Is the girl I'm attracted to attracted to me?

[Amit89]

Dear members,

I have asked a question today to finally find out whether the girl I'm attracted to is attracted to me back, by what mean is does she fancy me and the potential of this relationship.

I've always been attracted to this girl since I was small and she is four years older than me. We have never talked to each other. However I'm strongly attracted to her hence I'm asking this question. She does live a bit far from me.

I will try to rectify this chart. The significators, which are mars (me) and venus (her) do not meet, however, I meet her dispositor (venus in sag-ruled by jupiter in taurus, trine mars). Traditional ruler mars is near the top of the chart (not exactly) with some good and bad aspects and its dispositor mercury is in its fall but receiving good aspects from the moon, conjuct venus and conjuct true node. Sun is tightly conjuct the ascendent and receiving stressful aspects from the moon and mars.

The 7th house, which is her, in the first but weakened by face, conjuct mercury, trine moon (which is a very GOOD sign) and its dispositor, is in the 5th house, applying a trine to my significator but weakened by being retrograde. I'm not sure if the mutual reception between venus and jupiter counts. The part of fortune is opposing mars too and its at the very last degree! (Not sure what this means).

Since there are no aspects between significators and she is weakened by face, I'm inclined to say no. Moon is already past venus.

Thanks in advance,
Amit

[Amit89]

The chart attached.

[dr. farr]

(Following is not in accordance with standard horary practice and uses whole sign house format)

I'll use HER Lot of Romantic Desire to delineate this question (HER Lot of Romantic Desire takes her signifying sign-Taurus-as the ascendant in the LORD formula ascendant+mars-moon)

-querent = 1st house = Scorpio = Mars
-HER LORD falls @ 6 Gemini, disposited by Mercury
-querent (Mars) flows away from her LORD = - testimony
-LORD falls in the sign positing the Dragon's Tail (SN) = - testimony
-Mercury, significator of her LORD, flows away from Mars and makes no applying aspect to it
-her signfying sign significator, Venus (significator of Taurus on the 7th house) also flows away from querent's significator Mars and makes no applying aspect to Mars which = - testimony

...all testimonies seem to be negative, so unfortunately I'll have to say that in my opinion, no she does not fancy the querent or have romantic interest in the querent, at this present time (things can change over time, though!)

[Amit89]

Hi Dr.Farr,

Thank you for your analysis. If I'm honest, I'm just being irrational here and seem to fall in love easily. I'm still young and have plenty of time.

Nevertheless, thank you for you kindness and compassion as seen in your post.


Amit