5 years of feeling our Uranus square Venus (relation imput?)

Brea · #1 07-01-2012, 09:00 AM

For the last 5 years we've been flirting but advances could never be made because of the people we ere with, the timing, physical distance, etc. But now we're finally in touch (however we're still making short flights to and fro to one another)/. and the intensity that we've both felt for one another can finally be expressed after all of these years of feeling them on both sides. He could potentially be moving up here (not too much holding him there), or me to him. Besides the 15 hour drive, not too much holding us back at this point. Lots of good things going on in our chart from what I understand besides our venus square uranus,saturn square pluto etc. lots of interest surrounding our moon/sun conjunction near/on his DC since Ive never had any personal experiences with it.

I dont want our double whammy Neptune Venus square to interfere in our judgment of one another so any outside input would be VERY appreciated and VERY useful.

THANKS GUYS!

Brea · #2 07-04-2012, 11:28 PM

I'm also really curious about my ascendant conjuncting his 12th house cusp. Is that similar to the ascendant bing in the 12th house? I feel alot of heavy karmic feelings between us, like theres alot for me to learn.

Horus · #3 07-06-2012, 05:51 PM

Your Mars sq. his South Lunar Node and his Moon square yours is the karmic draw -you both hurt one another in the past lives. His Saturn (Lord of Karma) in your 7th house is also relationship karma. Sun conjunct Moon is the top, binding soulmate aspect.

It looks pretty good. Get together, work it out, forgive one another for whatever was done in the past.

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When your Saturn is in your romantic partner's seventh house, you are viewed as a very stable and trustworthy partner, if your romantic attraction is also strong, your partner will be inclined to marry you. When your relationship partner’s Saturn is in your seventh house, you will be serious about entering into a committed relationship and need to ensure from the outset that you have compatible views on what marriage means so that you can establish you relationship according to an enduring structure that will satisfy both of you.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch...astryhouse.htm

You both need to view the relationship and each other realistically and take off any rose-tinted glasses caused by Venus-Neptune squares. You are both susceptible so be aware that there are likely some illusions maintained which wont be exposed until you are together. Honest communication is your best remedy.

Brea · #4 07-07-2012, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Horus

Your Mars sq. his South Lunar Node and his Moon square yours is the karmic draw -you both hurt one another in the past lives. His Saturn (Lord of Karma) in your 7th house is also relationship karma. Sun conjunct Moon is the top, binding soulmate aspect.

It looks pretty good. Get together, work it out, forgive one another for whatever was done in the past.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch...astryhouse.htm

You both need to view the relationship and each other realistically and take off any rose-tinted glasses caused by Venus-Neptune squares. You are both susceptible so be aware that there are likely some illusions maintained which wont be exposed until you are together. Honest communication is your best remedy.

Thanks for taking the time Horus, but do you think ou could give me a little more description of the squares to our south nodes? All I ever hear about is the conjunction.

Horus · #5 07-07-2012, 09:56 PM

The squares indicate that you shafted each other, and the planets involved might offer a clues based on their symbology. Mars can be a male, a soldier, violence, etc. The Moon can be mother or family clan, emotional betrayal or harm, etc. A past-life regression will usually uncover the specifics, and as a hypnotherapist, I help my clients to discover these things for resolution.

Brea · #6 07-08-2012, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Horus

The squares indicate that you shafted each other, and the planets involved might offer a clues based on their symbology. Mars can be a male, a soldier, violence, etc. The Moon can be mother or family clan, emotional betrayal or harm, etc. A past-life regression will usually uncover the specifics, and as a hypnotherapist, I help my clients to discover these things for resolution.

I'm interested in what my intuition will tell me with considerations to what you've said. I really appreciated talking with someone that operates on the level I do, thanks so much Horus!

Horus · #7 07-08-2012, 02:09 PM

You're very welcome, Brea!

Intuition is something you have in spades with those Pisces placements, just watch out for your Venus sq. Neptune! I have Venus conjunct Neptune so I can attest to how it can create romantic delusion designed to "trick" you into getting into karmic entanglements you might have otherwise avoided if you could see the "fine print" first! Initially,everything may seem hunky dory and it can all be quite intensely romantic, but then you see their true colors eventually or they seem to "change". There's much more supporting you in this synastry than challenging, so I'm optimistic anyway. Your natal Saturn in your 7th is asking for committment in relationships -be willing to give it, but assert your need (if you have it) for some freedom and space (your Aquarian DC) up front.

Aside from formal hypnotic regression, there are meditations you can do alone or with your partner which will give you more information about your past-life connection...

Brea · #8 07-09-2012, 11:52 PM

Thanks Horus! I've used meditation and gotten some pretty elaborate results myself but I never would've thought to do it with another person. Great idea. Thank you so much for your advice!

Vista · #9 07-10-2012, 01:03 AM

We really need to see both natal charts. The synastry chart you posted in not that helpful without the degrees of the planets and nodes.

With Venus square Uranus and Uranus ruling your DES, there is a side of you that likes what you can't have. This situation you have with your boyfriend who was formerly unavailable and vice versa, now lives too far away to see him regularly so you have to work to see each other. This is just another form of wanting what you can't have. You might find your prince is more of a toad than you realized once you are living with each other. The other thing I notice is your 7th ruler Uranus is conjunct Neptune the planet of illusion and rose colored glasses, it's also the planet of alcohol which could be an issue with the men you date. Again, with the Venus square between you and your natal chart, it makes me wonder if you really know how this guy is?

Brea · #10 07-12-2012, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Vista

We really need to see both natal charts. The synastry chart you posted in not that helpful without the degrees of the planets and nodes.

With Venus square Uranus and Uranus ruling your DES, there is a side of you that likes what you can't have. This situation you have with your boyfriend who was formerly unavailable and vice versa, now lives too far away to see him regularly so you have to work to see each other. This is just another form of wanting what you can't have. You might find your prince is more of a toad than you realized once you are living with each other. The other thing I notice is your 7th ruler Uranus is conjunct Neptune the planet of illusion and rose colored glasses, it's also the planet of alcohol which could be an issue with the men you date. Again, with the Venus square between you and your natal chart, it makes me wonder if you really know how this guy is?

Those are all really good points based on my chart but I also use that awareness, especially in relationships lately (Saturn has been opposite my Venus for awhile). I'm attracted to stoic men with alot of strong emotional undercurrents who dont want emotional/physical closeness. The only reason why I was receiving of his affections (which have been mutual for years) was due to the fact that he fits the emotional/water criteria but he isnt distant at all. The expression of his masculinity and his interior self are exactly what I want without the emotional distance. I have alot of boundaries in my love life, one being that I dont do long distance (too miserable), another being I dont do low esteemed men that need approval or reassurance that they're lovable. We're not technically in a relationship, the flights back and forth are more of a testing period to see if this is really what I want, or if he's another on of "those". He and I both back off one another continually. we feel the magnet strongly pulling us together but we both instinctively put both feet firmly on the ground (I figured this is our saturn-Venus/neptune-Venus polarities at work). I do get afraid off and on about if he's a safe choice, if I know him well enough, if he has any of the traits tha arent good for me, but honestly there isnt much else I can do except try it o for size and see if it works (and he agrees). One of the few things I can see with us, is his descendant and my descendant going at it. Space is important to me when I need it, otherwise I want lots of closeness. but we've discussed it (like everything else in my life lol) and he seems cool with it. Not to mention I shared all of m waky ideas of a commited reltionship/partnership and that didnt blow him out of the water either. lol