Curious about my friend
We've been friends for two years, he is a Taurus
Edit: I've placed his chart at the bottom and for frame of reference, my own. His name is Jack Porterfield and mine Brad Wilson.
In analysis, he is a good friend, I've tried to put up with him for two years now. I wonder if he always believes he is right no matter what. Whining or speaking on issues then derives him to offer you advice, not sympathy. Met many like this.
He is a positive sort. I suppose it is simply as if I MUST take his advice sometimes or he will tell me something on the lines of 'You're living a bad life'. Somehow, I am trying to sort these issues myself. I find I'm believed to be wrong on that matter. The issue never truly seems to be fixed with him. I realise he is trying to be benevolent, despite what is going on.
I simply what it is that causes him to argue... what is his debate? Is he attempting to flush me with his own opinion?
He can be loving, cold and condescending, angry sometimes. Again, extremely difficult to cater for in debate.
I see life simply as having a docile chat. Apparently, I speak stories to him far larger than they are, he says I type too much ( as we speak on msn, however, I were referred to as loud in rl ). I simply am trying to bring my point across that I do not want to change my ways, but somehow it appears to him I'm trying to destroy myself.
I am however, very descriptive in my writing, but I'd rather, as I'd prefer no jurisdictions.
My own thoughts is it's the Capricorn moon but somehow the mercury too, I am aware of Aries hating whining, he is also a Aries/Taurus cusp. He was once very gentle and loving being, but I left him for some months due to differences in opinion and he came back, again now often cutting down now on what is called my 'Emotional talk' and wanting to keep everything lighthearted.
I suppose this is him being positive, but I find if he truly dislikes my ways, he'd leave, but no, I find he chooses to push on!
I thought Tauruses really were supposed to be sweet and wouldn't change people, this I idealise but I don't know what gets him this way. The fact I have to stop myself for him too? How does he even acknowledge me?
I must ask myself if he is a friend worth having sometimes. I love him really, he is very caring, affectionate, friendly, I simply do not know how to take this condescending attitude. This way of thinking that simply needs to be highlighted. These are not issues, these are issues trying to change my very way of thinking which seems to be such a problem to him. These are not even life problems.
The very fact I talk too much? I think too much? I have to be condescened against for this? It causes me to dig my heels in really. That could be my aquarius moon however, which over meditation, has caused me to often calm down the debate.
I wonder if it thrills him really, to have such debate too. To the fact I feel nagging has to be involved, quite simply if I didn't like a friend for who he was, then I would leave him, since I 1. wouldn't like a argument and 2. changing people to me is ridiculous, friends should be appreciated and loved.
Ps: If I am whining, I am simply trying to figure him out.
Last edited by Bradders; 03-26-2012 at 11:13 AM.