Does he want to meet up???

babs · #1 05-06-2011, 11:26 AM

Hello,

Im struggling with a question. I want to know if the guy Im talking to wants to meet up with me at all and if not why???? Its driving me crazy bc we talk frequently and intensely but when I ask him to meet up, he ignores the question and avoids it.

Down to my last nerve.

Anyway, me being the SUN is not making any aspect to him Saturn... so no, he doesnt want to meet. But why. I dont think he is seeing someone else, I know he likes me and is attracted to me, but wtf, excuse the f.

We both make aspects to Pluto in the 5th which would possibly explain crazy urges btw us.

But if anyone can take a look, Id be thankful.

B

tikana · #2 05-06-2011, 12:30 PM

Hi there

I am not seeing yes here at all

as you said Sun/saturn no aspect

there is no reception from his end to you
i dont think he is attracted to you
saturn is retro too in his own

looks like he broke up with someone recently Merc and venus both opposed Saturn

looks like he burned someone whoever it was left

retro planet meaning holding on to the past

T

babs · #3 05-06-2011, 12:38 PM

Thank you for the response...

Him showing nothing towards me, at all, means that he is a big fat liar. It was in fact yesterday that he told me he was attracted, but guess that was a lie too.

Thanks anyway.

B

Pan · #4 05-06-2011, 05:04 PM

I agree with tikana,

Seem you more interested in him and he have problem with sombody, and I think it's not easy for you to give up the feeling for him.

Moon will trine Saturn soon, Mar rule the 4th house places in his 3rd house, I belive it will be only you to effort the contact and pursue the relationship and I believe you will do that as Moon in the 10th house indicate you still have a hope in this relationship. I guess you have a plan in your mind try to continue with him, do you?

babs · #5 05-06-2011, 07:04 PM

Yes, Pan

It does seem that I pursuit it but it cant be just me bc if he wasnt interested he wouldnt call then, and throughout the relationship he is the one that keeps coming back. So I am confused!

B

Pan · #6 05-10-2011, 04:22 PM

If we look at Moon- your co-sig ;
Moon sectrine Mercury-his 5th house, and Mar his 3rd house
Moon trine Neptune in his house (7th) - I feel there is something delussion or over idealistic in this relationship regarding the romatic feeling, mostly base on his need as we see Murcury (his 5th ruler) and Jupiter (your 5th ruler) are in his 3rd house. Maybe connecting to you can fullfill something on his part especially the romantic feeling.

Saturn Rx in your 3rd house and opposit to Murcury, I think he like to talk to you, but also feel guilty and confuse about his feeling in the same time. I don't know just look at the chart and get it from my intuition.

misskitty · #7 05-10-2011, 10:26 PM

>>Him showing nothing towards me, at all, means that he is a big fat liar. It was in fact yesterday that he told me he was attracted, but guess that was a lie too.<<

That doesn't make sense. If he wanted to be with you he would make plans and ask to get together. He would jump at your suggestions to get together. He keeps coming back around because you feed his ego. What men say is of little consequence, it is what they DO that counts. If he isn't asking you out, he isn't interested. No amount of pushing is going to change his mind. I have no idea why otherwise smart confident women put themselves in these positions of being the pursuer. It is demeaning. Spend your time on someone who proves he wants to be with you and is worth it. The chart shows nothing will happen with this guy. There is no reception, no aspects, and he is Rx showing that all is not well with him. Move on, save yourself the angst.

Serendipity · #8 05-11-2011, 12:37 AM

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That doesn't make sense. If he wanted to be with you he would make plans and ask to get together. He would jump at your suggestions to get together. He keeps coming back around because you feed his ego. What men say is of little consequence, it is what they DO that counts. If he isn't asking you out, he isn't interested. No amount of pushing is going to change his mind. I have no idea why otherwise smart confident women put themselves in these positions of being the pursuer. It is demeaning. Spend your time on someone who proves he wants to be with you and is worth it. The chart shows nothing will happen with this guy. There is no reception, no aspects, and he is Rx showing that all is not well with him. Move on, save yourself the angst.

I completely agree. And as old fashioned as it sounds don't ever be the pursuer.
On an astrology note, I also agree with the other delineations offered so there's not much for me to add here.

ALST123 · #9 05-11-2011, 06:09 PM

[QUOTE=misskitty;284791He keeps coming back around because you feed his ego. What men say is of little consequence, it is what they DO that counts. If he isn't asking you out, he isn't interested. No amount of pushing is going to change his mind. I have no idea why otherwise smart confident women put themselves in these positions of being the pursuer. It is demeaning. Spend your time on someone who proves he wants to be with you and is worth it. [/QUOTE]

Really like what you've said here, MK (although I'm sorry it doesn't fit with your desires, Babs

). I am in the same situation (see my thread "Will he make a move on me?" posted on here today) and also keep wondering why I keep holding on. Trouble is, it's really hard to let go, isn't it Babs?

I don't see anything in the chart either. Sorry to say...

Best wishes, though. Hope things change.

babs · #10 05-12-2011, 01:23 PM

Yes, I completely agree. Its just discouraging. I am so tired of having "no luck" in love that its wearing me down.

As I look at my natal chart, what I think is indication of married life and children, kind of throws me off, because I see nothing happening. It could be part of this soul searching period as indicated in my solar return. I just hope I get through it and be happy. I miss feeling happy. And as a taurus with leo on my ASC, I am happy when loved and with others. Now Im single and alone and its getting to me.

Thanks for the feedback.

Babs