Compatibility

nmcbs84 · #1 07-29-2012, 09:00 AM

Hi everyone,

Im deeply in love with Scorpio Woman but our situation is rather volatile and complex, not because we lack love and affection but life circumstances make it challenging for us both to unite and i must confess with both are slow to trust. She has a past of unhealthy relationships (from whom she has two kids) and somehow family problems making her a bit cold/arsh sometimes but deep inside in a lot of needing love and affection. She tends to be a bit negative and uncofident told by herself in the first person. All this put together with the life circunstances make it i would say an hard case. Im just curious if with the charts i post below can you possibly give me some hints if this relationship might have any compatibility issues in the long term or not really in astrology point of view?
I attached both my chart (the first) and her chart (second one).

Thank you
Nuno

nmcbs84 · #2 07-29-2012, 12:10 PM

By the way can you help me interpreting love/relationship aspects of my chart (negatives and positives). At some point i seem to have a harsh chart in what concerns those aspects. For example Venus Aquarius in 12th house. This seems a terrible bad combination for what i've read. Shallow emotions or self expression problems, commitment problems, falling for the wrong persons or somehow persons that i cant have for various reasons (maybe similar to the situation i described before). If you could also help me with this interpretation i would be much appreciated.

nmcbs84 · #3 07-30-2012, 07:45 AM

Any Help ?

nmcbs84 · #4 08-01-2012, 08:51 AM

I could use some help. Thanks.

nmcbs84 · #5 08-06-2012, 06:40 PM

Someone can give some hints?

sven555 · #6 08-06-2012, 06:51 PM

You wouldn't mind doing a bi-wheel of you and your significant other's charts please?

nmcbs84 · #7 08-06-2012, 07:51 PM

you mean synastry? Well i upload both the synastry and composite.

sven555 · #8 08-06-2012, 10:08 PM

Thing's that stick out at me:

Her Sun in your 7th house - Lovely aspect to have, however, has your relationship with her become the centre of your life?

Your Moon in Her 8th house - meaning you become emotionally bonded to one other, because she's the house, she possibly has opened up to you

Your Sun in Her 5th house - You inspire her creative side, as well has her romantic side :P

Your Saturn in her 4th house - You might remind her of being one of her parents

Her Saturn in your 7th House - Do you view her as a stable and trustworthy partner?

Sorry that's all i really know at the moment, i'll try again later

Hope this helps you!

nmcbs84 · #9 08-07-2012, 07:28 AM

Thank you Sven. Our relationship unfortunatly has a lot of external barriers, i mean things that somehow block it from happening more seriously. She has 2 kids from previous relationship and she told me that it makes a lot of confusion in her head another man beeing capable of accepting and cooperating with this situation. Remember her kids are the center of her life, she said that probably she would not be able to commit 100% to the relationship and of course to me cause of their kids, they are still pretty young. Besides this her past and personal insecurities don't help much
I would not say this relationship became the center of my life, much less for her, first because our relationship just has around 2 months, second because of the barriers/obtacles explained, but is indeed something special.
I think we have good communication and trust, in fact i've found it strange that after a very short period she started to reveal me some of her past terrible stories and secrets (believe she does not do this to anyone). This really make us feel in a climate of intimacy (i really feel at ease when im with her).
About reminding one of her parents, well thats a bit revealing for me. What i know is that her mother is also capricorn and born in twenty something of December, around 1956-58. I had the oppurtunity to meet her mother once but didnt had the chance to know her much. But it seemed to me a spontaneous person, a bit reserved when outside (home) but inside her place can make the party. Well somehow she might have some common traces with my personality but difficult to match right now. She actually lives with her mother and the two kids, so somehow her mother was important to support her but not sure how they communicate, if good or bad, but i suppose they are both reserved. Her father as i told is long gone, drinking problems, beat her and her mother,...
If i see a trustworthy partner, i will say yes. Stable? Emotionally maybe not.

Thank you

sven555 · #10 08-07-2012, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by nmcbs84

Thank you Sven. Our relationship unfortunatly has a lot of external barriers, i mean things that somehow block it from happening more seriously. She has 2 kids from previous relationship and she told me that it makes a lot of confusion in her head another man beeing capable of accepting and cooperating with this situation. Remember her kids are the center of her life, she said that probably she would not be able to commit 100% to the relationship and of course to me cause of their kids, they are still pretty young. Besides this her past and personal insecurities don't help much
I would not say this relationship became the center of my life, much less for her, first because our relationship just has around 2 months, second because of the barriers/obtacles explained, but is indeed something special.
I think we have good communication and trust, in fact i've found it strange that after a very short period she started to reveal me some of her past terrible stories and secrets (believe she does not do this to anyone). This really make us feel in a climate of intimacy (i really feel at ease when im with her).
About reminding one of her parents, well thats a bit revealing for me. What i know is that her mother is also capricorn and born in twenty something of December, around 1956-58. I had the oppurtunity to meet her mother once but didnt had the chance to know her much. But it seemed to me a spontaneous person, a bit reserved when outside (home) but inside her place can make the party. Well somehow she might have some common traces with my personality but difficult to match right now. She actually lives with her mother and the two kids, so somehow her mother was important to support her but not sure how they communicate, if good or bad, but i suppose they are both reserved. Her father as i told is long gone, drinking problems, beat her and her mother,...
If i see a trustworthy partner, i will say yes. Stable? Emotionally maybe not.

Thank you

You're most welcome

I actually enjoyed reading about your story, because it has given me a better understanding of what has actually happened.
It does sound like you rather well, considering the "barriers" involved.
She must trust you too, to tell you about secrets etc.

Good luck!

nmcbs84 · #11 08-07-2012, 10:32 AM

To be honest im not quiet well right now. We dont talk for about 3 days. For the past two weeks she started to act a bit cold and distant. She said our relationship does not have solution because of the facts i have explained, the 2 kids, the kids reaction to a new "boyfriend", the fact she is centered on her kids, lack of time from her, etc...
What i find interesting is that she always showed interest, calling me, texting me, trusted some intimacy of her life and actually in her home, etc... but suddenly shut down emotionally (almost from day to night) and rationalized the idea that this would not work. A lot of insecurites, "ghosts" from the past, dont help. I know she feels something for me.
I dont know but i see we have some serious negative aspects in synastry:

Moon Square Mars
Mars Square Pluto
Mars Square Saturn (Very detrimental)
Moon opposition Saturn (very detrimental)

Could this be a really dificult relationship in the long term? There is a strong 6th house in the composite, i suppose is the house of "service". That means somehow i will be "serving" her needs or be easily manipulated emotionally by her?