lilith opposite sun in synastry?

[Philly777]

well, my crush has libra lilith in 12nd house and it is opposite my aries sun in 11th house. we can't communicate clearly and it looks like he is ignoring me. can this aspect be an explanation?

[Claire19]

Originally Posted by Philly777

well, my crush has libra lilith in 12nd house and it is opposite my aries sun in 11th house. we can't communicate clearly and it looks like he is ignoring me. can this aspect be an explanation?

I dont use Lilith. You need to look at your synastry...We have to look at Venus, Mars and other planets for potential love. Often Neptune is involved for unrequited or impossible loves.

[Neptune Rising]

Maybe post the synastry chart, you can edit out the date of birth details.

I study Lilith, found this often represents a temptation with the Lilith person being the one doing the tempting to the planet person. Lilith may make the planet person aware of things inside them that may have been repressed or hidden for some reason.

Feeling unsupported may be Saturn/Moon hard aspects, or Saturn/Mercury if you feel communication is difficult. Maybe even Pluto/Moon or Pluto/Venus hard aspects - the Pluto person can be stand-offish to the Venus person sometimes as a means of control. Saturn/Venus also.

[Philly777]

Thanks for the answer . coming to hard aspects, yeah we have some, for example his saturn is opposite my mars and my saturn is opposite his midheaven. by the way, do you think, that his neptune in my 7th house means he lies or cheates me?

[Neptune Rising]

Neptune in the 7th cannot be considered on it's own as an aspect. You need to look at how it interacts with the other planets in his chart, then at how this interacts with your natal inner planets, especially Mercury for lying.

[Philly777]

Originally Posted by Neptune Rising

Maybe post the synastry chart, you can edit out the date of birth details.

I study Lilith, found this often represents a temptation with the Lilith person being the one doing the tempting to the planet person. Lilith may make the planet person aware of things inside them that may have been repressed or hidden for some reason.

Feeling unsupported may be Saturn/Moon hard aspects, or Saturn/Mercury if you feel communication is difficult. Maybe even Pluto/Moon or Pluto/Venus hard aspects - the Pluto person can be stand-offish to the Venus person sometimes as a means of control. Saturn/Venus also.

oh I see.. one isteresting thing I want to mention is that my venus is opposited by his mercury and sun, and the same situation for his venus (opposited by my sun and mercury). there are only good aspects to both moons, only one bad thing is that my moon is squared by his venus. plutos also conjuncts, trines and sextiles.. nothing bad.
(I began to think that his pallas in aquarius makes him long-distance -relationship-guy. maybe he likes it this way)

you said you are studying lilith, so I want to give information more about my lilith. the things is that my lilith is really dangerous lilith, it is 29 degree sagittarius in 7th house, and I think it is the reason of my affair with foreigner in a foreign country and plus, he was 12 years older than me. my lilith is also opposite to my ascendant and mars I think this lilith makes me do things I would never imagine I was capable of.

[Philly777]

Originally Posted by Neptune Rising

Neptune in the 7th cannot be considered on it's own as an aspect. You need to look at how it interacts with the other planets in his chart, then at how this interacts with your natal inner planets, especially Mercury for lying.

okay , his neptune conjunct my moon, uranus and neptune, sextile midheaven and opposite my mars, sesqui-quadrate my venus.

his mercury in my 5th house conjunct my pluto, sextile moon and neptune, opposite venus and inconjunct my sun. btw , my mercury inconjunct his sun too. does it mean something?

[Neptune Rising]

Originally Posted by Philly777

oh I see.. one isteresting thing I want to mention is that my venus is opposited by his mercury and sun, and the same situation for his venus (opposited by my sun and mercury). there are only good aspects to both moons, only one bad thing is that my moon is squared by his venus. plutos also conjuncts, trines and sextiles.. nothing bad.
(I began to think that his pallas in aquarius makes him long-distance -relationship-guy. maybe he likes it this way)

you said you are studying lilith, so I want to give information more about my lilith. the things is that my lilith is really dangerous lilith, it is 29 degree sagittarius in 7th house, and I think it is the reason of my affair with foreigner in a foreign country and plus, he was 12 years older than me. my lilith is also opposite to my ascendant and mars I think this lilith makes me do things I would never imagine I was capable of.

'Good' aspects can also give problems with communications, trines make the energy flow effortlessly, so for example, a person with their own difficulties with their natal Mercury having a part of that aspect in trine with your natal Mercury, you may feel it as difficulties in communications. A Pluto trine will still carry the energy of Pluto, just effortlessly. I take back the use of the words 'good' and 'bad' aspects as it can mislead people. For example, my natal Venus trines Pluto, it is seen as a 'good' aspect but my relationships are still flavoured very much by the depths of Pluto , it's just that the energy flows effortlessly.

Older partner is more linked with Saturn, rather than Lilith.

For planets in the 7th house area, we can tend to project those qualities outwards and attract people into our lives that help us play those qualities out, eventually learning about and maybe integrating them into our awareness.

[Neptune Rising]

Originally Posted by Philly777

okay , his neptune conjunct my moon, uranus and neptune, sextile midheaven and opposite my mars, sesqui-quadrate my venus.

his mercury in my 5th house conjunct my pluto, sextile moon and neptune, opposite venus and inconjunct my sun. btw , my mercury inconjunct his sun too. does it mean something?

Neptune/Moon - Moon tends to idealise the Neptune person, it can lead to a rude awakening when one person fails to live up to the ideal. Its how you handle this awakening that determines whether you get the Neptunian delusion and disapointment, or a spiritual realisation of our human foibles.

[Philly777]

Originally Posted by Neptune Rising

Neptune/Moon - Moon tends to idealise the Neptune person, it can lead to a rude awakening when one person fails to live up to the ideal. Its how you handle this awakening that determines whether you get the Neptunian delusion and disapointment, or a spiritual realisation of our human foibles.

I guess after reading his chart (when he doesnt have a freaking clue what birth chart or synastry is ) , I will never idealize him

Actually, in the beginning it was him idealizing me . I never thought of him as an ideal human being, just thought he was a good match for me

[CapAquaPis]

I need to consult the site astro.com on where the position of the near-earth object Lilith on my star charts. The web site already has Chiron, the comet-like "centauroid" in the outer-most limit of the solar system (not to be confused with Pluto's moon or "twin" planetoid Charon), determines many of our horoscopes. There is another NEO by the name Cruithne was first found in 1986 by mistake when observatories followed Halley's comet in its 76 year orbit by earth, and Sedna discovered in 2003 is a "dwarf planet" by the IAU's debatable status. They are also brought upon by astrologers of the western and eastern branchs not long ago.