Looking for advice. Virgo and Aquarius.
Hello, I am new to these forums but would like to probe your minds for some advice. I have been in a relationship with an Aquarius woman for a year now, long distance.
Now I know what people say about Virgo and Aquarius, but many of the other signs in our planets seem to resonate. (She is not interested in astrology so this is just for my own personal interest.)
My (male) Sun: Virgo, Her: Aquarius
My Venus: Scorpio, Her: Capricorn.
My Mars: Capricorn, Her: Capricorn.
My Moon: Capricorn, Hers unknown.
I really am deeply in love with her, but I suffer from anxiety about the relationship. Primarily her cheerful attitude and friendliness often leaves me feeling she is not being completely open to me. I openly ask her about this and she insists everything is fine.
She suffers from a depressive disorder, and I feel at home when I can assist her through this, but she is fiercely independent and often leaves me feeling she would exist perfectly okay without me.
I have a tendency to be jealous and possesive, but I know she is open and loving to all. She also openly talks about actors she finds attractive. Which at first bothered me, but I was in an unhealthily possesive relationship with a Scorpio woman for 7 years prior to this, and have learnt that jealousy can ruin a relationship.
I'm trying to learn to appreciate her, I don't want to be chained down to Virgoan anxiety, I want to be able to soar and enjoy life like she does. We both love eachother's company, and we share all sorts of interests, talking late into the night every night. But she seems so relaxed, whereas any moment of silence leaves me feeling guilty that I am not talking, and nervous that at any moment she could get bored of me and long to fly away.
Given the nature of our charts, I was just wondering what your insights and advice might be for our relationship. Your time and feedback are much appreciated.
- An anxious Virgo.