Thank you So much for starting this thread! I have a lot of questions and really wonder what might happen after this transit.
1) Where does the Venus transit happen in your chart?
I have Gemini cusp in 10th house is ruled by my 3rd house Scorpio Mercury. I also have Vertex at 12'21", north node 16'13" in that cusp. My natal Virgo ascendant at 13'35", 1st house Virgo Mars at 25'27 conjuncts with Libra Venus 1'21" degrees. Natal Moon in Capricorn at 26'52" 5th house which trines Mars and his exaltation sign. Both Mars and Moon sextile Mercury the ruler of 10th and 1st house/AC. Moon also trines Venus.
So sometime in the last Venus Rx transit it had activated both my Mars and Moon by trines. And this time Venus Rx had done the same thing but this time I am single at the moment. You can read the 2nd answer to get a full picture.
And similar things happened in this transit again. I have been watching the transit since I started learning astrology few months ago. I do have a feeling something important might happen in the near future and Jupiter in Taurus has been in my 9th house for a while now. Jupiter is the ruler of my 4th and 7th house since Jupiter took over the rulership by ruling Neptune in 4th house. Neptune transit entered Pisces my 7th house cusp earlier this year. Pluto is transiting my 5th house. And Saturn returns later this year.
And this time Mars in Virgo and already passed my ascendant few days ago, it will make its return on the 24th June. I am really curious what would happen. And this time we have Moon eclipse on the same day of this Venus Rx transit as well? My natal Chiron is in 10th house Gemini as well.
2) What has happened in your life since 2004 that directly relates to this principle?
I think when the last Venus Rx Gemini 17 degrees transit happened, my ex husband at that time we were not married. He was reconnected with a woman he fansied before meeting me in 2002, so it was a unresolved romance to him.
Later in 2005, he went to Taiwan to visit her and later in November 2005 they started online relationship without my knowing even we were planning to get married. We both went back to see my family together. He also had many other online girlfriends from overseas. He has Mars in Gemini 10'18" in the 2nd house Placidus and 3rd in whole sign.
Mars is his rising planet, Aries ascendant also. His natal Gemini Mars opposites Neptune Rx in Sagittarius in 8th for Placidus and in 9th in whole sign.
2nd Gemini Mars was part of the natal T-square of Neptune 8th and Saturn 5th. Saturn conjuncts North node at 9'36 Virgo which conjuncts my natal Virgo ascendant at 13'35" and the woman that he fansied was a Virgo Sun sign not sure the degrees. I do have her birth details though, my ex gave it to me haha.
He later told me he cheated because of low self confidence Gemini Mars in 2nd, by dating multiple women made him feel like he could gain some sense of control and power. He had natal Pluto conjuncts descendant. He was the only male in his family but his mother and 3 sisters were overpowered him. He had no voice in his own family. Cancer Sun and Venus but with an unaspected Moon in 10th house, the most elevated planet in his chart. The Chiron is in his 1st house Taurus in Placidus or 2nd in whole sign.
So either way triggered mutiple lovers from overseas countries (Neptune in 8th intimate relationship, in 9th overseas) on the Internet (Gemini).
Then this issue was bought onto surface from March 2006, several majors issues happened, basically destroyed the foundation of my trust and relationship. Despite that I gave the relationship a chance and married him on 9th August 2008. But the relationship didn't work. Since 2006 after knowing all the behind the scene issues. I had nightmares for about 4 years, mentally and psychology was a huge struggle to my internal well being. On 9th August 2010 just 2 years after wedding, I requested for divorce. He had been depressed since 2006 and last time I saw him few months ago.
Similar time period, when 2004 Gemini Venus Rx at 17 degrees, I met an overseas student like myself at the time. He really liked me and even transfered his course to my university, but he knew I was already in a relationship and I was also devoted in the relationship with my ex so we remained as very distance friends. He normally just looked at us at the back. He was a Scorpio like myself but one year younger than me. Later on in 2006, while all the crisis happaning in my relatiobship. He was unaware and he went back to Hong Kong after graduation. Later we talked in facebook few years later and told him our relationship was rock bottom etc. Until now to my knowledge, he still hasn't have any girlfriend that is 8 years now since we first met.
But personally I don't have any feeling for him anymore.
3) What do you have left that you want to change?
I want to let go of my past relationship and move on. Hopefully a right man will come this time. If Rx represents unresolved Karma from the past. It will be very interesting to see who I will meet in the near future.