Moon Uranus aspects & real life.

[Hekate]

Originally Posted by Blackempress

In Sue Thomkins book 'Aspects of astrology' she said Moon-Uranus behaves in an off-handed way because the individual expects to be 'cut off' emotionally suddenly so the person vacillates between the extremes of being emotionally clingy(Moon) & coldly independent (Uranus) eventually developing a one foot in-One foot out attitude in relationships.
She also said that there are unexpected/sudden events that produce the long term trauma.

The Uranus-moon aspects made me curious since I noticed that if we identify 'connected event' it can bring alot of insight into our behaviour in relationships .
I have my Moon in 7th & Uranus in 9th forming a sextile. My emotional (Moon) cut (Uranus) came from an intimate relationship (7th). I've seen this aspect in many charts & was curious to know what the past had been to intellectualise emotions & feel in short-shocks!
What would it mean to have an 11th Moon with a 3rd House Uranus or Vice-versa? Love to see how many can 'decipher' the cause & share!

I do have natal Moon (Virgo) in 12th house sextile to natal Uranus (Scorpio) in 2nd house.
In some way I would also ''kill'' for individuality!
I had many emotional cut in my life, also very difficult to deal with, but it always seems like natural (normal) to me. It is my destiny...

[Claire19]

Originally Posted by Blackempress

I'm still trying to find that Libran 'balance'.... wonder if anyone ever achieves it?

Well, as a Stellium in Libra person myself I have come some way but I am still indecisive with a lot of issues and see both sides and sway back and forth. Drive myself nuts. I think we need to take an objective view and make judgements that way. l

[Judy_AzVirgo]

Originally Posted by Blackempress

In Sue Thomkins book 'Aspects of astrology' she said Moon-Uranus behaves in an off-handed way because the individual expects to be 'cut off' emotionally suddenly so the person vacillates between the extremes of being emotionally clingy(Moon) & coldly independent (Uranus) eventually developing a one foot in-One foot out attitude in relationships.
She also said that there are unexpected/sudden events that produce the long term trauma.

I was just re-reading this, and it occurs to me that Tomkins' premise may not be correct. The Moon isn't always clingy (in Fire and Air signs/houses, for instance), and Uranus isn't always coldly independent (if it's in Water signs or making a lot of aspects in the chart to the point where its energy is much modified).

A square aspect between the two is still difficult, especially in one's early years. Just saying....

[Absynthe]

Originally Posted by bittermoon

i tried getting close to somebody with a moon-uranus conjunction (in libra)... there was just no way. there was indeed something very high-strung about this person, total emotional detachment (to people, but a disproportionate attachment to animals), could get really upset about something i didn't see how it could be a big deal, would often not get when something was a joke and well... rather erratic. my scorpio moon did not compute.

lol, you just described me. I have moon-uranus conjunct in first.