hi everybody,i'm new here

i need your help about the synastry chart between me end the man i love.
-my pluto quincunx his venus exactly
-his pluto opposite my venus at 6 degrees
-he has natal venus oposite pluto exactly but i haven't any venus-pluto aspects in my natal
-my natal pluto is in the 5th house in scorpio and it is well aspected,there is no hard aspect
i really need your opinions,what is this relationship going to be like? who will be the obsessive one and who will have the upper hand? i'm really curious.by the way i have feelings for him but i don't know if he also has or not.actually we just saw each other one or two times and didn’t talk. just saw