When will I get a girlfriend?

Govind · #1 06-03-2012, 03:23 AM

I'm in my early 20s and believe it or not I have never had a girlfriend. Never. None. I'm wondering if there is something messed up in my natal chart.

There is nothing really wrong with me. Socialy I'm kind of awkward, and I don't really frequent places where a lot of 20somethings go out and meet girls. So that's a big part of my problem.

Anyway, so I asked this horary question 'When will I get a girlfriend?' and if anyone could help me out with it that would be great. I can really see the answer as being 'never' but I really hope not...

Govind · #2 06-06-2012, 11:42 AM

Can anyone help? Unfortunately I'm still single haha.

retinoid · #3 06-06-2012, 11:57 AM

So you are Mercury...it is being negatively affected by Mars in your first, which is what makes Mars significant. It is the ruler of your 8th...I see an almost blessing of romance/casual sex but a denial of intimacy. Perhaps you have had flings or budding romances but they never turn into anything. Perhaps you over analyze the situation or are a bit too critical or aren't adventurous enough? Not sure...Furthermore your mind is opposing the 'other' saying you choose people either not right for you, or you haven't learned how to act in a relationship yet or you aren't even sure if you WANT a relationship for whatever reason...

Now you are moving away from the 'other' or relationship. Just going by how long it will take mercury to come back to Jupiter it will be at least another year or perhaps 9 months. With that being said you need to figure out what you WANT in a realistic sense.

Govind · #4 06-06-2012, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by retinoid

So you are Mercury...it is being negatively affected by Mars in your first, which is what makes Mars significant. It is the ruler of your 8th...I see an almost blessing of romance/casual sex but a denial of intimacy. Perhaps you have had flings or budding romances but they never turn into anything. Perhaps you over analyze the situation or are a bit too critical or aren't adventurous enough? Not sure...Furthermore your mind is opposing the 'other' saying you choose people either not right for you, or you haven't learned how to act in a relationship yet or you aren't even sure if you WANT a relationship for whatever reason...

Now you are moving away from the 'other' or relationship. Just going by how long it will take mercury to come back to Jupiter it will be at least another year or perhaps 9 months. With that being said you need to figure out what you WANT in a realistic sense.

Thanks.

Hmm your analysis seems quite correct apart from the casual sex part haha. I do overanalyse stuff a lot and the girl I'm into right now is not available. I would also agree that weirdly enough I don't even feel ready for one right now.

So you say it may take at least 9 months. Is there anything in the chart that indicates I will NEVER have a girlfriend? Because with the way I'm going that seems like a distinct possibility.

retinoid · #5 06-06-2012, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Govind

Thanks.

Hmm your analysis seems quite correct apart from the casual sex part haha. I do overanalyse stuff a lot and the girl I'm into right now is not available. I would also agree that weirdly enough I don't even feel ready for one right now.

So you say it may take at least 9 months. Is there anything in the chart that indicates I will NEVER have a girlfriend? Because with the way I'm going that seems like a distinct possibility.

You'll need to post a natal chart. I am 22 and never was in a relationship either and I did have casual flings (but I am also basically gay which is a different world from being straight)....

gen6k · #6 06-06-2012, 05:59 PM

Hi

According to the horary it will be in the 9th house, higher learning, travel, friends at a distance. Since its Gemini/9th I would most definetly say school.

As for timing you should post a natal chart.

Govind · #7 06-07-2012, 11:40 AM

Here is my natal chart. Thanks in advance to anyone who can help me out with this.

gen6k · #8 06-09-2012, 09:29 PM

Hello.

I looked at your solar return chart for 2014/2015 and it showed an important partnership,sexual tie, romance in a slightly complicated fashion.

This can be +1'd with Transits Post-August 2014. With Mercury, Sun, Jupiter, Venus traveling over your Natal Venus in the 8th.

http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cxayfile2o...7195.16013.gif

nks · #9 03-09-2013, 04:51 PM

Hi,

I'm 22 and still single. I have never had a girlfriend. Please help me out knowing whether I'll ever be successful in any romantic endevours or not. I attach a lot of value to relationships, also theres nothing horrible wrong with me , hence I fail to understand why I do not have a girlfriend.

Please help me out with the problem as to when will i enter a loving, meaningful relationship. Natal chart attached below.