Re: question on end of matter house
Hi Jag, I hope I am saying it correctly (otherwise Radu or Draco will correct I hope!) but I take the natural 4th house if I pose a personal question (I mean for myself, like: where did I put my glasses sort of question) and if someone else asks the question in my presence, I also take the 4th house, because then the person falls in the first (and the 4th is then his or her end of the matter house). It is either you who asks and you take the 4th of the Ascendant or you take the other person and that person takes the Ascendant place and then it is also his or her 4th that counts. So I believe that it does not matter what the question is about. It should always be the 4th house of the querent, whether it be you or someone else. So even if I ask about my brother and his wife and if they will stay together, I am the one asking the question about the outcome of their marriage and therefore I will look at my 4th house. I hope this is the right way to go about it. I understand your conflict here, I also wonder if I then should not look at the 4th of the 3rd for my brother to see HIS end of the matter house or the 4th of the 9th house house to see HER end of the matter, but then we end up with 2 end of the matter houses. If my brother comes to me and asks about the same thing, or his wife for that matter, then the one who asks the question becomes the Ascendant and automatically his or her 4th house will show the end of HISor HER matter. Hope this helps clarify a bit. (and should I be wrong then I really do hope the experts amongst us will tell me so!!).