Re: Life Partners?
Hey no worries, but since nobody has yet answered your question, can I ask what you mean by life partners? What is your priority with this guy... that you are 'life partners' or that you remain in a relationship with him, because I really don't think the two meanings are synonymous. You say you've been fighting because each of you personally has hang-ups that appear to annoy the other. What about that would make you think that the two of you are personally compatible?
In terms of partnering-up in life, don't you want to be with someone who you can trust and who you can build with? Of course its hard to let go, especially when you love someone. But, have you heard that saying, though i forget how it goes exactly, 'if you love something set it free' AND then see what happens? I'm not saying let him go altogether. I am just suggesting that you let go of all expectations and personal desires, and view the relationship between you for what it is and see what needs to be, and what can be, done. Horary can give an answer regarding the whereabouts of where you left your keys, but not whether you will go and look for them today or next week Wednesday, by which time someone else may have grabbed them. What I am saying is, don't invest too much into an horary answer when there could well be things you should be doing that don't involve it and are within your power.
You could be "life partners", I don't know, but don't you think by putting that kind of pressure on a relationship, you could ruin it? Remember that, first and foremost, you are individuals who need room to grow. If you love someone, and want any hope of receiving real love from them, giving them that freedom should be one of your priorities, irrespective of what the outcome may mean for you personally. Trust isn't something we buy, or are given, it comes naturally when you know, almost certainly, that even with a million other options, that person will do right by you, whether you call them your "life-partner" or not. You don't get that kind of knowledge without giving people rope (to use as they wish).
Also, although I can't do horary readings, I do know that at times the chart is not 'fit' to be judged. One of these indications is when the moon is in 'via combusta', which, in your chart, it is. I'd take this, in itself, as a clue that you are looking for an answer which you are not supposed to be looking for. Give love unconditionally, to all, and you will be fine.
“Where love rules, there is no will to power and where power predominates, love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other.”—Carl G. Jung
Last edited by Mandy; 01-18-2012 at 10:58 PM.