Can one search for a soul mate? (newbie)
.....Is it even possible to look for a soul mate, or do you kind of just wait to see if fate, the planets, God, or whatever throws you together? I'm a 40-something female, never married (altho I've had several long term relationships). "Getting married" has never been important to me, but finding a soul mate would be fabulous. I guess my problem is that I don't want to endure countless mediocre dates trying to find "the one"; I'd have more fun sitting at home with a good book! Natally, my 7th house is empty, except for Chiron...Aquarius is on the 7th house cusp. Any insights appreciated!