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Old 06-15-2007, 11:37 PM
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Composite chart for romance

Hi!

Would anyone please give me some input on this composite chart I have with a guy who wants to have a relationship with me again. I loved him dearly once but we seperated - maybe that is my Uranus conjunct his Sun in synastry... I see Pluto sextile Venus in composite - a sexually transformative relationship, but anything more? Also I see Moon conjunct Saturn in composite and also in our synastry - this seems to be a stable influence, also a bit of a dampener on the emotions but stabilising and mayber maturing them... something to rely upon. His Juno conjunct my North node/ascendant/neptune conjunction in synastry... something about marriage? His North Node is in the same sign as my South node - this cannot be good for our individual life directions in synastry, but in composite North Node is square Sun.

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Old 06-16-2007, 08:07 PM
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Re: Composite chart for romance

the charts aren't coming up bid enough to read
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Old 06-18-2007, 10:28 AM
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Re: Composite chart for romance

Here is a composite reading.


Sun In Sagittarius


There is no sign in the zodiac so orientated to sheer intensity of sensory experience as Sagittarius. With their composite Sun in this sign these two people have signed up for a roller coaster ride. Regardless of their natures as individuals, there is something in the chemistry they share that attracts life's wild side. For the relationship to feel fully alive, they need to pack in the experience of 10 lifetimes. Should life become too prosaic and predictable, something vital seeps out of this relationship. Boredom can kill it faster than any other toxin. Together these two need freshness and wonder. They need stretch. They need to magnetize extremity into the life they share. Ultimately, the feeling for this couple with their composite Sun in Sagittarius is one of being on a quest. together they are endlessly seeking something. The actual nature of that something is elusive, but what it boils down to is a meaningful life. They will pursue it down cross cultural roads, taking pieces of the puzzle from various different nations and mythologies. They will chase it through education in the broadest sense - learning together, and talking about what they've learned, whether it's through books classes or other sources. They'll perhaps be drawn to religion, and almost surely to philosophy. Always the road stretches a little further before them - just one more horizon and they'll be there.

Sun in 9th

Composite Sun in the ninth house indicates a relationship that involves the growth of consciousness. Particularly in a personal relationship, the experiences that you undergo will give you greater understanding and insight into what is going on in your world. With the Sun in this position, a relationship between the sexes may tend to become platonic. The two of you will be very interested in communication and the sharing of ideas. You may travel quite a bit or at least be interested in foreign or distant places. For a personal relationship the only possible defect of this placement is that the relationship is likely to be more intellectual than emotional. This position is useful in any type of relationship because it indicates that together you have foresight and the ability to plan ahead for the long haul.

Sun Trine Ascendant

The trine of the composite Sun and the Ascendant is a very easy combination in the composite chart. The two of you radiate good energies, and other people like being in your company because you enjoy being with them. At the same time, the trine means that the two of you find it easy to be yourselves with each other. As a consequence, this is a good aspect to have in the chart of a love relationship or close friendship. The trine also means that this relationship will have a strong effect on your consciousness. You will have new experiences together that you might not have had otherwise, and you may even travel a lot more than you did before you came together. Since your philosophies of life are compatible, you will not find it necessary to argue about the different ways in which you see things.

Sun Trine Jupiter

Sun trine Jupiter in the composite chart gives your relationship a good start, and it will be a favorable and positive experience for both of you. You will have whatever you feel you really need in your life together. You will find that together you are able to express yourselves more adequately to the world than you can as individuals. Your understanding of each other will constantly broaden, giving you the wisdom and openness to deal creatively with any difficulties that arise in your relationship. You have a sense of cheerful optimism and a feeling that together you can handle anything the world may throw at you. And the chances are good that you can. It is likely that you will travel together and perhaps go abroad or have connections with foreign places and people. Even if you don't actually travel, you will certainly go places together in your mind, exploring new ideas, new concepts, and new dimensions of living.

Sun Sextile Uranus

The sextile of composite Sun and Uranus indicates that this relationship will seek out a path of its own, defining new standards of behavior and changing your thinking. While most relationships are very much restricted to the two individuals involved, this one will be open to contact with others, almost as if you must share what you have with as many people as possible. If it is a sexual relationship, therefore, it will be quite open and free. A friendship with this configuration will constantly challenge and stimulate the world- views of you both and of those around you. And the more you allow this exchange, the better the relationship will be. Don't allow laziness or fear of experimentation to let this partnership fall into conventional patterns. To do so would be to weaken something that should be a highly stimulating and creative experience for both of you.

Moon in Aries

This couple needs something to pursue together. They need combats and victories. When all that Aries energy is directed consciously and the heart of the relationship is fed, these two can not only have a lot of fun, they can experience a profound and growing loyalty to one another. Because they've faced foes together, each partner will know the mate is a good person to have at his or her back in a fight. The couple with this composite Moon the home is best designed to be dashed through at top speed, with frequently needed objects close at hand, a minimum of clutter to trip over. It may not be the most relaxing home on the block, but a visit there can be most invigorating.

Moon in 1st

The Moons general influence is very strong in this couple. There is a lot of soul in this relationship - and a lot of moodiness to go along with it. Feelings are central to all intimate bonds, but they can run at a higher voltage for this couple. The relationship carries it's emotional energy close to the surface. The key is to make sure the relationships needs are well met. The nature of these needs has a lot to do with the inner agenda of the sign the Moon occupies.

Moon Conjunct Saturn

The conjunction of composite Moon and Saturn can create an emotional barrier between you, so that you have trouble communicating with each other on a feeling level. You will do a lot of analyzing, both of the relationship and of each other. The danger is that you will make things seem worse than they are. At best, analyzing your relationship can help you understand what you have together, but it cannot completely replace intuitive communication. This aspect may cause the two of you to subordinate emotional considerations to supposed necessities or responsibilities, denying yourselves the joy and pleasure of open and relaxed self-expression. Try to relax together and not be so serious about things.

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

The conjunction of the Moon and Jupiter in a composite chart is a very favorable indication for any kind of personal relationship. You feel warm toward each other, and you can express your feelings easily and with enthusiasm. At the same time, you respect each other's emotions. You feel quite protective of your partner and try to keep him or her from being emotionally hurt by others. You have a great deal of respect for each other's freedom and individual rights. When disputes do arise, you will try to deal with them in a very high-minded manner. You will discuss the issues openly and try to resolve them in a way that is fair to both of you.

Moon Opposition Mars

The opposition of the Moon and Mars can be a very explosive aspect in a composite chart. It is an indication of anger and hostility breaking out, which can transform any kind of relationship into open warfare. One certainty is that you will never have to worry about repressing your feelings when you ought to express them. The problem is to make the expression creative, so that it can help the two of you grow, instead of just being a destructive outburst. When difficulties arise, try to keep calm for a little while and make some kind of rational sense out of what is happening. When people with this combination do blow up, it's all over with quickly, because all the negative energy is expended. But because the energies arise so often, quite a bit of damage occurs anyway. Expressing your real feelings honestly is essential with this aspect. Simply try to keep it under control.

Moon Trine Mercury

The trine of Mercury and Moon in a composite chart indicates that there is great potential for intellectual and emotional growth through this relationship. It means that you can communicate in a positive way about your feelings and opinions and that your basic philosophies of life are compatible, which reinforces your emotional compatibility. When a situation arises that requires the two of you to sit down and discuss your problems, you can do so easily and with the proper blend of objectivity and involvement. As a couple, you are open to new ideas and experiences and consequently enjoy exploring different areas of your lives together. At the same time you are not afraid to express your ideas freely and completely. With any effort at all, you should be able to exploit the potentials offered by this aspect and to grow tremendously through this relationship.

Mercury Square Pluto

The square of composite Mercury and Pluto poses some challenges to any relationship, the greatest of which is learning to tolerate each other's ideas. This aspect implies intellectual power struggles as each of you tries to impose your own thinking upon the other. If you can enlarge your own views enough to encompass your partner's, you will have the capacity to truly understand that point of view and include that perception of the truth in your own perception. Here again, as with the conjunction, the energy may be turned outward, so that the two of you are always trying to influence other people's opinions. Here also there is a danger that you could provoke a damaging response; other people, instinctively fearing domination, might fight back against your ideas


Mercury in Sagittarius

Always make sure there is something interesting to discuss, something new to experience together. There is a distinct tendency to assign meaning rather than treat the experience as an objective bit of data. in extreme cases Mercury in Sagittarius can be so busy looking for the meaning of a situation that they forget about the details.

Mercury in the 9th

With the composite Mercury in the 9th house a shared life of the mind is almost a 'religion' for this couple. Without a shared commitment in life they might start to wonder why they're together and what their relationship is all about. Ideally they should resolve to keep nurturing each others curiosity. If each of them feels that the relationship challenges them to grow more than they would grow if they weren't together, they're on the right track. Shared interests in travel might come into play here or literature. Or in computers, languages, biophysics, medieval cosmologies the Sky's the limit. The couple needs to experience the various ways they understand the world.

Mercury Trine Jupiter

Mercury trine Jupiter in the composite chart is an excellent indication of a good intellectual and mental relationship. You should find that your outlooks on life are very similar or at least complementary. Even while you are getting to know each other, you will not have to spend a lot of time defining basic issues for each other. At the same time, this relationship will have a great consciousness-expanding effect upon you, and you will be able to see the world in ways that you have never seen it before. This may be true in a literal sense, in that you may travel together more than before, because of opportunities arising from knowing each other. This aspect is also particularly good for any kind of professional or business relationship. Mercury and Jupiter in combination rule success in commerce.


Mercury Sextile Mars

With Mercury sextile Mars in your composite chart, you will be able to hold your own verbally and intellectually better as a couple than you could separately. Your minds seem to complement each other and make a stronger and more aggressive whole. You are likely to express your feelings to each other quite forcefully, but not necessarily destructively. In fact, this forcefulness will cause you both to say things that ought to be expressed between two people but often are not. Expressing your ideas and feelings openly will be one of the strong points of this relationship. In a business or professional relationship this aspect signifies competitiveness and the ability to stand up for yourselves in any commercial activity, particularly the communications media. This aspect also denotes people working together for common beliefs and expending great mental energy in shared effort. It is excellent for any enterprise that involves a good deal of mental work.

Venus in Sagittarius

Freedom-thats the essence of Sagittarius. And love is hard on freedom. Sagittarius is above all, about principles and ideals. These two people need to make sure right from the beginning that they're in philosophical accord about the "rules" of human bonding. For one thing the romantic, erotic bonds of their relationship simply thrive on such talk. A sure sign that the bond is healthy is that they stay up late at night talking about life's big themes. Little will destroy their more effectively than serious differences at the level of principle, over the ground rules of intimacy. And many of the most pivotal discussions will revolve around finding their unique way of resolving the tension between love and freedom. You will benefit enormously from shared travel. Taking classes together and generally avoiding the stultifying "normalcy" that so often arises once a couple settles down together.

Venus in the 8th house

Astrologically a planet in the 8th house describes the deepest elements of our sexuality. Any planet there gives us a lot of insight into what part of the psyche absolutely must be engaged if we are going to be able to sustain any kind of sexual response in a relationship. With the composite Venus in the 8th house, maintaining the romantic feeling is central for this couple. Without it, sex, however orgasmic or gymnastic, would collapse. Sex can exist without love. That's not always a pretty sight, but it's a common enough situation in the adult world. Not for these two though.

These romantic sexual feelings abound automatically at the beginning of the partnership with this composite Venus. From the beginning these two make love, rather than other activities that superficially resemble it. Tenderness and sweetness and care flow like a tide between them, washing the shores of the two aluen continents, bringing them closer together. Once sexuality is expressed the bonding process is kick started. Caution and mistrust are bypassed. The mating bond with all it's instinctual needs and fears gets established quickly. This is beautiful thing but it requires a lot of care and feeding. Always the stability of the connection requires satisfying the goddess of love, and not unduly defending her. She likes to see people treat each other as lovers, which means never taking each other for granted or behaving dismissively or crassly. Venus wants people to seduce each other from time to time. In a nutshell, with composite Venus in the 8th house these two have been given a priceless gift from the gods and goddesses. Their task is to take care of it.

Venus Conjunct Neptune

This combination of Venus and Neptune can be a beautiful illusion, or it can be the perfect mystical ideal union, which obviously is an ideal that is not easily achieved. A love relationship with this aspect usually starts out in a burst of romantic fervor. Unfortunately, however, such a relationship usually doesn't take place between two real individuals but between two fantasies that people form about each other. If in fact you both come close to each other's ideal, you will have a beautiful relationship. But be honest with yourselves; such ideal situations are rather rare. Often this aspect will bring the deepest love but no sex. Even a friendship will have this idealistic quality. The important reminder with this aspect is to be realistic.

Venus Trine Ascendant

The trine of composite Venus and Ascendant is one of the best aspects to have in a composite chart. It indicates that the two of you enjoy each other and that your love is founded on the ability to be yourselves in each other's company. It is not just that you have good feelings for each other, but that the way you feel about each other broadens your understanding of life in general. On another level, you enjoy having good times together. You like to go out and attend the theater, nightclubs, and other amusements. If you have come together for business or professional reasons, you would succeed quite well in professions relating to these fields. Under any circumstances this aspect should help to make your relationship pleasant and worth having.

Venus Sextile Pluto

Venus sextile Pluto in the composite chart is an intensely transforming aspect, but it works in an undemanding way. The basic significance of this aspect is that your relationship will change the ways you think about the world, as well as changing your personal objectives. You both will be changed by the relationship, but you may not be aware of the process as it is happening. The only thing you will notice is that your feelings will have a depth that is not often found in a relationship. Even a friendship with this aspect will have a greater sense of emotional involvement than usual. In a sexual relationship the qualities of this aspect become especially evident. The whole relationship, and particularly the physical part of it, becomes a way of transcending the ordinariness of life. Do not treat this relationship lightly, but do not be afraid of it either. It can be particularly rewarding.

Venus Sextile Uranus

The sextile of Venus and Uranus in the composite chart indicates a relationship that is very free and open in its expression. You each have freedom to be yourselves, and you will not consider your partner to be your property. Probably you will reach some unconventional arrangement with each other, an arrangement that others may think very unusual. At the same time, this relationship will change your thinking, for the experience of it will cause both of you to regard the world in a new light. Even the usual categories, such as friendships or love affairs (regardless of your sex), will not be followed in the usual way at all. If it is a love affair it will also be a friendship. Let yourself flow with the tide of events in this relationship. If you let it establish its own patterns, you should find it quite good.

Moon Opposition Mars

The opposition of the Moon and Mars can be a very explosive aspect in a composite chart. It is an indication of anger and hostility breaking out, which can transform any kind of relationship into open warfare. One certainty is that you will never have to worry about repressing your feelings when you ought to express them. The problem is to make the expression creative, so that it can help the two of you grow, instead of just being a destructive outburst. When difficulties arise, try to keep calm for a little while and make some kind of rational sense out of what is happening. When people with this combination do blow up, it's all over with quickly, because all the negative energy is expended. But because the energies arise so often, quite a bit of damage occurs anyway. Expressing your real feelings honestly is essential with this aspect. Simply try to keep it under control.


Mars in Libra

With composite Mars in the sign of the artist, the aesthetic component of love making and unhesitating recourse to anything which heightens the asthetic component, are vitally important. The need here is to make the acxt of love a full of beauty as possible. This couples evolutionary intent is to achieve a harmonious give-and -take in the erotic expression of their love and avoid crassness, crudity or selfishness with each other. If that goal is attained, they will have learned a great deal about how to handle intimate conflict outside of the bedroom, too. Therefore any attempt to suppress, minimize or ignore the differences in their sexuality can provoke rage or hurt in one or both partners, seemingly all out of proportion to the seriousness of the offense. If the tiff isn't dealt with promptly and fairly this couple may retreat into icy formality. Listen openly and sensitively to one another, then treat each other with romance, courtesy and focused empathy, and bring as much sheer beauty to the experience as possible.

Mars in 7th

The God of war in the house of marriage? Yikes! It sounds pretty grim- but fear not. For one thing the 7th house always refers to other people. Conflict with others is a real possibility, but their is a higher ground too. Boundaries must be set-and defended. It is highly probable that early in the relationship you will encounter people-possibly couples who seem hell bent on sabotaging your trust for each other or your faith in the relationship. These may be individuals you have trusted in the past. But their is something about you two together that pushes their buttons. The challenge here is to stand up to them proudly and confidently. They can accept your love for each other and respect it. Or they can kiss you goodbye. It's their call. And something steely and loyal is forged between the two of you in that encounter.

On the more positive note, with Mars in the 7th house the right friendships must be established to support the primary bond. These will be with Martial people. That means honest direct folks, people who don't mince words with you, but upon who you can count when the fur starts flying. If they are other couples they will probably be rather rank with you about their sexuality and about their conflicts. You'll sense a deep loyalty to each other, but no undue respect- they'll tease and challenge each other. The couple with Mars in the 7th house is learning something about the right channeling of heat, passion, anger and friction within the context of an ongoing bond of radical, die with your boots on commitment: we trust slowly and we choose our friends carefully, testing their honesty about their loyalty. But once chosen we don't look back.

Mars Opposition Jupiter

This aspect between Mars and Jupiter in the composite chart is one of the easiest oppositions to work with. It does create within a relationship a great deal of energy that must be given some kind of outlet. If the energy is bottled up, it can create problems. To use the energy of this aspect, it is necessary for the two of you to be active together. Whenever practical, you must do things jointly and pool your resources. If you do, you will find that together you can perform tasks that you could never do as separate individuals. You arouse physical energy in each other. But if you do not find an outlet by working together, the energy can create a competitiveness that will tend to break up rather than cement the relationship. You will spur each other on to action in a light-hearted and friendly way. You may tease and make fun of each other, but this competitiveness will not become destructive unless you try to suppress it. If you work together cooperatively, the best of this aspect's energies will be brought out in your relationship.

Jupiter in Aries

With their composite Jupiter in this sign the bond between these two people grows deeper and deeper and stronger when they stand there ground for each other in stressful situations. The loyalty that links you can be fierce and lifelong. There are adventures with each other, and you two need adventure and they need edge, the more you take risks together and learn to count on each other the deeper your love grows. Composite Jupiter in Aries also manifests positively when one of them takes an emotional risk with the other. You can be profoundly loyal to each other, willing even to die for each other. But they also need to express respect and dignity toward each other, or their swords will be drawn. And that is the essence of Jupiter in Aries - this fire needs to be directed into forging the bond between them.

Jupiter in the 1st House

An expansive generous energy radiates from them. The challenge of having Jupiter in the 1st is living up to youir own legend. Mere appearances are insufficient. The ideal here is to live the ideal of the enviable, delightful intimate bond. Jupiter simply asks not to settle for anything less, but the best they have to offer. To press constantly toward the higher ground. Paradoxically to use hope's constant companion, discontent as a goad toward constant improvement.

Saturn in Taurus

Peace, serenity of spirit. A grounded feeling of being at ease in our skins. The comforts, simplicity. Security. These are the evolutionary goals of Taurus. The great work of this couples life life lies in creating that mood in their relationship. For the couple with composite Saturn in Taurus, rational financial behavior is in fact a significant part of their evolutionary strategy. Without it, anxiety naturally arises and poses a big obstacle in their maturational process. For this couple there is an evolutionary thrust toward radical commitment to each other- deep promises, a humble willingness to accept each other, and above all shared images of growing old together.

Saturn in 2nd house

If you commit to this relationship, you will probably work hard for every penny, and gradually, soberly, build a solid material basis for the life they share. Sudden windfall of wealth is not to be expected, slow methodical growth is. That is the spirit of the ringed planet. You also need to be wary that the pursuit of money does not take up too much time and attention. The second house is also related to self confidence, these two face the risk of simply not believing in themselves sufficiently as a couple.. Instead of squandering money now and again they squander the relationship! Everything under the domain of the ringed planet takes time and patience. This is the kind of connection that could be a slow-cooker, building gradually into something that is more than either person imagined it to be at the beginning. As the story unfolds and various milestones of deepening commitment are passed, composite Saturn in the 2nd house becomes a rock solid foundation for a long, grown up future together.

Uranus in Libra

The relationship itself and the very notion of relating is under scrutiny by the lord of independence. This couple needs to choose to be together, not drift into a relationship through habit and because of societal expectations. They may well question some age old traditions around love, and come up with their own answers. Whatever they do, they shouldn't take the relationship as a given, but as a living, breathing art, a work in progress, a balancing act. How this couple deals with friendships may also be affected by composite Uranus in Libra. Choosing friends, and deciding on their friends roles and importance in the relationship, can be a brave new world for these partners. The challenge for these two is to make the relationship a day by day performance art, deliberately chosen, and not to hide behind a wall of "niceness".

Uranus in the 7th house

External partners play a crucial role in the primary relationship. With Uranus in the 7th house there is a need for feed back about leading their lives as a couple, about designing their own unique relationship, that comes from sources outside themselves. The people who carry this message are Uranian. They are independent and highly individuated, even quirky and eccentric. They are very much their own persons. Maybe these people in your life as a couple teach by example, these Uranian soul mates have a lot to say on how we distort ourselves and our partners to make a relationship work, and how we might behave In ways which are more authentic for us.

Uranus Opposition Ascendant

The opposition of composite Uranus and Ascendant signifies that it will be very difficult to settle this relationship into any accustomed and conventional patterns. For this reason it is often a sign of an unstable relationship, one that has many serious ups and downs and may even break up and come together again repeatedly. Trying to fit a relationship like this into any kind of legally set pattern is likely to trigger its most unstable aspects. This relationship will work well as long as it revolutionizes your lives, which it will at first, and as long as it is exciting. If this is a marriage, the two of you must operate with as few rules as possible. You cannot impose rules upon each other, only on yourselves.
One other problem that may arise with this aspect is that the two of you may be challenged by people outside the relationship. Others may try to disrupt this relationship and break it up, but if their power does not become too great, it may even be a binding force between you.

Neptune in Scorpio

You need to build the soul passion between you. Not letting anger build up and fester will go a long way to helping sex stay as fervent and bond building as it can be with this placement. Strive to settle conflicts fairly as well as quickly. Try to remember that one reason why your shadows are emerging is so that they can be seen, accepted and perhaps partially integrated, not shunned or denied or subjected to psychological character assassination.

Neptune in the 8th

If they are not feeling emotionally connected to each other they should refrain from sexual expression until they've talked about what separated them. They need to be wary about overriding psychic walls between them with alcohol or drugs - again talk works better. You simply need to keep the divine present between you. That energy will carry you into worlds you never imagined - and anything less will bore you, first into the mechanical responses, and then either into boredom induced celibacy , separation or affairs.

Neptune Trine Ascendant

The trine of composite Neptune and Ascendant indicates a relationship in which idealistic and spiritual elements are very strong.
If you are a man and woman, this aspect may be a sign of a platonic relationship. Even if your relationship is not platonic, there will still be a strong spiritual emphasis. This relationship may stimulate interest in occult and metaphysical studies. In a love relationship there is often a strong tendency toward excessive romanticism. You both may idealize the relationship and each other to a degree beyond all reason. Be very careful of this, and make sure that you are relating to your real partner and not to some illusion you have created. In general, this aspect can make a relationship quite beautiful, although not totally realistic. Strive to emphasize the beautiful without being carried away by your own idealism.

Neptune Sextile Pluto

These two planets move very slowly. In the second half of the 20th century they were running at the same speed and formed a sextile for many years, which many living couples have now in their composite horoscope. An individual interpretation of this aspect would not be appropriate.

Pluto in Virgo

A deep sense of inadequacy is at work in this couple. Their self-esteem their ability to see positive outcomes, their capacity to accept a flawed reality, a body,a person. a relationship - were all wounded long ago. Thus we find a complex set of issues regarding criticism, guilt and shame. They may judge themselves, one another and the world too harshly, and dole out punishment for not being perfect, self destructiveness, risky behavior, negativity, consistently underestimating themselves and selling themselves short. On the opposite side of the coin they may defend against those feelings by becoming grandiose, blaming everyone and everything other than themselves for what's wrong with their lives, and being unable to bear criticism. The underlying logic is that if I don't try, I will be safe from the repetition of that crushing failure.

The "cure" for the Virgo Plutonian wound in the composite chart lies in the area of recognizing that perfection is an unattainable goal. Working to wards growth and improvement, on the other hand, is both attainable and healing. This couple should work on themselves, work on the relationship, and find someway together to contribute to the larger human good.

Pluto in the 6th

With the couple with Pluto In the 6th house, this couple is very likely to deserve a gold medal in troubled times - they'll come through for us like saints. They are also a magnet for such situations. Together they'll see more than their fair share of difficulties. If not in their own lives than in the lives of those around them: disease family dysfunction, existential and economic reversals.

Underlying these surface behaviors is a wound. To grasp it's nature and it's impact on their present life together,w e need to recognize that sixth house "service" has a lot of meanings. Some of them are bitter and these two have been wounded there. We view that wound as karmic, that is leftover damage inside from a previous lifetime together in the reincarnations sense. What matters is healing that wound, this couple experienced some trauma connected to a grievous weight of unwanted responsibility. There are duties from which in good conscience we cannot escape, a dependent child or aged parent may simply objectively need us, for example. Perhaps you two were in chains together as in slavery, and if thats not factually true, those words at least provide the right metaphor.

Karma tends to repeat, this is why we emphasis the danger of the joy of this relationship being diminished by pressing, exhausting duties - old patterns may manifest again, either in the form of circumstances or, more likely, in the form of an old tendency to accept burdens which they could in fact ethically refuse in the present context. Lets also add that the real shared soul-intention here is to find meaningful service, and transmute the karma into something higher, sweeter, and far more rewarding.

Pluto Opposition Ascendant

The opposition of composite Pluto and Ascendant can have very different effects. In any case, this will be a very intense relationship, whether it is good or bad. If you love each other, you will love passionately. If you hate each other, you will hate with just as much passion.
At its worst, this aspect denotes an endless power struggle between the two of you, with neither one able to let the other be. Such a relationship can develop into a situation of unparalleled bitterness. Sometimes the energy of Pluto will turn outward, in which case you will be caught in power struggles with others. This relationship arouses energies in the two of you that will not allow matters to stay as they are. What you have to learn is that the changes you seek must come about through natural evolution, not through your urging. Even if you do not consciously work at it, the Pluto energies will operate, but they will work out better if your ego is not so heavily involved. What you can have in this relationship, if you learn to let matters be, is a tremendously significant encounter that will revolutionize your lives and put you on a whole new path.

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Re: Composite chart for romance

on first glance there are so obvious problems.the uranus inthe 7th conjunct the descendent usaully indicates a intense put unstable relationship.the chiron on the ascendant indicates that there will be too much criticism in the realtionship and not enough nurturing.but june sexitle venus and these planets sextile /trine to the asc/desc there is a possibilty that there is enough love to overscome the dispersive factor.
the moon/saturn conjunction square juno indicates that there is a longterm focus with a emphasis on makiing the relationship work.the venus/juno sextile also shows this tendency.the jupiter/moon midppoint opposed to mars indicates a potential for a stable ,longterm relationship.the sun/jupiter trine though loose,shows a good hearted optimism and respect in the relationship.the uranus sextile the sun/venus midpoint indicates a s lively.idealistic emotional connection that brings a sparkle without a burn out emotionally cont
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Shining Ray, wow, many thanks for such indepth input! I've printed it out to have a read later. At first glance many things here I've actually seen already when we were together before - Uranus in 7th one of the main factors I couldnt handle before. Uranus being something you just cannot control, and me being a bit of a control freak with my bright Capricorn Sun!

Rahu, many thanks very much for your analysis. This Uranus on 7th - it always felt unstable, maybe thats why we split up before, as well as things outside our control. And the Chiron on Ascendant, lots of the critisism came from me! He does seem to be making the effort to charm me again, and I'm responding in a warm way, some Jupiter influence.

Moon/Saturn conjunction in composite and synastry does give a very stable feeling that I think we both like. I'm wondering whether my Saturn in his 12house might make him feel a little uncomfortable? Especially since my Saturn squares my Pluto - maybe he might feel a little overpowered by me?

And I'm also very curious what it means when my Saturn sxact trines his Chiron? Could this be something to do with fatherhood issues? He is a single father.

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I was hoping someone could comment on my composite chart with a man that i really felt a past life connection with and he also. However we had issues communicating the chemistry was amazing but we couldnt get past a competition thing or something. Any advice?? thanks so much!
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Where did you get this composite reading from? Interesting....



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Here is a composite reading.


Sun In Sagittarius


There is no sign in the zodiac so orientated to sheer intensity of sensory experience as Sagittarius. With their composite Sun in this sign these two people have signed up for a roller coaster ride. Regardless of their natures as individuals, there is something in the chemistry they share that attracts life's wild side. For the relationship to feel fully alive, they need to pack in the experience of 10 lifetimes. Should life become too prosaic and predictable, something vital seeps out of this relationship. Boredom can kill it faster than any other toxin. Together these two need freshness and wonder. They need stretch. They need to magnetize extremity into the life they share. Ultimately, the feeling for this couple with their composite Sun in Sagittarius is one of being on a quest. together they are endlessly seeking something. The actual nature of that something is elusive, but what it boils down to is a meaningful life. They will pursue it down cross cultural roads, taking pieces of the puzzle from various different nations and mythologies. They will chase it through education in the broadest sense - learning together, and talking about what they've learned, whether it's through books classes or other sources. They'll perhaps be drawn to religion, and almost surely to philosophy. Always the road stretches a little further before them - just one more horizon and they'll be there.

Sun in 9th

Composite Sun in the ninth house indicates a relationship that involves the growth of consciousness. Particularly in a personal relationship, the experiences that you undergo will give you greater understanding and insight into what is going on in your world. With the Sun in this position, a relationship between the sexes may tend to become platonic. The two of you will be very interested in communication and the sharing of ideas. You may travel quite a bit or at least be interested in foreign or distant places. For a personal relationship the only possible defect of this placement is that the relationship is likely to be more intellectual than emotional. This position is useful in any type of relationship because it indicates that together you have foresight and the ability to plan ahead for the long haul.

Sun Trine Ascendant

The trine of the composite Sun and the Ascendant is a very easy combination in the composite chart. The two of you radiate good energies, and other people like being in your company because you enjoy being with them. At the same time, the trine means that the two of you find it easy to be yourselves with each other. As a consequence, this is a good aspect to have in the chart of a love relationship or close friendship. The trine also means that this relationship will have a strong effect on your consciousness. You will have new experiences together that you might not have had otherwise, and you may even travel a lot more than you did before you came together. Since your philosophies of life are compatible, you will not find it necessary to argue about the different ways in which you see things.

Sun Trine Jupiter

Sun trine Jupiter in the composite chart gives your relationship a good start, and it will be a favorable and positive experience for both of you. You will have whatever you feel you really need in your life together. You will find that together you are able to express yourselves more adequately to the world than you can as individuals. Your understanding of each other will constantly broaden, giving you the wisdom and openness to deal creatively with any difficulties that arise in your relationship. You have a sense of cheerful optimism and a feeling that together you can handle anything the world may throw at you. And the chances are good that you can. It is likely that you will travel together and perhaps go abroad or have connections with foreign places and people. Even if you don't actually travel, you will certainly go places together in your mind, exploring new ideas, new concepts, and new dimensions of living.

Sun Sextile Uranus

The sextile of composite Sun and Uranus indicates that this relationship will seek out a path of its own, defining new standards of behavior and changing your thinking. While most relationships are very much restricted to the two individuals involved, this one will be open to contact with others, almost as if you must share what you have with as many people as possible. If it is a sexual relationship, therefore, it will be quite open and free. A friendship with this configuration will constantly challenge and stimulate the world- views of you both and of those around you. And the more you allow this exchange, the better the relationship will be. Don't allow laziness or fear of experimentation to let this partnership fall into conventional patterns. To do so would be to weaken something that should be a highly stimulating and creative experience for both of you.

Moon in Aries

This couple needs something to pursue together. They need combats and victories. When all that Aries energy is directed consciously and the heart of the relationship is fed, these two can not only have a lot of fun, they can experience a profound and growing loyalty to one another. Because they've faced foes together, each partner will know the mate is a good person to have at his or her back in a fight. The couple with this composite Moon the home is best designed to be dashed through at top speed, with frequently needed objects close at hand, a minimum of clutter to trip over. It may not be the most relaxing home on the block, but a visit there can be most invigorating.

Moon in 1st

The Moons general influence is very strong in this couple. There is a lot of soul in this relationship - and a lot of moodiness to go along with it. Feelings are central to all intimate bonds, but they can run at a higher voltage for this couple. The relationship carries it's emotional energy close to the surface. The key is to make sure the relationships needs are well met. The nature of these needs has a lot to do with the inner agenda of the sign the Moon occupies.

Moon Conjunct Saturn

The conjunction of composite Moon and Saturn can create an emotional barrier between you, so that you have trouble communicating with each other on a feeling level. You will do a lot of analyzing, both of the relationship and of each other. The danger is that you will make things seem worse than they are. At best, analyzing your relationship can help you understand what you have together, but it cannot completely replace intuitive communication. This aspect may cause the two of you to subordinate emotional considerations to supposed necessities or responsibilities, denying yourselves the joy and pleasure of open and relaxed self-expression. Try to relax together and not be so serious about things.

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

The conjunction of the Moon and Jupiter in a composite chart is a very favorable indication for any kind of personal relationship. You feel warm toward each other, and you can express your feelings easily and with enthusiasm. At the same time, you respect each other's emotions. You feel quite protective of your partner and try to keep him or her from being emotionally hurt by others. You have a great deal of respect for each other's freedom and individual rights. When disputes do arise, you will try to deal with them in a very high-minded manner. You will discuss the issues openly and try to resolve them in a way that is fair to both of you.

Moon Opposition Mars

The opposition of the Moon and Mars can be a very explosive aspect in a composite chart. It is an indication of anger and hostility breaking out, which can transform any kind of relationship into open warfare. One certainty is that you will never have to worry about repressing your feelings when you ought to express them. The problem is to make the expression creative, so that it can help the two of you grow, instead of just being a destructive outburst. When difficulties arise, try to keep calm for a little while and make some kind of rational sense out of what is happening. When people with this combination do blow up, it's all over with quickly, because all the negative energy is expended. But because the energies arise so often, quite a bit of damage occurs anyway. Expressing your real feelings honestly is essential with this aspect. Simply try to keep it under control.

Moon Trine Mercury

The trine of Mercury and Moon in a composite chart indicates that there is great potential for intellectual and emotional growth through this relationship. It means that you can communicate in a positive way about your feelings and opinions and that your basic philosophies of life are compatible, which reinforces your emotional compatibility. When a situation arises that requires the two of you to sit down and discuss your problems, you can do so easily and with the proper blend of objectivity and involvement. As a couple, you are open to new ideas and experiences and consequently enjoy exploring different areas of your lives together. At the same time you are not afraid to express your ideas freely and completely. With any effort at all, you should be able to exploit the potentials offered by this aspect and to grow tremendously through this relationship.

Mercury Square Pluto

The square of composite Mercury and Pluto poses some challenges to any relationship, the greatest of which is learning to tolerate each other's ideas. This aspect implies intellectual power struggles as each of you tries to impose your own thinking upon the other. If you can enlarge your own views enough to encompass your partner's, you will have the capacity to truly understand that point of view and include that perception of the truth in your own perception. Here again, as with the conjunction, the energy may be turned outward, so that the two of you are always trying to influence other people's opinions. Here also there is a danger that you could provoke a damaging response; other people, instinctively fearing domination, might fight back against your ideas


Mercury in Sagittarius

Always make sure there is something interesting to discuss, something new to experience together. There is a distinct tendency to assign meaning rather than treat the experience as an objective bit of data. in extreme cases Mercury in Sagittarius can be so busy looking for the meaning of a situation that they forget about the details.

Mercury in the 9th

With the composite Mercury in the 9th house a shared life of the mind is almost a 'religion' for this couple. Without a shared commitment in life they might start to wonder why they're together and what their relationship is all about. Ideally they should resolve to keep nurturing each others curiosity. If each of them feels that the relationship challenges them to grow more than they would grow if they weren't together, they're on the right track. Shared interests in travel might come into play here or literature. Or in computers, languages, biophysics, medieval cosmologies the Sky's the limit. The couple needs to experience the various ways they understand the world.

Mercury Trine Jupiter

Mercury trine Jupiter in the composite chart is an excellent indication of a good intellectual and mental relationship. You should find that your outlooks on life are very similar or at least complementary. Even while you are getting to know each other, you will not have to spend a lot of time defining basic issues for each other. At the same time, this relationship will have a great consciousness-expanding effect upon you, and you will be able to see the world in ways that you have never seen it before. This may be true in a literal sense, in that you may travel together more than before, because of opportunities arising from knowing each other. This aspect is also particularly good for any kind of professional or business relationship. Mercury and Jupiter in combination rule success in commerce.


Mercury Sextile Mars

With Mercury sextile Mars in your composite chart, you will be able to hold your own verbally and intellectually better as a couple than you could separately. Your minds seem to complement each other and make a stronger and more aggressive whole. You are likely to express your feelings to each other quite forcefully, but not necessarily destructively. In fact, this forcefulness will cause you both to say things that ought to be expressed between two people but often are not. Expressing your ideas and feelings openly will be one of the strong points of this relationship. In a business or professional relationship this aspect signifies competitiveness and the ability to stand up for yourselves in any commercial activity, particularly the communications media. This aspect also denotes people working together for common beliefs and expending great mental energy in shared effort. It is excellent for any enterprise that involves a good deal of mental work.

Venus in Sagittarius

Freedom-thats the essence of Sagittarius. And love is hard on freedom. Sagittarius is above all, about principles and ideals. These two people need to make sure right from the beginning that they're in philosophical accord about the "rules" of human bonding. For one thing the romantic, erotic bonds of their relationship simply thrive on such talk. A sure sign that the bond is healthy is that they stay up late at night talking about life's big themes. Little will destroy their more effectively than serious differences at the level of principle, over the ground rules of intimacy. And many of the most pivotal discussions will revolve around finding their unique way of resolving the tension between love and freedom. You will benefit enormously from shared travel. Taking classes together and generally avoiding the stultifying "normalcy" that so often arises once a couple settles down together.

Venus in the 8th house

Astrologically a planet in the 8th house describes the deepest elements of our sexuality. Any planet there gives us a lot of insight into what part of the psyche absolutely must be engaged if we are going to be able to sustain any kind of sexual response in a relationship. With the composite Venus in the 8th house, maintaining the romantic feeling is central for this couple. Without it, sex, however orgasmic or gymnastic, would collapse. Sex can exist without love. That's not always a pretty sight, but it's a common enough situation in the adult world. Not for these two though.

These romantic sexual feelings abound automatically at the beginning of the partnership with this composite Venus. From the beginning these two make love, rather than other activities that superficially resemble it. Tenderness and sweetness and care flow like a tide between them, washing the shores of the two aluen continents, bringing them closer together. Once sexuality is expressed the bonding process is kick started. Caution and mistrust are bypassed. The mating bond with all it's instinctual needs and fears gets established quickly. This is beautiful thing but it requires a lot of care and feeding. Always the stability of the connection requires satisfying the goddess of love, and not unduly defending her. She likes to see people treat each other as lovers, which means never taking each other for granted or behaving dismissively or crassly. Venus wants people to seduce each other from time to time. In a nutshell, with composite Venus in the 8th house these two have been given a priceless gift from the gods and goddesses. Their task is to take care of it.

Venus Conjunct Neptune

This combination of Venus and Neptune can be a beautiful illusion, or it can be the perfect mystical ideal union, which obviously is an ideal that is not easily achieved. A love relationship with this aspect usually starts out in a burst of romantic fervor. Unfortunately, however, such a relationship usually doesn't take place between two real individuals but between two fantasies that people form about each other. If in fact you both come close to each other's ideal, you will have a beautiful relationship. But be honest with yourselves; such ideal situations are rather rare. Often this aspect will bring the deepest love but no sex. Even a friendship will have this idealistic quality. The important reminder with this aspect is to be realistic.

Venus Trine Ascendant

The trine of composite Venus and Ascendant is one of the best aspects to have in a composite chart. It indicates that the two of you enjoy each other and that your love is founded on the ability to be yourselves in each other's company. It is not just that you have good feelings for each other, but that the way you feel about each other broadens your understanding of life in general. On another level, you enjoy having good times together. You like to go out and attend the theater, nightclubs, and other amusements. If you have come together for business or professional reasons, you would succeed quite well in professions relating to these fields. Under any circumstances this aspect should help to make your relationship pleasant and worth having.

Venus Sextile Pluto

Venus sextile Pluto in the composite chart is an intensely transforming aspect, but it works in an undemanding way. The basic significance of this aspect is that your relationship will change the ways you think about the world, as well as changing your personal objectives. You both will be changed by the relationship, but you may not be aware of the process as it is happening. The only thing you will notice is that your feelings will have a depth that is not often found in a relationship. Even a friendship with this aspect will have a greater sense of emotional involvement than usual. In a sexual relationship the qualities of this aspect become especially evident. The whole relationship, and particularly the physical part of it, becomes a way of transcending the ordinariness of life. Do not treat this relationship lightly, but do not be afraid of it either. It can be particularly rewarding.

Venus Sextile Uranus

The sextile of Venus and Uranus in the composite chart indicates a relationship that is very free and open in its expression. You each have freedom to be yourselves, and you will not consider your partner to be your property. Probably you will reach some unconventional arrangement with each other, an arrangement that others may think very unusual. At the same time, this relationship will change your thinking, for the experience of it will cause both of you to regard the world in a new light. Even the usual categories, such as friendships or love affairs (regardless of your sex), will not be followed in the usual way at all. If it is a love affair it will also be a friendship. Let yourself flow with the tide of events in this relationship. If you let it establish its own patterns, you should find it quite good.

Moon Opposition Mars

The opposition of the Moon and Mars can be a very explosive aspect in a composite chart. It is an indication of anger and hostility breaking out, which can transform any kind of relationship into open warfare. One certainty is that you will never have to worry about repressing your feelings when you ought to express them. The problem is to make the expression creative, so that it can help the two of you grow, instead of just being a destructive outburst. When difficulties arise, try to keep calm for a little while and make some kind of rational sense out of what is happening. When people with this combination do blow up, it's all over with quickly, because all the negative energy is expended. But because the energies arise so often, quite a bit of damage occurs anyway. Expressing your real feelings honestly is essential with this aspect. Simply try to keep it under control.


Mars in Libra

With composite Mars in the sign of the artist, the aesthetic component of love making and unhesitating recourse to anything which heightens the asthetic component, are vitally important. The need here is to make the acxt of love a full of beauty as possible. This couples evolutionary intent is to achieve a harmonious give-and -take in the erotic expression of their love and avoid crassness, crudity or selfishness with each other. If that goal is attained, they will have learned a great deal about how to handle intimate conflict outside of the bedroom, too. Therefore any attempt to suppress, minimize or ignore the differences in their sexuality can provoke rage or hurt in one or both partners, seemingly all out of proportion to the seriousness of the offense. If the tiff isn't dealt with promptly and fairly this couple may retreat into icy formality. Listen openly and sensitively to one another, then treat each other with romance, courtesy and focused empathy, and bring as much sheer beauty to the experience as possible.

Mars in 7th

The God of war in the house of marriage? Yikes! It sounds pretty grim- but fear not. For one thing the 7th house always refers to other people. Conflict with others is a real possibility, but their is a higher ground too. Boundaries must be set-and defended. It is highly probable that early in the relationship you will encounter people-possibly couples who seem hell bent on sabotaging your trust for each other or your faith in the relationship. These may be individuals you have trusted in the past. But their is something about you two together that pushes their buttons. The challenge here is to stand up to them proudly and confidently. They can accept your love for each other and respect it. Or they can kiss you goodbye. It's their call. And something steely and loyal is forged between the two of you in that encounter.

On the more positive note, with Mars in the 7th house the right friendships must be established to support the primary bond. These will be with Martial people. That means honest direct folks, people who don't mince words with you, but upon who you can count when the fur starts flying. If they are other couples they will probably be rather rank with you about their sexuality and about their conflicts. You'll sense a deep loyalty to each other, but no undue respect- they'll tease and challenge each other. The couple with Mars in the 7th house is learning something about the right channeling of heat, passion, anger and friction within the context of an ongoing bond of radical, die with your boots on commitment: we trust slowly and we choose our friends carefully, testing their honesty about their loyalty. But once chosen we don't look back.

Mars Opposition Jupiter

This aspect between Mars and Jupiter in the composite chart is one of the easiest oppositions to work with. It does create within a relationship a great deal of energy that must be given some kind of outlet. If the energy is bottled up, it can create problems. To use the energy of this aspect, it is necessary for the two of you to be active together. Whenever practical, you must do things jointly and pool your resources. If you do, you will find that together you can perform tasks that you could never do as separate individuals. You arouse physical energy in each other. But if you do not find an outlet by working together, the energy can create a competitiveness that will tend to break up rather than cement the relationship. You will spur each other on to action in a light-hearted and friendly way. You may tease and make fun of each other, but this competitiveness will not become destructive unless you try to suppress it. If you work together cooperatively, the best of this aspect's energies will be brought out in your relationship.

Jupiter in Aries

With their composite Jupiter in this sign the bond between these two people grows deeper and deeper and stronger when they stand there ground for each other in stressful situations. The loyalty that links you can be fierce and lifelong. There are adventures with each other, and you two need adventure and they need edge, the more you take risks together and learn to count on each other the deeper your love grows. Composite Jupiter in Aries also manifests positively when one of them takes an emotional risk with the other. You can be profoundly loyal to each other, willing even to die for each other. But they also need to express respect and dignity toward each other, or their swords will be drawn. And that is the essence of Jupiter in Aries - this fire needs to be directed into forging the bond between them.

Jupiter in the 1st House

An expansive generous energy radiates from them. The challenge of having Jupiter in the 1st is living up to youir own legend. Mere appearances are insufficient. The ideal here is to live the ideal of the enviable, delightful intimate bond. Jupiter simply asks not to settle for anything less, but the best they have to offer. To press constantly toward the higher ground. Paradoxically to use hope's constant companion, discontent as a goad toward constant improvement.

Saturn in Taurus

Peace, serenity of spirit. A grounded feeling of being at ease in our skins. The comforts, simplicity. Security. These are the evolutionary goals of Taurus. The great work of this couples life life lies in creating that mood in their relationship. For the couple with composite Saturn in Taurus, rational financial behavior is in fact a significant part of their evolutionary strategy. Without it, anxiety naturally arises and poses a big obstacle in their maturational process. For this couple there is an evolutionary thrust toward radical commitment to each other- deep promises, a humble willingness to accept each other, and above all shared images of growing old together.

Saturn in 2nd house

If you commit to this relationship, you will probably work hard for every penny, and gradually, soberly, build a solid material basis for the life they share. Sudden windfall of wealth is not to be expected, slow methodical growth is. That is the spirit of the ringed planet. You also need to be wary that the pursuit of money does not take up too much time and attention. The second house is also related to self confidence, these two face the risk of simply not believing in themselves sufficiently as a couple.. Instead of squandering money now and again they squander the relationship! Everything under the domain of the ringed planet takes time and patience. This is the kind of connection that could be a slow-cooker, building gradually into something that is more than either person imagined it to be at the beginning. As the story unfolds and various milestones of deepening commitment are passed, composite Saturn in the 2nd house becomes a rock solid foundation for a long, grown up future together.

Uranus in Libra

The relationship itself and the very notion of relating is under scrutiny by the lord of independence. This couple needs to choose to be together, not drift into a relationship through habit and because of societal expectations. They may well question some age old traditions around love, and come up with their own answers. Whatever they do, they shouldn't take the relationship as a given, but as a living, breathing art, a work in progress, a balancing act. How this couple deals with friendships may also be affected by composite Uranus in Libra. Choosing friends, and deciding on their friends roles and importance in the relationship, can be a brave new world for these partners. The challenge for these two is to make the relationship a day by day performance art, deliberately chosen, and not to hide behind a wall of "niceness".

Uranus in the 7th house

External partners play a crucial role in the primary relationship. With Uranus in the 7th house there is a need for feed back about leading their lives as a couple, about designing their own unique relationship, that comes from sources outside themselves. The people who carry this message are Uranian. They are independent and highly individuated, even quirky and eccentric. They are very much their own persons. Maybe these people in your life as a couple teach by example, these Uranian soul mates have a lot to say on how we distort ourselves and our partners to make a relationship work, and how we might behave In ways which are more authentic for us.

Uranus Opposition Ascendant

The opposition of composite Uranus and Ascendant signifies that it will be very difficult to settle this relationship into any accustomed and conventional patterns. For this reason it is often a sign of an unstable relationship, one that has many serious ups and downs and may even break up and come together again repeatedly. Trying to fit a relationship like this into any kind of legally set pattern is likely to trigger its most unstable aspects. This relationship will work well as long as it revolutionizes your lives, which it will at first, and as long as it is exciting. If this is a marriage, the two of you must operate with as few rules as possible. You cannot impose rules upon each other, only on yourselves.
One other problem that may arise with this aspect is that the two of you may be challenged by people outside the relationship. Others may try to disrupt this relationship and break it up, but if their power does not become too great, it may even be a binding force between you.

Neptune in Scorpio

You need to build the soul passion between you. Not letting anger build up and fester will go a long way to helping sex stay as fervent and bond building as it can be with this placement. Strive to settle conflicts fairly as well as quickly. Try to remember that one reason why your shadows are emerging is so that they can be seen, accepted and perhaps partially integrated, not shunned or denied or subjected to psychological character assassination.

Neptune in the 8th

If they are not feeling emotionally connected to each other they should refrain from sexual expression until they've talked about what separated them. They need to be wary about overriding psychic walls between them with alcohol or drugs - again talk works better. You simply need to keep the divine present between you. That energy will carry you into worlds you never imagined - and anything less will bore you, first into the mechanical responses, and then either into boredom induced celibacy , separation or affairs.

Neptune Trine Ascendant

The trine of composite Neptune and Ascendant indicates a relationship in which idealistic and spiritual elements are very strong.
If you are a man and woman, this aspect may be a sign of a platonic relationship. Even if your relationship is not platonic, there will still be a strong spiritual emphasis. This relationship may stimulate interest in occult and metaphysical studies. In a love relationship there is often a strong tendency toward excessive romanticism. You both may idealize the relationship and each other to a degree beyond all reason. Be very careful of this, and make sure that you are relating to your real partner and not to some illusion you have created. In general, this aspect can make a relationship quite beautiful, although not totally realistic. Strive to emphasize the beautiful without being carried away by your own idealism.

Neptune Sextile Pluto

These two planets move very slowly. In the second half of the 20th century they were running at the same speed and formed a sextile for many years, which many living couples have now in their composite horoscope. An individual interpretation of this aspect would not be appropriate.

Pluto in Virgo

A deep sense of inadequacy is at work in this couple. Their self-esteem their ability to see positive outcomes, their capacity to accept a flawed reality, a body,a person. a relationship - were all wounded long ago. Thus we find a complex set of issues regarding criticism, guilt and shame. They may judge themselves, one another and the world too harshly, and dole out punishment for not being perfect, self destructiveness, risky behavior, negativity, consistently underestimating themselves and selling themselves short. On the opposite side of the coin they may defend against those feelings by becoming grandiose, blaming everyone and everything other than themselves for what's wrong with their lives, and being unable to bear criticism. The underlying logic is that if I don't try, I will be safe from the repetition of that crushing failure.

The "cure" for the Virgo Plutonian wound in the composite chart lies in the area of recognizing that perfection is an unattainable goal. Working to wards growth and improvement, on the other hand, is both attainable and healing. This couple should work on themselves, work on the relationship, and find someway together to contribute to the larger human good.

Pluto in the 6th

With the couple with Pluto In the 6th house, this couple is very likely to deserve a gold medal in troubled times - they'll come through for us like saints. They are also a magnet for such situations. Together they'll see more than their fair share of difficulties. If not in their own lives than in the lives of those around them: disease family dysfunction, existential and economic reversals.

Underlying these surface behaviors is a wound. To grasp it's nature and it's impact on their present life together,w e need to recognize that sixth house "service" has a lot of meanings. Some of them are bitter and these two have been wounded there. We view that wound as karmic, that is leftover damage inside from a previous lifetime together in the reincarnations sense. What matters is healing that wound, this couple experienced some trauma connected to a grievous weight of unwanted responsibility. There are duties from which in good conscience we cannot escape, a dependent child or aged parent may simply objectively need us, for example. Perhaps you two were in chains together as in slavery, and if thats not factually true, those words at least provide the right metaphor.

Karma tends to repeat, this is why we emphasis the danger of the joy of this relationship being diminished by pressing, exhausting duties - old patterns may manifest again, either in the form of circumstances or, more likely, in the form of an old tendency to accept burdens which they could in fact ethically refuse in the present context. Lets also add that the real shared soul-intention here is to find meaningful service, and transmute the karma into something higher, sweeter, and far more rewarding.

Pluto Opposition Ascendant

The opposition of composite Pluto and Ascendant can have very different effects. In any case, this will be a very intense relationship, whether it is good or bad. If you love each other, you will love passionately. If you hate each other, you will hate with just as much passion.
At its worst, this aspect denotes an endless power struggle between the two of you, with neither one able to let the other be. Such a relationship can develop into a situation of unparalleled bitterness. Sometimes the energy of Pluto will turn outward, in which case you will be caught in power struggles with others. This relationship arouses energies in the two of you that will not allow matters to stay as they are. What you have to learn is that the changes you seek must come about through natural evolution, not through your urging. Even if you do not consciously work at it, the Pluto energies will operate, but they will work out better if your ego is not so heavily involved. What you can have in this relationship, if you learn to let matters be, is a tremendously significant encounter that will revolutionize your lives and put you on a whole new path.
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