my daughter's chart: please read?

[melpomene]

Hello all! As a Capricorn, I find it really hard to relate to my daughter's firey chart, and I'm so curious as to what kind of person she is going to develop to be. I've noticed so much 4th house activity, and that scares me.....Saturn in the tenth and all those Saturn contacts unnerves me a little too. Can anyone more proficient in astrology point out any interesting strengths and weaknesses in her chart, or any destiny related things or things related to the dynamics between her and me and her father? Thank you so much.

[Inconjunct]

There's a danger when reading a very young child's chart that anything you say might become a self-fulfilling prophecy. So I would suspect it's best to focus on the fact that a chart represents potential, not fate, and that the planets do not compel something to happen.

I would suspect that what you are seeing right now in your daughter is her Moon sign, Gemini. I would imagine she's a lively little girl who chatters away (as far as a 14 month old baby can!) with great curiosity and seemingly boundless energy! I think she's probably a pretty happy baby, who finds it fairly easy to be with people other than mum. In fact, her chart suggests she's quite the little socialiser even now.

You may also be getting hints of her Sun sign as well. I suspect that, even though she's very little and only just walking, that she's quite wilful and headstrong, insists on getting her own way and charges about with little concern for her safety. This is not all that different to most kids her age, but she's a little ball of energy, for sure, perhaps even more so than other kids her age, and she probably wears you out! With Mars in his own sign of Aries as well, I can imagine she's going to be quite feisty and assertive as she develops, with a very strong will of her own and a fearless streak in her that means nobody better stand in her way!

As she grows, it's only going to carry on. With Sagittarius rising, it's likely she'll develop a strongly extrovert personality, be very sociable and outgoing and that energy she's already displaying isn't going to dissipate any time soon. She's still going to be running rings around you, I'm afraid

With Mercury retrograde in Aries, she's probably going to have a lot of intellectual energy as well as physical energy, although she may tend to be more thoughtful and introspective than she might be were Mercury direct in this sign.

Hope some of this is useful.

[melpomene]

^-^ Thank you so much Inconjunct!
You're very right about all of that. She is talking a little, and constantly babbling with a lot of emotional inflections all day long. She can almost run and she's only 14 months. She has absolutely no concern for her own safety and never learns anything no matter now many times she bumps her head (she's very head and face accident prone :/ so much Aries!) or trips and falls or gets in trouble. She's so headstrong, and she never gives up on getting what she wants to the point of driving us all insane for hours lol. She's in constant need of socializing to the point of trying to ram the bathroom door open -with her head as hard as she can, on her hands and knees,- to try and get to people that she wants to be near at the time, yelling in anger (even if she just saw you a minute ago)....it's endearing but a little bit worrying lol.

She's so curious about everything that we can't do anything w/o having her right in it. She's worse than our cat. If you don't let her take over whatever it is she wants to take and explore, she yells in a surprisingly deep roar and slams herself on the ground violently. She bites in anger, and has even bit herself in a tantrum before, but they never last over 5 minutes....and then she's back to smiling and happiness. She never really gets upset about anything else, unless it's normal baby things like being too tired or running out of juice.
She's very charming and everyone fawns all over her, even people that seem to dislike small children. She never cries for anything except during a tantrum- a pretty happy baby, as you said. She seems to like violence and slaps people for laughs and rams the cat in the side and tries to tackle people when we're on her level on the ground. I once pretended to karate chop her all dramatically once and she's never giggled more in her life. She's the baby that likes to pretend she's in fight club. >.>
I worry sometimes how her intense temper is going to play out as she gets older. She's so sweet but so mean and I've always been small and tired and frail, I don't really know how that's going to work out in the end. Her daddy is her favorite though. She's been obsessed with him even while still in the womb....she'd move towards his voice and only his voice. Every day that he goes for work she repeats "Daddy? Daddy?!" and searches the house for him. I wonder if that's represented in her chart?

Also for laughs, her head is frickin huge. She's in the 98% percentile for normal babies her age- and she was a preemie! Aries maybe? XD

It's going to be a challenge to integrate all this fire extrovert energy in my and my husband's boring, Capricornian, quiet introverted home (and we like it like that >.>) I'm so introverted that I'm practically that old lady that throws shoes at well- meaning religious proselytizers and kids that come in our yard........

[ZWDS]

Hello, i would like to give a reading using another system of astrology.

Based on the information given of 9 April 2011, 12:30 am with no adjustments made based on DST.

Your daughter personality is sure a strong one. She has good integrity which is crucial.

She is ambitious and loves authority as well as being consistent in her beliefs in life. She may appear to have a high self-esteem and calculative as well as being talented in articulating, speech, maybe singing. Seems like she has a good amount of intelligence as well although she may not be as good in terms of written skills or drawing as compared to her talking skills which are better.

It seems that she may appear to be stubborn or unyielding with an explosive temper at times too but other than that i think she is fine overall.

She may hardly feel contented and has a very driven thought to succeed or pursue her goals.

Overall, i think her chart is a pretty good one but there seems to be a point which i must highlight.

When she is overseas or far away from hometown, she may find that she is more aggressive, hot-tempered and stubborn. Very determined in pursuing her goals at the expense of neglecting other things on hand.

Her wealth luck is good and she should be very well off financially!

It seems that it is shown that her parents are very much providing for her and will try their best to solve her problems, meet her demands and needs. She will likely to receive inheritance from her parents if nothing screws up which is good!

The chart shows that her parents are somewhat restless as well, maybe they are very outgoing?

However, a point that i wish to bring up is that i see that her parents are pretty rigid with the rules and i find it a big no-go with her personality. I think that her bonding with her parents may face some challenges in terms of having different opinions and views.

It is nothing serious though, she still loves her parents deeply and same goes for the parents' deep love for her as well. Although she may not be very forthcoming to express it, but don't worry the feeling is mutual and not a one-way street.

Just learn to respect her opinions/views in life and do not force your "rules" down her throat and it will all be fine.

Any feedback will be much appreciated, just a question though.

Is the time stated above adjusted based on DST?

Kind regards.

[IleneK]

Originally Posted by Inconjunct

There's a danger when reading a very young child's chart that anything you say might become a self-fulfilling prophecy. So I would suspect it's best to focus on the fact that a chart represents potential, not fate, and that the planets do not compel something to happen.

Thank you for saying this, Inconjunct. I think it is really good advice for parents of very young children.

[melpomene]

Wow, that is so interesting Thank you!
She singing part struck me as a surprise. Her voice has always been odd for such a young child, as it is very deep with almost a raspy quality. She already tries to sing along with the radio and sits in her daddy's lap and strums his guitar quite well....it really looks as if she's trying to play the guitar lol.
Her father and I are right on the poverty line- not desperately poor, but paycheck to paycheck with a little government assistance. WE do try so hard to provide for her even with limited means. The part of your post about her receiving an inheritance gives me a little hope that we'll get better financially someday.
We are very restless though, but mostly because of outside circumstances. Bad things are always happening to our family to ruin our plans and dreams. I am probably the more restless one, because I have always wanted to travel and gave that up plus a few other dreams when I got pregnant unexpectedly with her and had to move across country to the middle of nowhere with her dad for his work. A lot of the time I am restless and bored and sad.
When I read about us being rigid shown in our charts, I laughed because her dad and I are both very rigid Capricorns that hold everyone to a high standard. I can see that happening with rules in the house now already.....we've got to be careful.

To answer your question, we were under DST then, if that's what you mean xD I get so confused with DST.

Thank you for all your kindness to take the time to look at her chart

[ZWDS]

Hey there, thanks for your feedback as i was taught that i should take an hour off the birth timing should there be an adjustment made to the timing based on DST.

However, it seems that April is not yet Summer and the accuracy of the reading i assumed to be accurate and so i shall leave it be, lol.

I shall read off a few more details based on her chart assuming that it is correct based on the above paragraph.

In addition to her character, you may find her idealistic in the future as well.

She may find herself spending more on things relating to her work place, school and things related to her career as well.

Are her parents (either you or her dad or even both), somewhat picky about details and generally good at analyzing stuff? If so, time not to be too picky about the rules! LOL

Having said that, i must stress that a proper, correct and strong teaching from young WILL serve as a good foundation for the child.

I doubt that she has integrity issues but that is very generic and it greatly depend on her upbringing as well. Listen and respect her decisions but of course step in should she happen to go off the "track" in her life; that is what every parents should do anyway.

As a rule of thumb, you may find that hard approaches on her do not work out well and it may look like you are talking to a wall. If so, try going the soft approach way; you may be surprised that she will give in to softer approaches.

(Well whichever that gets your messages and intentions across to her at the end of the day works best, right? ).

Do you mind if i have a look at your chart as well? If you don't mind, you can share your birth details here.

Looking forward to your feedback!

Thank you and kind regards.

EDIT: As usual, the information provided by me is only based on the assumption that it is not yet the Summer season and adjustments to the birth timing is not made due to DST.

[melpomene]

Oh thank you! ^-^ and I am definately the analytical one you mentioned above. It gets on my husband's nerves >.>
And yes you're completely right about the softer instruction. This child is oblivious to anything else, lol
I'd -love- for you to look at my chart. I find all this so interesting, it's making my morning
My details are: Jan. 19 1988 at 2:03 p.m. in Birmingham, Alabama, USA.
Just in case her dad's info is needed as well, it's Jan. 14 1986 at 9:30 am in Bismarck, ND, USA.
(he won't mind me posting this, he's as much interested in astrology as I am!)

[IleneK]

Originally Posted by ZWDS

Hey there, thanks for your feedback as i was taught that i should take an hour off the birth timing should there be an adjustment made to the timing based on DST.

However, it seems that April is not yet Summer and the accuracy of the reading i assumed to be accurate and so i shall leave it be, lol.

.

This may help clarify the time:

Daylight Saving Time (United States) began Sunday, March 13, 2011, 2:00am, and ended Sunday, November 6, 2011, 2:00am.Except Arizona and Hawaii. Move your clocks ahead 1 hour in spring and back 1 hour in fall.

[ZWDS]

Okay, i shall start with your chart first, as usual, assuming it's not Summer season and the DST thing, blah blah blah. (Getting lazy, LOL)

Your personality appears to be someone very logical and rational as well as someone with a conservative personality especially more pronounced with regards to money matters.

You can be said as suspicious too as you do not believe in free lunches in this world. So, when someone sends you a gift out of a sudden, you tend to be on guard and suspect that something is definitely wrong.

I see that you are very argumentative too and easily prone to verbal disputes with others in your life and so, you may find yourself getting into trouble such as quarrels etc. Your chart states that you have a somewhat untraditional / unique personality that is just "different" from the norm.

(I wonder what that is in real life, maybe you can share more!)

A challenging life overall indeed.

In your mind, your thoughts suggests that you are somehow spiritually inclined and you adhere to strict principles or core values that you set for yourself in life. Benevolent thoughts too.

A good mind for analyzing details however, it seems to suggests that somehow you have a little of self-conflicting thoughts in mind.

On one hand, you just wish to relax on the other hand, you tell yourself that you must be more self disciplined and "follow the rules!".

Nevertheless, i think you have a good heart but a quarrelsome surface.

Try not to be too picky in life, not everything has to be logical. Just like astrology, at first glance, i think that you may find it suspicious as to how could it work? Then, you probably went on to find out more and the next thing you know, here you are!

I shall stop here for the time being i can still go on but i shall wait for your feedback on the accuracy of the above details first!

I will be hanging around this forum while waiting.

Thank you~

[ZWDS]

Originally Posted by IleneK

This may help clarify the time:

Daylight Saving Time (United States) began Sunday, March 13, 2011, 2:00am, and ended Sunday, November 6, 2011, 2:00am.Except Arizona and Hawaii. Move your clocks ahead 1 hour in spring and back 1 hour in fall.

Hey IleneK, thanks for your explanation on the DST. Frankly, i am not familiar with the DST system as my country doesn't observe it.

So for further clarification, when the calender in the year 2011 hits March 13th 2:00am, everyone in the United States will adjust their clock 1 hour forward which in this case, to 3:00am?

When the calender hits 6th November 2011 2:00am, everyone will then adjust their clock back to 1:00am?

Thank you once again, IleneK!

[IleneK]

Originally Posted by ZWDS

Hey IleneK, thanks for your explanation on the DST. Frankly, i am not familiar with the DST system as my country doesn't observe it.

So for further clarification, when the calender in the year 2011 hits March 13th 2:00am, everyone in the United States will adjust their clock 1 hour forward which in this case, to 3:00am?

When the calender hits 6th November 2011 2:00am, everyone will then adjust their clock back to 1:00am?

Thank you once again, IleneK!

You are most welcome, and you understand the time adjustment correctly.

[ZWDS]

Originally Posted by IleneK

You are most welcome, and you understand the time adjustment correctly.

Thank you and much appreciated!

[melpomene]

You definitely hit the nail right on the head there >.>; You pretty much just spelled out a good bit of my personality xD
I am very scientifically minded. I think my emotions more than I even feel them. I find it hard in emotional matters because I just wind up thinking "how should I feel in this situation?" instead of just feeling! It gets kind of oppressive, especially when I just want to -believe- in something instead of just trying to tear it apart.
I am very conservative with money in my head, but it just slips out of my fingers anyway. I either just give it away, or treat myself then beat myself up all day because I've just spent what we could save. We never have any savings because of this vicious cycle, and my husband is just as bad. I get very, very upset if money is ever wasted.
I do get kind of suspicious of sudden generosity, like I am now owing them something because of it. Sometimes it even feels like a chore. I've been working on just relaxing and accepting kindness, but there are so many selfish and greedy people in the world that sometimes I forget there are nice ones too.
I am a pagan that constantly challenges my beliefs to the point of atheism. (I know that makes no sense, bear with me.) I am a very politically minded liberal that believes strongly that everything should be treated equally- the poor, rich, white, black, asian, native american, animals, criminals, gay, straight.....it doesn't matter, everyone should get the same amount of kindness and everyone has the right to the same quality of life and the right to live. I am a vegetarian and I can't stand seeing people treat other people with disrespect or try to take their rights away. I've been known to lose friends because I call them out on things like this, although normally I keep quiet because I realize I can be a pain.
I do tend to get into arguments...it's true. I'm also very weird and different, that was accurate as well. I was even voted most unique in high school, lol....I'm known for being different...dressing weird, dying my hair different colors, being the only mom in town with a mohawk wearing a tutu over jeans...yeah, I just don't understand why people try to be like everyone else all the time and do what everyone else says without question. It really bothers me.
My life has been very challenging. My mother emotionally abused me, mentally tortured me even. I still have nightmares and go into panic attacks when I hear people scream at children. I lived with my grandparents a lot because of that abuse, and my grandfather, like a father figure to me, died a gruesome death from pancreatic cancer when I was ten. My grandmother became a hoarder after that and we didn't even have hot water or air conditioning in our hot 110 degree summers....I hid it from everyone, but it was really miserable. I didn't meet my dad until I was 16, and he and I didn't quite get along- he kind of rejected me. I ran away from home after my mom finally threatened to kill me and I was scared, lived on my own and got my credit stolen by my mother as a response. I was too kind to turn her in and I still owe about a thousand dollars in stuff she did. I've always been sickly and working to support myself made me miserable. I got pregnant, got married, and we were homeless for a bit, then had a bunch of legal problems that made life very hard, and finally just now have we calmed down to a semblance of a normal life. But I'm always finding myself looking over my shoulder going "What next?"...
My thoughts are so self-conflicting...about everything.
God that line...
On one hand, you just wish to relax on the other hand, you tell yourself that you must be more self disciplined and "follow the rules!".
Is just something I live everyday of my life. You're so amazingly accurate there lol
And yes haha, I found astrology and got sucked in, although sometimes I challenge myself and think, "What if this is all just confirmation bias and none of this is real?" But then I read things like you just posted about someone you've never met and I'm like, "This is too accurate to not be real" O_O
Thank you so much for spending time looking at all this!

[ZWDS]

Okay, just got out of shower; lets continue.

In your career or the things you do, you seem to be somewhat providing which can be seen as being sort of generous by others; always wish to provide and be outstanding. You may be seen as a little weird in the way you does things or while working as well.

You seem to have good support and assistance from your superiors and elders when it comes to the things you do especially work-wise.

However, it seems that you do not get the appropriate appreciation by your surrounding peers/colleagues/people you just helped.

In the things you do or in your career life, you just can't seem to get 100% support! There WILL always be people who are against you, your ideas, or just plain dislike. (Gets annoying doesn't it...)

With regards to your finance, it seems that you have pretty much no control over how it turns out in situations. Another way of saying is, your wealth is pretty much dependent on pure luck, whatever effort you put in to salvage the financial situation, it seems to have no effect.

I see that you are pretty much relaxed about your money. You tend to indulge (okay, maybe indulge is a too strong of a word...) in things related to relaxation. However, it seems that trouble follows whenever money is found too.

Whenever it comes to money, you seem to encounter problems after problems. Trouble comes BEFORE money AND trouble comes too AFTER money is in.

Oh yes, before forgetting about your health, are you more prone to stomach related problems? Frequent stomachaches? Indigestion? Any kidney, bladder or reproductive organs issues?

Your parents seems to be in bad shape. They are hot-tempered and their life is filled with "punishments", the things they do tend not to end up well etc. Troublesome in short. However, i see some glimpses of them having good intentions in mind. Maybe they just do not know how to show it? Are they smart and talented?

I noticed that your parents have the support of their peers and their juniors around them too. Generally people of their same or younger generation.

With regards to your spouse (husband), do you find him mild-mannered, prone to emotional stress/trouble? Is he stubborn in his beliefs and at times refuse to give in to you?
Maybe you can describe further how you find him to be.

I see that you are not physically very close to your husband and he seems to be un-traditional / unique in his ways as well! Maybe that's why people say that birds of the same feather flock together, or something like that!

If you do have siblings, they will be very charming and multi-talented; jack-of-all-trades. They are extremely artistic and have excellent social skills but they may be very emotional as well, keeping their feelings inside them... maybe it explode out one day, lol.

They will be very restless and constantly on the move as well. You will not be close with them. They seem to have a hidden temper and can appear to be stubborn too although the bonding with them may appear to be nice but it's just superficial.

Talking about your home, do you tend to find yourself very impatient and strict at home? I don't think that the bonds with the people living in the same house as you are good. You being impatient, rough, quick to jump to conclusions and your harsh words seems to lead to quarrels at home?

Your property luck isn't that bad though, may see better days ahead.

Now.... your CHILDREN! After all, isn't this thread about your cute lil' daughter!

The best thing in your chart is your children. They are very sincere and kind. Righteous and reliable. Has a good amount of intelligence and receives help generally from all people in their life COMPARED to you! Very good!

Now now, feedback time! I'll continue reading your post above as well, have not gone through it thoroughly yet, lol my bad.

Thank you!

EDIT: The description of your friends would be similar to your siblings as mentioned above too.

In a gist, you may find that your friends can be grouped based on interests.

They are emotional and tend to keep their feelings to themselves but appear to be friendly on the surface but beware, i said APPEAR to be friendly, on the SURFACE. You never know what their intentions are but they can be said to be self-centered. In another word, selfish.

However, they too tend to be restless and on the move as well as having a bad temper hidden in them; stubborn to add on too. You are also not physically close to them. You may find yourself making friends that appear to be too-good-to-be-true and then find them missing sooner or later.

[melpomene]

Oh wow.....and welcome back! ^-^
hehehe, in every job I've ever had, and even as a housewife (which is what I am now) people find the way I do things just odd. People are always constantly trying to show me "their way" and how this would be sooo much easier blah blah if I just did this exactly how they say and what not, and I just politely ignore them. It infuriates some people. It always feels like everyone thinks I'm completely stupid and don't know what I'm talking about at all times.

And you're right, I do always get support from the older people but hated by my peers. Like in High school, I was the teacher's pet and they had high hopes from me, but the students thought I was too much of a free thinker and bullied me incessantly.
I'm either loved or hated, nothing in between and I've learned to keep my sanity I just have to ignore EVERYBODY and do what I think is right because for some reason, everyone has an opinion about it....

I can very much believe that about money. All of my problems seem to be related to or money based, mostly. I've always thought that too, I was ******* either way, whether I was broke or not XD

And yes, I do tend to get horrible stomachaches (seriously on the same level of childbirth pain) and all sorts of digestion related problems. I think stress helps but they come out of the blue.

My mother is just too manipulative and narcissistic for me to be able to see any good intentions in her, but my dad definitely does have them. He always tries to be generous and good but he doesn't know how to express it well. He is a very sensitive man and somehow I always seem to hurt him without realizing it. My dad is a good businessman and built his own company and his own home even- my mom is very smart and charming, even if she only uses it for her own advantage, although she is not successful like my dad because she was too busy wasting her life with drugs and alcohol. She basically leeches people for survival, most of her life. My parents were never married.

Ah, my husband. He is very sweet and generous/sentimental to the point of being a doormat. He IS very stubborn though and I think almost impossible to change. He's had a very, very rough and stressful life although he is personally normally hard to stress out. He keeps his cool in most situations where I'm just upset and angry. He won't give in to me a lot, he just gets vindictive and/or stops talking to me altogether whenever he refuses to budge about something. He has a tendency to come off as cold....but he's very sensitive and poetic and nice.
He's a wonderful guy, but she's so self-destructive subconsciously. Whether it's being too generous, doing too much in a situation, or sitting there and not doing anything at all when he needs to do something, he's almost always doing the thing that results in his own detriment. I sometimes find him completely airheaded and lost in his own world, even though I remind myself time and time again not everyone is so analytical and cold as I am. Sometimes it gets on my nerves though because I have to explain EVERYTHING to him at times like that.
But a lot of the time we seem perfect for each other. We read each other's minds and do the same things at the same time. We hold all the same values and morals. We enjoy most of all the same things. I feel neglected a lot though, because I need relationships to grow, be fun, and most of all, be romantic, and he does absolutely nothing unless prodded to do so. He'll just sit there and play video games for a week until I yell at him to do something with me.
And he's just like me in weirdness and uniqueness. We complement each other very well. Everyone sees us as the perfect couple, even though we have our problems they don't see. (isn't that how it always goes?)

I have one half-sister, and she is generally distrustful of me. She is very nice to my face, but she refuses to even attempt to get the slightest bit close to me and I've heard her say bad things behind my back before. I try very, very hard to just be nice to her in hopes some day she'll accept me. She is artistic, and perfect, and smart and going to law school. It hurts me because my dad never bothered to try and help me go to college and achieve my dreams too- he just left me to fend for myself like my mother did, although he gave me a car, paid for my insurance for a while, bought me clothes and helped me out more than she ever did. But I just dissapointed him or something and he always gets mad at me and gets distant.

Yes, most of my arguments happen at home. I get frustrated and impatient with my husband and I get mad when he doesn't see when I need help with stuff and he doesn't step in. I get angry and depressed because I feel trapped at home a lot, but on the other hand I love being at home away from social situations or pressures. It's odd.
I get frustrated with my daughter's hyperactivity and tantrums and constant need to destroy everything she can get her hands on (hello, soda poured all over couch last night! >.>)
I've always dreamed of owning our own home, I Really hope that does happen someday with a garden!

And yes, the vast majority of my friends have used me at some point or another, or talked about me behind my back. I just ignore it......

Thank you again for all the hard work you've been doing on my behalf ^-^

[ZWDS]

You are much welcome! I am just finding any opportunities to further refine my skills in this area! What's the point of learning something which you don't practice, eh?

I do have a few further comments about your husband. I see that your husband is more of a thinker than a do-er. He tends to be thinking very deeply in his thoughts that is why you mentioned that he appears to be "lost in his own world" but in reality, he is just thinking of something very deeply, NOT daydreaming.

You may find that the plans he comes up with is very thorough and well-thought out; that is the good part but well, spending too much time coming up with it sounds more like a strategist than an action guy.

So in other words to confirm, your husband is the emotional, sensitive, sentimental, calm and gentle guy?

Now i can see why both of you got together in the first place! In a relationship, there can never be 2 person with the same "hard" type of personality. In this case, it will seem that you are the "hard" person and he is the "soft" person.

(Although being stubborn is still stubborn, lol) Did i get the above part right?

Oh yea, he's probably richer than you, that is shown on the chart and not wild-guessing.

Well yea, I was about to type this into this post with regards to your "siblings". I see her bad-mouthing and getting in your way in general.

I see that you are generally disappointed and feel distanced from her as well.

Yes, it is shown on the chart that you feel more "depressed" / negative emotions and FEEL more lonely at home as well.

Oh yes, when you are out travelling far away from hometown, the place of your birth, do you find yourself being more talented?

Do you find yourself having more ideas and creativity while travelling too? Suddenly finding yourself full of ideas and new interests? Getting bored of one thing and needs to keep your hyperactive mind occupied? All of these is while you are away from hometown.

EDIT: Compared to you, it seems that your husband gets more favor from his bosses/superiors.

EDIT2: Does your "sibling" enjoys good food and maybe decent at cooking?

EDIT3: Seems like your parents (either 1), has a higher-class of thinking as well. May appear to others as looking down on them.

[melpomene]

You are very right about him!
I guess even when I know that he is deeply thinking, it takes so long that it annoys me, I'm used to churning out ideas and information in seconds. I try very hard to be patient with him.

And you are very right. I am the more disciplinarian, hard one in the relationship. He's the softer one. We help each other out though, I keep him from being a doormat and he softens me up. But we are both still very stubborn about everything.....lol

I do seem to take on a completely different personality while traveling. I'm more clever and happy and I have more interests. I have more energy. But it's strange, because I am so attached to home at the same time....
Although I've never had the opportunity to -really- travel. All my traveling has been not too interesting, but I love just driving off in the distance....even if it's just to the next town over lol.

And yup! My husband is very lucky with bosses. He always gets promoted and gets compliments and raises and treated well, while I always got skipped for those kind of things.

[ZWDS]

Okie dokie, I believe that you have sufficient information about your life for now :P.

Hope you are convinced on the power of astrology now, Mdm Logic, lol.

Aye so are you currently employed? I am a little hesitant in giving out this information but try it out if you feel like it.

I would like to advise you on your career. Consider the following pointers when choosing a job.

1. Talking (Since you are so good and you prefer to talk anyway)

2. A providing nature. (Maybe a service role? Sales? Anything that fits the providing description, really.)

3. Problem solving OR solving others' problems.

Now, i see that you have some luck in terms of property, i see that you MIGHT just earn something when you deal with property however, take note NOT to speculate with regards to investments. Or at least go for the safer options when doing so.
(For example, buying many properties for investments. I think that's not a wise choice but still, you can try but make sure you do have some spare cash to fall back on!)

Let me give you an example of what i THINK that might fit the bill, how about being a housing / property agent?

You know, the sort where people needs an agent to help them advertise and sell their property while you, the middleman gets some commission should the deal completes and both the buyer and seller are satisfied.

It's just an example but consider the above points i listed. Maybe you can think of something and list it here, lol.

Oh yea personally, i think you have better luck away from your hometown. How you choose to interpret it is up to you but you can clarify with me here, don't worry.

Disclaimer: Take no / less risks and try the above information i've given at your own risk, lol.

Anyway, the reading i've done, may i know how much upon 100 will you give for the accuracy? This is only for my learning purposes.

[ZWDS]

It's getting late on my side but i'll just do a brief reading based on your husband chart, all the while i was just "reading" him based on YOUR chart itself.

I see that your husband personality as someone that is very very smart and has many interests in life but the bad point is, he tends to think waaaaaaay too much with minimal actions and to add on, the ideas that he comes up with usually can be found with some loopholes, not perfect. This may lead him to trouble from time to time when planning for important events.

He seems to be self-disciplined and has an unyielding character with a hidden temper; he prefers "cold wars" than exploding out like a volcano when he's angry.

With regards to his thoughts, he seem pretty easily contented and may have violent AND VERY unique / untraditional thoughts from time to time.

So in comparison i am inclined to say that he has more unique thoughts and unconventional ideas than his outward personality.

He thoughts can be seen as lazy, lol. Someone who just wants to rest his mind and relax all day long, if possible. Loves leisure activities that pleases his mind.

Just a few more tiny bits of information, compared to you, it seems that he shifted houses pretty often and the houses he lives in tends to have something broken. Broken pipes, windows and so on are possibilities.

Oh yea it seems that his siblings are pretty rich too.

[aquarius7000]

Hello,

Well, as you have noticed, your daughter even at a little over a year of age is already attracting a lot of attention, and this is going to be the central point in her life.

You have a person here that is extremely outgoing, extremely, and a real go-getter that can't settle for anything, but the 1st position in whatever she does. The whole chart itself speaks for that. All that fire through Aries, Sag Asc, and Moon in the 7th (house of contact with others), but will also like her private sphere (Moon in Cancer), and could be more mummy's girl.

You can almost count it lucky that Saturn (retrictive) is risen, angular and aspects some of her personal planets, even though widely. This will help this high-fly person keep her feet at least a bit on the ground. She is going to be extremely freedom-loving and dare anyone come in the way of her agenda (alot of Aries, Sag Asc and Aqua on 3rd).

She could have quite a short-tempered personality very active Mars; Mars-Ura; Mars-Moon, and Plu-Mars), so it would do good to keep her indulged in sports, or activities that involve esp physical energy, which she will have in abundance. As she gets older, she is going to travel quite a bit, may even go overseas for studies, or do higher studies. She might like go for a semester or two abroad, say for a language course (Mer conj Jup conj Sun, which rules her 9th), but she will always return home and will be very family-oriented. However, she will not be a very homely person per se.

She could be anti-authority (Leo and Aries are two signs that are most anti-authority, and Ura-Mars dislikes rules), and I am quite sure, she is going to take on a leading position (lot of Aries and Sat in theh 10th). She is going to always want to decide things on her own and be her own boss, you will start noticing this soon. She will be a very independent thinker (Aquarius on 3rd house and a lot of Aries, plus Mer conj Jup).

She is going to be easily trusting and quite kind-hearted that doesn't mind giving another person her last cent (ven in Pisces). She could be a bit accident prone (Ura-Mars and alot of fire, in general), and the best way to avoid this and her short-temperedness, or impulsivness is really to keep her 'physically' indulged in activities, esp sports. This is a person with high-voltage energy. Another thing, she is going to throw quite a few tantrums as a child, be a bit jealous herself and could also have difficulty getting along well with women in general (PLu opposition Moon, and alot of Aries, so Mars-dominated). Since she has a very strong Moon (Moon in cancer and highly-aspected) you will have to teach her how to constructively deal with her emotions, as her Moon is badgered a bit by Mars, Ura and Plu (so it is anything but a typical submissive Cancer Moon). She could give you a challenging time as well.

As I have already mentioned a few times, the key to grooming her, please do not mind, into a somewhat more relaxed and stable personality is to really keep her busy and active, so that all that energy and a highly emotional world (not in the sense emotional is generally used, but more in the 'heated emotions' sense) inside of her is channelled into something constructive. This way she will not get herself into 'situatons'.


AQ7

[melpomene]

ZWDS, thanks once again. I'm a little late in replying because I stayed up all night so interested in astrology that I literally fell asleep on my laptop >.>; lol. But you're accurate about my husband as well, except the part about any of his siblings having money. He and his family have always been very poor. They are Native American and come from a poor reservation (they aren't always rich from casino money like so many people think....) and his family is filled with alcoholism and sexual abuse and violence. It's awful. But you were right about him having siblings- he has 8! And I'm sure everywhere he's lived, something's been broken.
You are accurate about his inside and outward personalities being so different! He is the type that everyone likes and he's always meshed with every group- artistic but athletic, smart and nerdy but able to talk to anyone...he is so much more sociable than I. He's so cool and calm and collected and normal on the outside, even as weird as he is....everyone accepts him and tries to look good to him. It's really funny, because he is so unconventional and that would normally draw people away, as per my experience with people.
Yeah, if he could lay around all day playing video games, he would. He works so hard at work though, it's like two sides of a coin. I have to constantly remind him to help out with stuff I can't or don't want to do, like mowing the grass or carrying heavy things or making him change the cat litter....(I totally make him do all the gross jobs since I change diapers all day) He'd just let it all take over if I didn't stand in front of the TV and make him get up.
You're accuracy level has been amazing ^-^ I'd give it 95%. You're very talented at this!
Aquarius7000, a lot of that is very interesting but I think you got her moon wrong. Every chart I've brought up of her says her moon is in Gemini...and she acts like one too XD

[ZWDS]

Hey thanks for your feedback! Looks like i got to work on the last 5% LOL! May i know which part did i not score full marks? Gotta improve on that part!

Hey, just got back and gonna continue some reading with regards to your husband's chart.

To further add on, i see that his childhood isn't too peaceful. Filled with trouble eh?

His life too... not too smooth and easy going till date eh?

However, he has some support from his elders and superiors. His life and career will tend to see more opportunities in the way. It can appear in the form of changing of system policies and it happens to be good for him!

Continuing off from his Siblings, i'm not joking when i mentioned that his siblings can be rich.

However, allow me to elaborate on this. I see that his siblings are also an emotional person and tend to keep their feelings to themselves. At the same time, they are also very multi-talented (jack of all trades kind), very determined too but they tend to go for changes quite often so, it may appear that they put in a lot of effort in pursuing their current goal and then suddenly changing their goal before even completing the current one.

At times, they also may appear to be strict or maybe even fierce, lol.

Now i also see that they are gonna be richer than your husband only IF they do business but in this case it will be more appropriate that they get into a business partnership or a collaboration instead of doing it all by themselves due to their "changing" nature.

INCOMPLETENESS is a big no-go!

Now now before you start thinking too far, when i mention the word "siblings", the thing is i cannot tell you exactly WHICH of his siblings. Not to mention you said that he has EIGHT (8) siblings! O_O.

The only way i can narrow down for you is when i take a look at their charts but i doubt that's possible, LOL.

But it is definitely true though, time for some detective work? Lol.

Oh yes, I see that his siblings in general get more help and support from people of their same generation as well as their juniors, subordinates blah blah blah. Question again is... which of the 8? Lol.

After all, this is your husband's chart so let's move on to the next point, his WIFE!!!

Oh my! I see that both of you are sort of destined to be together! Having read your chart before this, i can see the match here! Nice!

Okay, i'm gonna be neutral and read off information that is found only based on his chart.

His wife is someone that attracts and encounter a lot of problems in her life. The relationship between him and his wife may encounter problems but don't worry at the end of the day, it will be solved anyway.

(Yes, the "end of the day solving thing" is read off the chart and not of my own opinion, don't worry.)

His wife is unconventional / unique too more to her behaviour. Hah, this is amusing! His thoughts are unique while your behaviour is unique, kind of complement each other eh?

Oh yes, it may appear that his wife is someone that looks to be aloof too. Too rigid with her principles, rules, ya know, the law-by-law type. Probably this is why i mentioned that the relationship between him and his wife could encounter problems. It's probably due to him getting annoyed by the "rules" laid out by his wife! LOL (I'm looking at you!)

Having said all that, his wife will always provide her him. Try to meet his demands, try her best solve his problems if any. Pretty caring eh?

(Please further clarify on this part, xD are you the one always solving his problems and providing for him or the other way around?)

I see that his parents are ambitious, selfish, very indulging in physical pleasures and have many desires, earthly cravings too.

Relationship with his parents seem to be good on the surface. His parents are also smart and very good at speech, talking, articulating. Multi-talented too. Maybe somewhat conservative especially regards to money matters. Hoho, it looks like his parents are pretty stubborn too.

He is not too close with his parents too, huh.

His children! To his point of view, his relationship with his children will be very good too and he feels that at times his children want some say in everything but it's fine. He feels that his children are very kind, reliable, authoritative.

I see that on his chart, it shows that his children will be smart too! Talented at written skills, drawing and the languages.

Now, based on your daughter's chart, do you plan to have one more child in the future? *wink*

Okay, onto his friends. He will find that his friends are very reliable and sincere. His bonding with his friends is excellent. They are very smart and talented in all areas too.

There's nothing much to comment here, i don't see any problems.

Okay now onto his finance. It seems that whenever the word money is raised up, there will tend to be disputes or challenges for him.

So it can be said that his finance will be challenging, may not have much savings and may find that some times, certain circumstances will force him to part with a significant amount of money.

However, at times he may find that he receives some help from the superiors in monetary terms too at least with this help, it will not be TOO bad.

Seems like saving is a huge task too.

Career wise, he is independent and tries his best to achieve higher, to shine brighter and be more outstanding but he may find that his efforts may not be fully appreciated. Very hardworking though.

His main focus in life is YOU, his spouse / wife. You are everything to him in other words.

He tends to spend a lot on you as well, waaay a lot.

Here's the contradiction, even though he loves you a lot, he may find himself slightly distanced from you. I see signs of feeling lonely from you.
Seems like you make him feel depressed or maybe just sad too.

Wow, do you guys quarrel like everyday? I see that he loves you very deeply though.

I shall stop here, waiting for your reply! I do have some further comments though but i shall wait for you first.

EDIT: Oh yes, before i forget, did you happen to see the previous, previous post regarding your career? If you haven't you might wanna take a look though. You probably missed it as you were too sleepy then! LOL

[melpomene]

I believe that the only things that were inaccurate were maybe my career (personally I am more interested in non-profit work but I've always dreamed of doing something -revolutionary-, like protests, or working with human/animal rights groups.) and when I said 95% I Was taking into account my husband's siblings all being poor vagabonds for the most part- most of them all addicted to drinking and repeating the cycle so to speak and not doing anything with their lives...but then you expanded on it a bit and I understand more now so honestly I'd say you're accuracy level is more like 98-99%. You're just really, really good at this. How long have you been studying astrology? I can't imagine ever being this good xD

My husband finally got home from work, and I let him read all this so that he could better comment on it's accuracy for you. He said that it was all perfect, especially the part about moving a -lot- as a child and something always being broken in his homes. His eyes got all big when he read that lol.

His childhood was terrible. He was abused and lived in a car part of the time, got removed by child services and placed in a relatives home, where he was raised in a very strict oppressing manner. He was abused badly by more than a couple family members. His life as a whole has just been terrible. He's even been accused of crimes he's never did, terrible things he's still having to deal with. Is there any indication of it getting better as he ages, or will it just always be a struggle of some sort? I see that you mentioned he will have more career oppertunities in the future, that's great

It's amazing all the things you can see about me in his chart o.o it just seems perfect lol. I'm glad to see we can work out our differences in the end. We do quarrel and bicker a lot.....and it's always about the same stupid stuff. It's so funny that you mention it about me setting too many rules: so many times when we get into a fight he says that I make too many rules about how things -have- to be for something to be right. Heh :<

(Yes, I have found myself to always be solving his problems. I'm like tech support in this relationship, I swear. O_o I've said before I have no idea how he ever functioned in life before I came along. As for providing though, he is the sole provider of money and he takes care of me a lot because I tend to get sick a lot and I tire easily doing tasks. I'm like the mental support and he's the physical.)

His parents are soooo selfish. His mom left him alone to fend for himself a lot while she drank and partied. She definately had an appetite for all earthly desires and was never really there for him. Even now when she's old, she will try and care for him (he's the youngest in the family so he gets the baby treatment) but never be there emotionally for him. Ever. She's beat him and abused him in a variety of forms. Around when we first met, his mom beat him up in a drunken rage and clawed him up and bruised his face. He refused to defend himself.
His dad never acknowledged he was born. He said that was his kid, but he wanted no part of it and never claimed any rights to him or even paid any child support.

Hehe, as for the more children, we've both had our moments where we say we could do it again but then we have our moments where we say NEVER AGAIN. Lol, I guess the option is still there, but if it did I'd want our baby to be older, like 9-10 years old.

He does seem to have always had his greatest luck and bonds with his friends. He's just a popular guy and his friends love him and would do anything for him.

He laughed so hard when he read the part about always having to part with significant amounts of money whenever he finally got some. It always happens that way for him- he finally gets some in the bank, SOMETHING happens and bam, it's all gone. Like for instance, the last time we got a big check our car broke down, a friend needed repayment for money and we had to buy a new car. So it was all gone...

He said he feels like his efforts are definitely never appreciated, even though he works so hard.

That last part where I meant everything to him, he agreed whole heartedly and I almost teared up a little lol (takes a lot to get me to do that, lol)
Then he proceeded to read the next bit where he spends too much on me and teased me about how ALLLLLL his money goes to me. (points to the laptop I'm currently using to type this- was my mother's day present from him :X)

I know he does feel lonely and isolated whenever we quarrel. I know that he gets depressed. I beat myself up for it. But I just get so frustrated at the distance between us, and how unromantic he is :< Even though his devotion and loyalty is in itself romantic as hell...contradiction!

If you're not completely bored talking to me yet, when you're done looking at my husband and I, I have a very interesting case study for you, if you're interested. :3

EDIT: Yes my parents are both snobs that look down their noses at people they deem less than or stupid. It always really pissed me off.

[ZWDS]

Hey, i see that you're back on!

Thank you so much for the feedback i'm glad to be of any help and yea, both of you and your husband do treasure each other a lot i'm glad.

I'm sure with your daughter here, you will see better days ahead.

Well yeah, why not? Bring on another chart for a case study. I'm itching to practice further.

Oh yeah, regarding your career part that i mentioned above, i feel that i should clarify further. What i meant in the above post is that you may find that should you work in something that fits in the post above, you will find better luck and better progression and money blah blah blah.

Although you may not like it or support the idea of it, if you are currently unemployed, there's no harm trying it out right? Any extra $ is still $!

EDIT: Oh yes, regarding your husband. Is he prone to stomach related issues too?

Umm, okay maybe a little sensitive but is he the sort of a scheming person and easily feel stress in the emotional department? You might wanna let him read what i just typed out here if you don't mind.

What job is he currently in right now? Seems like he can work in a job that fits the "providing" nature as well. Money will come through talking and maybe a job that needs him to be on the move OR multi-tasking OR holds several roles at the same time.

EDIT2: Don't worry in his career life, although it may not be super smooth but he will ultimately gain some achievements at the end! So don't give up! Shine brighter!

EDIT3: Hoho! I see that his wife (you) is somewhat lustful. *wink wink*