Has he been distant with me...

[Astrologer4U]

This man and I have been talking to each other since April of this year and just recently, about 3 weeks ago we established a relationship. However, the relationship has some barriers that we both understood. Lately however, it seems that he has been very distant with me. One minute he seems to want me around, inviting me over and such. Then, when I show him that I want to be around him, he seems to withdraw from me, not being mean but just showing a lack of interest.

My question is, has his recent distancing from me been because he is with another woman?

[Astrologer4U]

Here is my interpretation... I am represented by Saturn, he is represented by the Sun. Favorable aspects between he (Sun) and I (Saturn). The Sun, (him), conjuncts Venus, I think that means he is thinking about romance and love or, that he is currently involved with someone that is pleasing him.


On the other hand, Sun and Venus conjunct is also sextile Saturn, (me), which is favorable in the sense that he is only with me at the current time.

Moon is in Scorpio, and I am not quite sure how to add that into the equation.

Help please


Astrologer4U

[dr. farr]

(Following is not in accordance with standard horary practice and uses whole sign house format)

I'll use the HIS Part of Male Intercourse*-PMI (his "ascendant", ie the 7th house+mars-moon) in attempting to delineate this question:

-PMI falls @ 6 Aries
-his significator = the Sun
-his 5th house (pleasure, romance) = Sagittarius = Jupiter
-both he (Sun) and his 5th house lord Jupiter, flow away from the PMI = - testimony
-your significator, Saturn, has passed opposition to the PMI and now flows toward the PMI = - testimony
-your co-significator, the Moon, flows toward the PMI = - testimony (note: - testimony means negative for HIS having sexual relations with another)
-the PMI falls in the cadent 3rd house = - testimony (also falls in a dark degree of Aries)
-there are no applying (Hermetic) aspects between the PMI and Jupiter = - testimony

All testimonies here are -: now, I do not know from this chart whether or not he is having a friendship with another person but, from this chart, all indications are that he is not having sexual relations with another, at this point in time.

*Male intercourse here means a male having sexual intercourse with a female, according to the ancient and Islamic era authors regarding this particular Lot.

[tikana]

Yes there is another woman

venus is in his asce

T

[Astrologer4U]

@DrFarr.... Thank you for your input, I believe that your interpretation is correct, I will keep thread posted. Astrologer4U

[Astrologer4U]

@Tikanna... U say that he is with another at the present according to the chart. Dr.Farr say"s he doesn't see that my friend has been sexual with another woman and that's good to hear. You said Venus is in his Asc, Venus is actually Conjunct him the (Sun) both Venus and Sun are in the 6th, although they are very close to the ascendant. Does that make a difference, if so, how? And is this woman he is spending time with someone he prefers over me? Can you see that in the chart? Astrologer4U

[tikana]

Hi

Actually Venus and Sun are in his 1st = 5 deg orb cusp rule..

yeah he is involved with her heavilty because venus/sun reception is very strong vs your saturn/sun..

T

[Astrologer4U]

Thanks Tikana... I saw him the other day and I asked him has he been with other women, he told me the answer is no. He say's that he is to busy trying to make a living and that he would really like to spend more time with me. Of course guys lie but it is kind of hard to tell in this case because not only is he a Sun in Cap, he is also Mercury in Cap with a Cap Ascendant. So when he say's that he is to busy, it rings true when I look at his natal chart. I posted another chart today asking if he has a girlfriend he is not telling me about, if you can, please take a look at the thread and let me know what you think... Thanks.


Astrologer4U