Composite: Sun,ven,merc in 4th but w/ venus sq saturn??

[PensiveGemini]

Hello!

I met an interesting, attractive Libra (through friends) who's sun is conj my IC with 3 degree orb, my moon conjunct his moon and asc with 3 degree orb.

I have his birth time as he gave it to me and I see that we have sun, venus and mercury in the fourth house but pluto, saturn in the 7th and venus sq saturn.

I find it contradictory to have such a great emphasis on the 4th house and yet such a separating aspect between venus and saturn.

What do you make of such a composite chart? If Venus sq Saturn suggests hesitation and a fear of expressing feelings, how does it fit with such a comforting feeling of a 4th house emphasis? Does it spell love/hate relationship?

any thoughts welcome, just trying to understand.

Thanks!