I hope I'm not diverting the topic too much... but this made me really curious!
How about the North Node? It should be good, right?
I met a guy with NN in Libra conjunct Pluto (4 degrees orb) and I had my Mars and Lilith conjunct his NN ("surrounding" it) at less than 1 degree orb. My Pluto was also conjunct his but not so close.
Was I supposed to "help" him, make him evolve? (or seduce him, with Lilith there?) The curious part is that we got along well, it was "interesting" and then he fought with all our common friends, changed his phone number and address and no one knew from him any more. He didn't say anything to me!!
I tried to find him just to know what happened and I didn't succeed.
How was I supposed to influence him with such a close conjunction?
Did I frighten him?