Will our relationship end ?

[Appollonnia]

I have been living with my boyfriend for more than a year now but for the last three months we have been having problems on and off about:

My finding his routine of a life to oppressive.
Problems in the bedroom.
How different we are.
My having become a bit agressive lately (not in a physical way)
My uncle and family having invited me over to their house without inviting him and him getting upset about it.
My mother writing him a letter and him showing it to his mother creating more drama.
And the last argument after which I asked this horary question, his commenting in a weird way about my mother and us fighting about it.
Finally, the last issue is that his mother has been acting very cold towards me, after the whole letter issue.

After the last fight we worked things out, but based on the trend we've been following lately I wanna make sure things will be ok, especially with the situation with his mother now.

In the chart

I am sun in leo moving into 1st house
moon in scorpio in 4th house
mercury in leo retrograde in 1st house and in its own term
venus in mercury in 11th house in its own term

( This makes sense since I spent the whole of last year thinking about him and putting him first in everything. I am thinking more about me now. )

He is saturn in in 4th house and in exaltation

There is an applying trine aspect between venus and saturn.
However I am in his sign of fall and he is in my sign of detriment, maybe showing how upset we were at each other.

Finally if we look at the 4th house as the house of endings, we find that it is ruled by venus the planet of love.

So I'm guessing things will get better, right ?

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Appollonnia

I have been living with my boyfriend for more than a year now but for the last three months we have been having problems on and off about:

My finding his routine of a life to oppressive.
Problems in the bedroom.
How different we are.
My having become a bit agressive lately (not in a physical way)
My uncle and family having invited me over to their house without inviting him and him getting upset about it.
My mother writing him a letter and him showing it to his mother creating more drama.
And the last argument after which I asked this horary question, his commenting in a weird way about my mother and us fighting about it.
Finally, the last issue is that his mother has been acting very cold towards me, after the whole letter issue.

After the last fight we worked things out, but based on the trend we've been following lately I wanna make sure things will be ok, especially with the situation with his mother now.

In the chart

I am sun in leo moving into 1st house
moon in scorpio in 4th house
mercury in leo retrograde in 1st house and in its own term
venus in mercury in 11th house in its own term

( This makes sense since I spent the whole of last year thinking about him and putting him first in everything. I am thinking more about me now. )

He is saturn in in 4th house and in exaltation

There is an applying trine aspect between venus and saturn.
However I am in his sign of fall and he is in my sign of detriment, maybe showing how upset we were at each other.

Finally if we look at the 4th house as the house of endings, we find that it is ruled by venus the planet of love.

So I'm guessing things will get better, right ?

You are Sun he is Saturn. In Whole House system Sun is strong in it's own sign and house, Saturn is elevated in the 4th. Both are strong in angular house.

Moon in Scorpio is in bad shape showing the emotional element, however it's not making anymore aspects before it leaves its sign, so nothing more will come of the situation.

Ruler of the Part of Love, Mercury is mutually apply to the Sun in the 1st house. Sun sextiles Saturn.

You both will be fine.

[rafaella]

Judging by the reception between the significators you both do not look favourably at each other at all....Sun in detriment of Saturn, Saturn in fall of Sun and Moon is in bad shape too...I'm afraid the relationship has run its course...

[Appollonnia]

Thank you very much vista. Things seem to be calmer now.

However I am worried about rafaella's point, unless the reason that we are shown in each other's fall and detriment is due to the way we were feeling about each other at the time I asked the question, which was before we talked things over.

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Appollonnia

Thank you very much vista. Things seem to be calmer now.

However I am worried about rafaella's point, unless the reason that we are shown in each other's fall and detriment is due to the way we were feeling about each other at the time I asked the question, which was before we talked things over.

I would not worry, it's all in the interpretation. And I would absolutely think your being angry would have everything to do with asking the horary question.

[Appollonnia]

What about the way I went about reading the chart? Were my interpretations valid ?

Thank you so much for your help, I'm kind of new to horary.