I think I might be too "involved" to find an objective answer.
we have all been there
just stating your significtor is enough even.
asc (you) ruler is mars and the moon
7th (him) is venus
moon over there with him shows your emotions that are involved with him, your significator mars over there show you are really into him, love him even.
both mars and venus are ruled by mercury but venus is moving away from mars, in a sign that has two minds (gemini)
the ruler of the house of communication is the moon and will aspect mercury in 1 degree... venus and mars in gemini is ruled by mercury so I would have though you two would have talked by now.
I dont know any more to tell you here as im not strong with the other parts of horary, I hope someone will come along and help further for you.
I couldnt see where you come from to see what the hr ruler is so i read it anyway.
to summ it up i think there will be contact at least.