Hello. I'm a pisces/virgo rising (3/2/1991) and my boyfriend is a cancer (7/10/1991). Lately, my boyfriend has been joking around about how he's going to go on dates with other girls and makes little jokes about hiding our relationship status on facebook and it bothers me. I end up getting angry and he tells me that I'm over reacting and that I'm jealous.
As a pisces I know that I can be very touchy, but I also don't want him to walk all over me or take advantage of my kind nature. I know that cancers are capable of manipulation, but I don't know what's going on with him as to whether he really wants to be with other people or if it's some kind of insecurity.
He has both Venus and Mars in leo, so I know that he likes to be noticed and get attention from the opposite sex. My Venus is in Aries, so anything pertaining to him focusing his attention on other ppl except for me is bound to get me angry. Right now, Pluto is in squre to my venus so idk if this transit is bringing about these negative feelings and events in my relationship.
We love each other, and I thought that as a cancer he would do everything he could not to hurt my feelings. He used to do the same thing a few months back, and I told him that I didn't like him joking like that and threatened that I would leave him so he stopped, but now he's doing it again and I don't understand why. Should I give him another chance or should I leave him? Every time I threaten to break up with him, he gets really mad and tries to send me on guilt trips and I end up staying to work things out. His venus and mars also fall into my 12th house, so idk if that has anything to do with it.
Am I being too sensitive or is he manipulating me? Please help