I have a similar problem, and a similar kite.
Intense connection... would be great to have some feedback on the meaning of this!
In composite, there is a grand trine in Air between pluto, sun and saturn... with a kite forming with neptune 1st house sagittarius.
In Davidson and Progressed composite, same formation, but with different planets and elements.
In synastry, there is only an ALMOST trine though.
Any feedback would be great
many thanks