Missing him

[FallingStar]

I miss him so much, that whenever I think of him there is a physical pain in my heart...

How does he feel about me? Does he think about me too? Will we get in touch or meet again?

Can you help with advice?

Thank you!

[FallingStar]

who can help?...

[misskitty]

You will get replies if you attempt to interpret your own chart first. This is a learning site, not a free reading site.

[DiDi]

actually im just wondering if you are into astrology or free readings as ive noticed you havent read not one of your own charts at all... not even tryed.
pretty similar to someone else here just reciently.

[FallingStar]

Originally Posted by DiDi

actually im just wondering if you are into astrology or free readings as ive noticed you havent read not one of your own charts at all... not even tryed.

Actually I am trying to learn, DiDi... But regarding this particular question, I think I might be too "involved" to find an objective answer.

What I came up with so far -- I am Moon in H7, he would then be Mars in H7 (ruler of H5). Mars is in a dual sign, suggesting he might be involved with someone else (but I know this for a fact, so maybe I am "reading" things I already know are true). How am I doing so far? What else should I look for? By the way, should I be worried about Uranus in H5?

[DiDi]

I think I might be too "involved" to find an objective answer.

we have all been there

just stating your significtor is enough even.

asc (you) ruler is mars and the moon
7th (him) is venus

moon over there with him shows your emotions that are involved with him, your significator mars over there show you are really into him, love him even.

both mars and venus are ruled by mercury but venus is moving away from mars, in a sign that has two minds (gemini)

the ruler of the house of communication is the moon and will aspect mercury in 1 degree... venus and mars in gemini is ruled by mercury so I would have though you two would have talked by now.

I dont know any more to tell you here as im not strong with the other parts of horary, I hope someone will come along and help further for you.

I couldnt see where you come from to see what the hr ruler is so i read it anyway.

to summ it up i think there will be contact at least.

[Vista]

With Moon, your significator sextiling Mercury in his turned 3rd house, it seems to me that you might reach out to him first. Venus his ruler in the 8th, maybe he is missing you since you both are ruled by Mercury, however I am wondering if It's more of a sex thing he is missing than anything. Just speculation as I am not expert at horary. As Didi suggested, it appears you are more into him than he is to you, at least by this chart. I don't see much more of any thing happening other than perhaps speaking to each other.

[FallingStar]

Dear DiDi & Vista,
Thank you both for your insight.
When I mentioned the significators, I thought of him in terms of a love affair, hence "assigned" him H5 ruled by Mars, as the AC was also ruled by Mars, I "became" the Moon.
In your interpretation he is H7 (Venus) and Mars is my co-significator. But I really do not think he "qualifies" as H7, at least not at the moment (he should have someone else in his H7 and I should have someone else in my H7). As I am trying to learn, could you please explain why you chose this significator for him? And how/if the chart could be interpreted with him as H5/ Mars?
Thank you in advance for your help in studying this!

[DiDi]

hi fallingstar

we assign 7th H to all love/relationship/romance matters
as the 7th is about "others"

I understand what you say about the 5th and your position I use to think that way along time ago to. mades sense at the time, romance is 5th we all know, but in horary we think of it as more kids fun play

the 7th is about others so we use that.

Its trickier if they have others,
check to see what his 5th h ruler is doing with his ruler
sometimes another woman has been represented by saturn so see if that is making a aspect.
also if he was not venus, check to see what venus is doing with his ruler or if its in his house.
same with you, if you had somone it may be represented by your 5th ruler in aspect with you.

This is what ive learnt here, but there are other means more intracate to see.
In theory i think like you if you both have others (long time partners and you are asking about an affair maybe you would look to the 5th?
Id like to hear from someone more advanced on this if there around too thanks guys

a bit of background would be helpfull when you put up the post so we can determine the appropriate rulers.

is it a affair of the heart? as in do you both have others?