Is sun and pluto conjunct partner's south node bad?

[madame moon]

I've heard it's bad to have planets conjunct one's south node because they hold you back, or keep you in past patterns. What do you think?

[fullmoonlibra]

I shall say, stay away from him !
That's true. And Pluto is painful, so the separation could be hard to accept, and could cause trauma.

[Kosefil]

I would not say that has to be true... It might just be that you know each other from passed lifes. If you believe in that..
But then it might be so that you recognise each other and feel an attraction for each other. But it might not be a person that you really can explain why you are attracted to.
And for sure, the above statement could also ring true but not necessarily..

[fullmoonlibra]

If madame moon or her partner has her south node in libra, than this could mean that this person must step out of this relationship to move ahaid.
And look at the house where you will feel that you aren't moving towards..
Pluto conjunct south node causes the black and white thinking in a relationship. A jealous, paranoide relationship, where you don't heal each other, like you could think in the beginning of the relationship, but give each other pain and traumatic experiences with time. But of course, in the beginning lots of sexual attraction, lots of sexual affaires, a deep love, which can turn into deep hate very slowly, like pluto works. You will be addicted to this person before you know, because of the slow process of Pluto. With all the side effects of an addiction. The slow decay, pain, crisis, even dead.. Watch out for manipulation too. Lots of hidden secrets that you may come to know when being already in a deep relationship.

[bubuza_dulce]

Hi,

I hope I'm not diverting the topic too much... but this made me really curious!

How about the North Node? It should be good, right?

I met a guy with NN in Libra conjunct Pluto (4 degrees orb) and I had my Mars and Lilith conjunct his NN ("surrounding" it) at less than 1 degree orb. My Pluto was also conjunct his but not so close.

Was I supposed to "help" him, make him evolve? (or seduce him, with Lilith there?) The curious part is that we got along well, it was "interesting" and then he fought with all our common friends, changed his phone number and address and no one knew from him any more. He didn't say anything to me!! I tried to find him just to know what happened and I didn't succeed.

How was I supposed to influence him with such a close conjunction?
Did I frighten him?