T-square in the composite involving Uranus, Pluto, Sun, Moon - can it be manageable?

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Hi,

I recently discovered what T-square means and I discovered 2 such "animals" (tight orbs) in the composite chart (between myself and the man I am in love with since 2 years).

Sun opposites Uranus and Pluto
Sun squares Moon
Moon squares Uranus and Pluto

Are these stress aspects very powerful or can they be overcome (I understand that we both have problems concerning the use of power and independence, indeed I have radix sun pluto square and 4 personal planets in scorpio, aquarius NN and MC, he has 4 radix Jupiter squares and aquarius moon, venus soft aspects with pluto and uranus). In synastry we have both soft and heavy connections between Pluto, Uranus and personal planets.

On the positive side, the composite has

venus conjunct Pluto
Sun trine Neptune
Moon trine Saturn
Sun exact conjunct Chiron and Juno

The relationship has been long-distance, very erratic, with a powerful psychic connection and deep feelings and it is stagnating for the moment.