I wondered if I could receive any help with the following synastry aspects which I canít seem to get a picture on. These aspects are in my natal chart with person ĎBíís planets making some identical aspects as to those in my natal chart. Incidentally, weíre not together, we had a brief relationship lasting 3 months however, I'm quite unable to blank him out the past 7 months and I wondered if I could get some answers from the charts.
I have a well aspected Venus Ė Trine Uranus, Sextile, Neptune, and Trine Pluto Ė my interpretation is - causing idealism, quick at falling in love and viewing it all through rose-tinted glasses and to have unrealistic expectations with extreme highs and lows, unable to give up hope. My Venus falls on his 3 mystery planets in the same way as my natal chart trine uranus, sextile neptune and trine pluto - the orbs are tight meaning it's emphasised at just over 1 degree. Is this significant?
I have Uranus and Pluto in the 7th House. His Uranus and Pluto are in my 7th house in synastry. I know these arenít easy planets to have there natally. Uranus likes change and Pluto control and these are the kind of partners I like to attract or if I donít meet that sort of person Iíll act out so they produce the qualities of these 2 planets. In addition I have a 9th house Neptune (home of hopes dreams and wishes) his Neptune falls in my 9th house.
What effect though does it have on person A when person Bís planets fall into that house where they have natal planets and make reflections to their natal chart aspects in some form with these aspects of Venus.
Further evalutation I have looked at - includes his Venus square my Pluto hence the fireworks, obsession and hard to forget syndrome. Another point we have a Uranus/Venus square in synastry and I believe this can point to divorce/separation. In fact I have this aspect with my ex husband (relationship lasted 20 years altogether). However, would the nice Uranus/Venus trine soften the square and its effects if it occurs on both sides i.e one a trine and one a square with the same planets involved?
We have both sunís in the 7th house, 1 moon there too house of partnerships and also open enemies another moon in the 5th where play/relationships/children occur and both mercuryís in the 7th house. Iím reading Howard Sarposaís book on houses at the moment so I can get a better understanding of my natal chart) though I should mention that 7th house planets are not necessarily plain sailing in synastry.
In addition my 7th house cusp is Cancer so this is where I would look for my mate also shows I look for a mother type and reveals the sun sign attraction. We have a sun conjunct south node link but it's weak at 7 degrees and my South Node trines his saturn at 4 degrees. Perhaps that's the strong factor in pulling me back though not necessarily the way forward as the south node holds us back from the current life path. My Venus trines his North Node, pluto's trine and neptune opposite and uraus trine. Again a connection with my 3 mystery planets. The Part of Fortune (not sure if thatís the Vertex? Iím still learning about astrology) is conjunct the North Node. His 7th house cusp is Scorpio which I missed by 12 hours though my sunís still opposite his ascendant at 4 degrees with his opposite mine at a very tight 0.4 degrees.
I have a 10th house sun/moon Ė he works in the same company, we were friendly acquantainces/colleagues for a long time but then a set of strange co-incidences started to happen.
Mars in the 8th house is a very sexual position. The 8th house is where sex, death, inheritance and the soul reside.
I also looked at the composite chart which represents the relationship together almost like a 3rd entity or child if thatís the correct way to interpret and in fact someone on here commented as I picked up on the Tripod pattern in the composite chart and thought along the lines of a loose grand trine, meaning a strong connection though I canít understand which element it was in - as Iíve only learned by reading not by looking at charts. The composite sun in the 7th , Venus in the 1st and Mars are positive factors. We have a Venus conjunct Mars, hence the passion that was, square Jupiter in composite which means we enjoy being in each others company although thereís a harsh Chiron conjunct Ascendant moon/Uranus/Pluto aspect which is difficult and controlling if I've got that right, this adds a great coldness and distance?
Natal Mars' are opposite which means we don't interact at the right/same time?
In addition there is a 6th / 12th house emphasis in the composite - Uranus, Pluto and Saturn which leads me to believe its a relationship about service and not one of equals if Iíve interpreted that correctly. But this is perhaps counterbalanced by the 1st/7th house emphasis - Venus, Mars, Sun.
Saturn the Ďglueí planet is trine the Sun and Moon in synastry. Thatís a good stabilising factor which helps longevity as far as I can interpret. The orbs are tighter on the sun. There are no sun/moon connections only a moon jupiter conjuction. And a couple of moon/pluto uranus aspects in the composite. Both suns have a weak trine in synastry.
Could I have any comments if my interpretations are along the right lines please? Also what the planet aspects mean when they reflect my personal natal chart or if this is not relavant ? Thirdly if Iíve missed anything thatís glaring which will help me understand the whole picture and please correct me if Iíve made any blunders in trying to interpret.
Both natal charts and the composite charts are attached.
My current personal transits are Uranus 12th house, 8th house Saturn, 1st house Neptune.