Composite chart for myself & a married man
So, i'm kind of in love with this man who is married to someone else
I am not involved with him in a relationship. He is a martial arts trainer who trains me, and we flirt all of the time. we've been training together for two months. i initially didn't know he was married, and never would've guessed given how much he flirts with me - and i'm not talking innocent silly flirting, but serious, overtly sexual flirting. he did eventually tell me that he's married, and i've since even met his wife. but it's obvious not only to myself & him, but to everyone around us (including his wife) that there is a magnetic attraction and chemistry between us. we adore one another.
Can someone help me with our composite chart?
this is what i've got so far:
-our composite sun & venus are both in the 1st house, which makes absolute sense to me. the two of us are both hyperactive, and in group classes we play off of each other's energy. it seems as though everyone in the class watches us as we bounce around and joke/flirt with one another. we are noticeable on our own; together we glow with a radiant joy. we are passionate and almost violent at times, playing off of one another's strength. we're both good looking. we're both egotistical.
-mars in the 4th house seems to point to the problems rooted deep in the relationship- mainly that he's not single!
-our sun and venus conjunct in Leo. i think this is a good aspect and a bad one. we get along perfectly well, but there's a lot of false, egotistical charm going on.
-our sun is also conjunct our mercury. we have great communication, both verbal and physical. it seems as though the minute i met him, i knew what he was thinking. this seems like a good aspect for anything, even just our relationship as teacher/student.
-moon conjunct saturn in libra. it seems to me that when it goes beyond flirting and one of us gets more serious, the other one tends to back off. we usually end up taking out the tension in class, by doing something physical with one another.
-the most impressive, blaring aspect here is venus square mars. i read this online about this aspect: "If for some reason the two of you could not physically express your affections for each other, you will find being in one another's presence irritating and frustrating." we are SO sexually attracted to one another, and because he's married we can't act on it. on top of that, our time together is spent doing a violent martial art. it becomes our only source of getting the chemistry out, so it seems like we go back and forth between flirting and charming one another, to being violent as a means of expressing the desire we can't act upon.
this is what i've got. i mostly just want to know what this relationship is going to turn into, if anything at all.
Last edited by jazminesco; 08-05-2011 at 06:07 PM.