship: he accused me of calling too much. Moon conjunct pluto can indicate some of this behavior and powerful emotions: 1 person putting more into relationship than other. Our relationship ended when he called me from a vacation out of the country and said this was too much, and was very stern etc. Perhaps indicated by the saturn in 3rd (communication) Opposition neptune in 9th (foreign destination). Also the communication was foggy because I thought he was back in the States. Mars is in 12th in this chart perhaps showing frustration or hidden motives. Venus in 4th. Sexual encounter took place in my home. I have venus in 4th house natally.
Here is meeting for 1st meeting chart
1st meeting chart has capricorn rising (we are both caps he is 1/6/76 in Mandeville, Jamaica, no time known. I am 1/7/77 in Houston, TX 2:53 am). There is a grand trine between pluto (house 12), mars (4th house), and saturn/venus in house 8. Moon is 1 degree scorpio in 10th house. Ruler of ascendant is in 8th house. There was definitely a strong sexual attraction. Sun in 7th house conjunct mercury;there were initial talks of relationship. Mars opposition moon in houses 4 vs. 10. We encountered difficulties because his job kept him in NYC, he thought he was going to move to my hometown, but he only stayed here for about 6 weeks. I don't know if I am venus and he is mars in the 1st meeting chart or not. I just really miss him and wish things had ended differently.
Can I please get help with this. I had not dated in 4 years and I really thought we would have had more than just a 6 wk relationship!!! You all know how discriminating Cappies can be!!