How to win back a scorpio woman?
Hi, SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY, PLEASE READ ON AND HELP ME. IM A CAPRICORN BY THE WAY.
Im deeeply in love with my scorpio exgirlfriend. I was her first love, she loved me like crazy, was controlling, obssesive, always did cute things for me like putting love you notes in my jeans for me to find out, giving me presents, stealing kisses when i was thinking, jumping to me for big hugs, shes the best kisser in the world (im second best by ther way). In other words, she didnt need to tell me she loved me cause she showed it and still, she told me everyday. She said to me she saw me one day when she was 9 and said to herself that when she grew up shed make me love her. well she did.
The thing is, one day 3 years ago i was invited to a birthday party of a pretty girl we just met. She said shed like us not to go cause she was jealous of her. I said she has to trust me and that i wouldnt let her control me. Well, we fought, threatened me, and since i hate threats i went to the party alone.
She was so hurt and distant, we stayed toguether but everytime we argued about what icecream flavor to buy shed bring up the birthday party 3 years ago.
Well, Six months ago, we went to a party. The birthday girl of nightmares came, and i told my scorpian that id go say hi, that she should never distrust me cause im not the cheater type (and im not). Well i talked to the other girl for like half hour and then knew she had locked herself in the bathroom to cry. Later she found out that girl had texted me some hello sms and went even madder.
We argued for the smallest things for about three months, until i told her BABY, IF WE CANT STAY 10 DAYS WITHOUT FIGHTING, WE CANT SHARE THE RERST OF OUR LIVES TOGUETHER AND SHOULD SPLIT UP FOR GOOD.
I tried my best to treat her right and dont argue with her in those days, but she couldnt help it so i broke up with her, said we needed a break and if we ever came back we should be more open, understanding, and free.
She hated me for this, cried a lot, screamed, and stayed sad like hell for about 10 days. I was sad like hell too and missing her crazy but thought this would be a necessary step to miss ourselves and start a life toguether.
after the sad days, i asked her to get back toguether. She said yes, but something had changed in her. She dindt give me the same attentionm. she didnt argue or fight but kept going out with friends, dont returning my messages or calls. When i went mad she just said do what you have to do baby. She changed. She started breaking promises and telling lies. So i told her she has changed, that I loved the old her, and wanted her back. Asked her to forgive me for any pain i caused her, and told her i was in pain too, and that my love was true and i wanted her to be my girl forever. She cried too, said she wanted the same, but didnt love me the same, that everytime she see me she remember how much she suffered, and that it was very hard for her to forgive me completely. So then we broke up again.
3 months have passed, we see each other sometimes and have a good time toguether, she agrees to come with me anytime only as friends. and shes even seeing another guy. She says shes not taking him seriously cause shes not completely over me, and i kind of believe her.
She still dont return all of my messages, but told me shell always love no matter what, and when she sees me in a nice suit and think im going out on a date she text me hate sms.
we live in the same building so we see each other everyday.
I WANT HER BACK LIKE CRAZY, I LOVE HER LIKE I HAVENT LOVE ANY GIRL IN MY LIFE, AND I WANT HER TO BE MY WIFE SOMEDAY. IS THERE ANYWAY I COULD WIN HER BACK, AND HAVE WHAT WE USED TO HAVE (THE GOOD STUFF, I WONT PLAY AROUND ANYMORE, I SWEAR, I KNOW I MESSED UP BUT I SWEAR I NEVER ACTED WITH BAD INTENTIONS I WAS JUST STUPID)