First let me give you a brief outlook on me. I am a Gemini with an Aquarius rising. I am not your typical Gemini however, I am very sensitive. I have Cancer in both my Venus and Mars. My moon is Libra which makes me not to be without a partner.
I'm a Gemini, but it seems like all the other Geminis I've dated it didn't work out. Both of them ditched me after I got too close, I had great chemistry with one and it was some of the best sex I've had but he pretty much ditched me when I got too close, he was very distant etc.
Libra is supposed to be my best match but honestly I haven't had much luck with Libras even though that is my moon. I have a best friend of 11 years that is a Libra and we get along wonderfully, we don't fight at all. But I have dated 3 Libras; One was a complete jerk and a playboy. The other one was very very narrsitistic, he thought he was better than everyone else and I have honestly never met anyone that was so angry and seemed to hate society in general. We talked a lot, the only person I've had a 8 hr phone conversation with before and we got close very fast (I was staying the night all the time, spending weekends together etc), but after the 4 weeks we dated I started to despise him. He said I was trying to chase him and it was obvious I cared more for him than he did me and I was the one making all the plans etc and I seem to only want relationships. The other Libra had very vague interests, he was really downright boring and didn't have much going for him. I also have another friend that is a Libra that goes back and fourth for her friendship feelings with me, she is bi-polar and it shows!
My past ex (broke up in Feb) was a Leo and Gemini Rising. My Venus and Mars is Cancer, his Venus was Virgo and Mars was Leo. We got along great, we were together for 4 years. I still very much care about him and wonder if we should get back together or not...However, our moons weren't a good match. Mine was Libra and his was Taurus, not like that can't be worked around but I had brought to him my concerns on numerous occasions. I need gestures in love to show me I am appreciated, I need romance and passion and regular sex and towards the end he just really wasn't into putting fourth much effort at all. I ended up cheating (which is something I will NEVER do again and would honestly shoot myself in the foot to take it back) It happened once and I broke up with him right after and cut off all contact with the other jerk.
I have a best guy friend of 5 years as well (totally platonic) that is a Leo as well, he is such an extremist and one of the happiest/most positive people I know, he EXUDES energy and I just love to be around it!
What can I say about Cancer?? Only that my Venus and Mars is in it and my other best female friend of 8 years is one as well as my mom, grandma, and grandpa. My grandma is kind of crazy but I am REALLY REALLY close to my mom, she is everything to me and I tell her everything. I am also super close to my Grandpa and we email frequently.
My stepdad and dad are both Sagg. Same name too! (I say stepdad, but that's only because he is the main father figure in my life and we are so close, he and my mom seperated 4 years ago but he has been my father figure since I was 3.) My real dad and I are not very close at all, he is very distant and a lot of the time I feel like he has no love for me. I haven't seen him in 3 years. The other is a Sag with a Scorpio rising, we are very close and communicate on a weekly basis and see eachother reaguarlly.
So that is pretty much the main signs in my life! (The Libras and Geminis were to let people know that while it says those are my best match, I have yet found one that was) For me, Leo has been my best match (well with my Ex that is. The relationship was def lacking in the end but I blame that mostly on the moon, we were trine in everything else, we never really fought much. But when I would express my concerns it's like he didn't even want to do anything about it. Before I did the unthinkable, I said to him at least 6 times in that year I needed more passion, I needed him to put fourth more effort, I needed sex more often, and I was even having thoughts of other guys. That did nothing. We were distant during the school year (he went to school in same state, but 6 hrs away) We would not have had it in 3-6 weeks and when he would be here for a weekend we'd only have it like once and he'd say things like, "If you do all the work" etc. We were lying on opposite couches towards the end and I am a VERY physical person and love cuddling etc.
Now here is the thing, I like this guy. He is on the cusp of Scorpio and Sagg, he was born November 21st. Actually his moon is on a cusp too. I typed his bdate down and it said Sagg, I put the time of birth down and it changed to Scorpio.
Here is his chart:
I have had experience with 2 other scorpios. One was my best friend for a little while, we did everything together and I ADORED him. Then we crossed the friends bound and messed around a little, he said he wanted to then date. We tried for a WEEK and both of us could see it wasn't working so we went back to friends. But he became really distant and wanted nothing to do with me, said it was all or nothing for him. Now I'm the same way with exes (I keep in contact with my current ex only because I think we may have a chance of getting back together) but when that goes away or if I break up with someone, I do not do the "let's be friends" I don't think exes could be friends and it would be too uncomfortable. But for someone like that guy and I who had been friends for SO long and we dated literally JUST a week and saw it didn't work out (only even saw eachother once in that time anyways) he wanted nothing to do with me?? Crazy.
Another Scorpio I came in contact with was one that became instantly drawn to me (so did the other one) he said he was like in love with me after 2 weeks. I was with my ex at this time so nothing happened between us. Yet he would get mad whenever I would bring him up (my bf at the time) and get super jealous/moody. I told him he would have to seperate his feelings for me when we hung out and he said he couldn't do it. I broke off the friendship because he was trying to intefer in my relationship too much.
Now here is another Scorpio that I am asking you guys if I have a chance with. BUT not just any Scorpio...He is on the Cusp so he is also a Sag. He has a lot of fire in his sign (aries, Sagg, and even some Libra) and strangely enough My midheaven is Scorpio and his is Gemini! We have actually known eachother for 11 years, we used to hang out alll the time. But then halfway through high school he moved away for a few years and here we are again (moved back) re-connecting again! I was told that while this combo is never easy and is odd indeed, if the Gemini has a lot of water or earth in her sign it could work just fine. Well I have a lot of water! I have Cancer in my Venus and Mars and I have Scorpio in Pluto and my midheaven. As for earth, I have Capricorn in Neptune, Saturn, and Uranus.
I am a Gemini, I def have the traits. However I am not the type to sleep around, I do some stuff besides sex when I'm single/dating but I draw the line at sex. I am a very physical and intimate person, I could never do FWB because I get attached way too fast. That was why the other Gemini cut it off with me, he says I was getting too attached. In a lot of my relationships (minus the leo one, he didn't seem to mind) I have always been pretty clingy, needy, and had bouts of jealousy. I am VERY sensitive. If I am not getting attention or physical contact (cuddling etc) I get moody. Part of the issue with distance with my ex was he wasn't talking/communicating enough and I need that just as much as the physical. I need someone to challenge me and have a personality, want to do things etc. I cannot just casually date, I won't date someone if I cannot at least see some what of a future with them or a relationship or am interested in that aspect. Now after a few dates I may not see it, so I will cut it off then but I usually always think about the future and this guy is the same way. He said he used to have a huge crush on me back in the day. It's funny because I was telling my best friend and my mom (both cancers) about him, I tell them EVERYTHING. And he is very very close to his mom and told her also about me.
So I'm wondering, do you think we have a decent shot? We have known eachother for a long time and neither of us are the traditional Scorpio/Gemini, not at all really! I would say I'm almost more like a Cancer when it comes to feelings etc. Very rarely will I tell someone they are getting too clingy or to back off because I need space etc. Usually scorpios are like that, but we had a great night last night, very passionate! (no sex yet) and I would have for sure thought he would be blowing up my phone today (he was before we got together and I was just a little uneasy because he was coming off very intense when I hadn't seen him in so long) but now that I have seen him, I feel it too. But he hasn't texted me yet today....I'm waiting for him to text me. I initiated contact yesterday. I left this morning around 10. He's a scorpio but he has that Aries and sagg aspect in him that allows space etc. Now I'm the one on my toes and freaking out lol. But I know I know if I text him he will text me for sure, but I'd like to give him a chance to do it on his own. We both really like eachother.
What do you guys think?