Moon Opposition Neptune Synastry

StillOne · #1 04-18-2012, 05:05 PM

Hello and thanks for stopping by. I'd appreciate some insight into my Moon in Opposition to her Neptune in synastry.

I just feel that she doesn't understand me or my nature. I feel in a way that she is possibly disillusioned by who I am and may be projecting what she wants on me (fantasy = Neptune?).

Is this what Moon in Opposition to Neptune is? If so, it's very confusing as it seems we are not living in reality... to an extent. Sure, it can be beautiful sometimes but I get the sense that she doesn't really know me and she's creating what she thinks I am in her head. It seems maybe she doesn't listen to me...

We're both very emphasized in the element of Air and both lack Earth. Are we too similar maybe? Maybe not grounded enough?

I read on Cafeastrology that Moon in Opposition Neptune is a very challenging aspect to have in synastry.

Does anyone have any information on this? I seem to be perpetually confused and frustrated.

Thanks for any insight!

I added her chart with aspects to chiron since that seems to be a theme.

Caro · #2 04-19-2012, 01:02 PM

This is an interesting take on this aspect.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch...tryaspects.htm

it would depend on other aspects as to how this will 'play' out.

I assume there are other aspects in the synastry.

StillOne · #3 04-19-2012, 03:34 PM

Thanks Caro,
I've been reading thru some of these other Neptune synastry threads and it seems I'm not alone. It indeed seems to be a very challenging aspect in synastry filled with a lot of illusion.

When we first met it was love at first sight for me. However that rug came out from under me rather quickly (which is typical for me anyway...). Our connection seems to be based on a fantasy of what we're looking for? I think there's a sense that there is an illusion of sorts at play that makes me constantly question the reality/practicality of this relationship. It's hard for me to accurately explain since this feeling is so intangible... something just feels (moon) amiss (neptune) all the time.

We have broken up and been back together several times now. It seems I fool myself into thinking that this is what I'm looking for when in reality it's not. It seems that I don't quite understand the nature of the relationship completely (not that you ever could understand a relationship completely).

In my situation, there is quite a bit of miscommunication. We seem to always be tip-toeing around each other. She leaps before she looks and I tend to research and provide grounding. Maybe that's what's so frustrating... that I struggle to ground myself anyways and it's draining to have to ground two people... Anyway, thanks for your response.

Caro · #4 04-19-2012, 04:26 PM

Ok
I liked the part in the extract which said you had may have a spiritual connection with each other.

perhaps that is it - the grounding issue. you can become resentful if you have libra planets if you have to do all that)

(I was also getting you confused with someone else on here - thought you were older! must be my neptune)

StillOne · #5 04-19-2012, 04:43 PM

Thanks Caro,
I'm a few years older than her (5). I did enjoy the part about our spiritual connection, as well, and feel that's one of the better connections we have in our relationship. However, the constant confusion and misunderstandings are driving me nuts. Lol... Indeed there's heavy Libra in both our charts... Maybe that's a big part of the tit-for-tat aspect in our communications also. Frustrating.

KristyDarling · #6 04-20-2012, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by StillOne

I read on Cafeastrology that Moon in Opposition Neptune is a very challenging aspect to have in synastry.

Does anyone have any information on this? I seem to be perpetually confused and frustrated.

Thanks for any insight!

I added her chart with aspects to chiron since that seems to be a theme.

I have my Neptune opposed my finace's Moon

I'm sorry to tell you , I have some similar behavior like yourgf. Which I 'm away and back again to him several times , which make him frustrated very much.He is angry that I lived and when I'm back he can't say No to me. In my side , I want to live but I can't . This run -away issue is not because My opposed Neptune but because we are too diffrent, and we should broked up already but the strong karmic relationship tied us together which can't be easily detached.

From your syn chart , I think you are important for her deeply in her consciousness , just look at your sun /urenus on her AC ! If she don't aware of your presence , something might turn her head to see you ...lol
plus your powerfull Pluto in her12th house, your moon in her 8th and her moon sit on your 8th cusp!(or fall in 7thHouse too) , Both 7th Houses were activated , that's a lot to tell..

In my very humble Op., she has stelluim 11th (esp. saturn is there) and stellium 12th , give her a time , it might be hard for her by herself alone .When it come to relationship might be harder than any.

HTH, good luck

StillOne · #7 04-23-2012, 05:06 PM

Thanks KristyDarling! Your post compelled me to take a closer look into the synastry chart. We do indeed have some favorable aspects and connect on many levels.

However, I've noticed that time after time of us trying to merge that something seems to happen to prevent this from happening. It is the most unusual circumstances. Very odd... almost like divine intervention. I'm not sure how to explain it otherwise.

Below I included a new synastry chart. Warning, it is very cluttered but I felt I should include this because it shows 2 other prominent aspects that seriously concern me. One is that her Pluto squares my Ascendant. The other is that her Pluto opposes my Chiron in the 10th. Being angular, both of these, I sense, impact me tremendously.

Optimistic Approach · #8 02-10-2013, 01:11 AM

I can relate to a lot of this currently!

I am finding that this relationship leaves me feeling a little on the paranoid side, too. Heck, I even accused him of liking one of my guy friends, knowing very well that neither of them swing that way! I felt REALLY dumb afterwards, but I still can't shake this strange feeling. I disappeared on him for the day, I needed a breather. But now I am feeling sick over it, and I miss him.

This aspect is highly addictive.

tokyo.lights · #9 02-11-2013, 03:15 AM

Having been on both ends of a Moon-Neptune hard aspect, I can tell you it's tricky!
As Neptune, I saw Moon as completely absent of any faults. To me they were perfect. Mistakes were quickly forgotten and hurts quickly forgiven. Any boundaries regarding emotions dissolve...which is bad. Very bad. Your emotions become one, at least to Neptune. What Moon felt, I felt. It became a psychic-emotional connection, where I looked to make the Moon happy so I felt happy. If the Moon was depressed, you feel depressed. It comes to a point where Neptune feels relieved when the Moon is not around. As if you reclaim emotional identity and sanity. Then there's the threat Neptune crashes into reality, sees the Moon for what it is and bolts.
Now being the Moon squaring my partner's Neptune, I appreciate the endless empathy, compassion and lack of judgment coming from him. We have to work extra hard to avoid emotional games and misunderstandings, but so far its okay.

Optimistic Approach · #10 02-12-2013, 09:42 PM

Your words are the essence of what I feel with this aspect.

I've experienced the conjunction on both ends (beautiful thing!), and the opp/square/trine being Neptune. The opp/square never fail to bring out the best and worst in me, I swear.

I am very protective of him and our relationship, and I know I can be annoying at times, but his safety and well-being mean everything to me. If I could, I would shelter him from bad people and difficult times.

I especially liked this:

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Originally Posted by tokyo.lights

It comes to a point where Neptune feels relieved when the Moon is not around. As if you reclaim emotional identity and sanity.

I want to get lost in him, but I also need to get away at times.

luminairy · #11 02-21-2013, 01:56 AM

my moon 25 degrees taurus is opposition 2 degree sag neptune in my natal chart...So everyone with a few years of me in either direction I have this aspect with...The challenges of miscommunication, dissapointment, and unclarity have provided me an opportunity to become very clear, communicative and honest within myself and with others, as well as a deep spiritual connection with many of my peers. It seems to be a generational aspect with everyone who has the moon in a certain sign/degree that neptune occupies.