Does he love me?

starryair · #1 04-23-2011, 09:14 PM

I’m going through a Neptune opposing venus transit, and this person has been on my mind A LOT recently, so even though I've lost contact with him I still wanna know if he loves me, there is no applying aspect between signifiers or the moon, so does that mean no, but venus is in mars ruling sign, so maybe yes but nothing will come of the matter?

dr. farr · #2 04-24-2011, 04:04 AM

(Following is not in accordance with standard horary practice and uses whole sign house format)

For me, everything is under Mars in this chart: your significator IS Mars (Scorpio's lord); his significator is Venus (Taurus lord) which is flowing toward Mars (+ indication) but is also in its detriment in Aries, disposited by Mars; his Part of Love (using the sensitive degree of the 7th as = to ascendant, since I'm interested here in HIS potential love for you, not yours for him) also falls in Aries (@21 degrees), so is also disposited by Mars. And this dominating Mars itself, though in rulership, nonetheless falls in a pitted degree (16 Aries) which tells me that this ENTIRE matter is blocked at this current time. With all of this blocked-Mars influence, I would say that IF he loves you it is all blocked up inside him at this present time. That he likely desires you, I think is very strongly indicated (Mars again), but its all blocked-up.
Suggestion: deal with Mars by being Mars-that is, take direct action to unblock Mars, and then see what happens: you will be able to tell which way the wind is blowing, if you do that.
Best wishes!

starryair · #3 04-24-2011, 12:28 PM

Dr farr thank you for your reply but I’m a little confused, what do you mean by blocked? Do you mean he is confused about his feelings for me or he doesn’t know what to do about it? Also are you saying that I’m the one blocking the situation?

I personally do feel blocked, because I’m reluctant to act on the situation, I am very wary and suspicious of him even though I do have strong feeling for him. I had a dream about him in march, in which he told me something important, about a week or so later I actually saw him, across the road, busy with something, he didn’t see me and I didn’t do anything about it. So I can’t help but feel there is something more to this situation, I would very much appreciate it if someone could elaborate more on the chart.

rafaella · #4 04-24-2011, 01:55 PM

You question is not about a relationship with him, but just whether he cares for you...

So looking at dignities I'd say 'yes, he does'... He is Venus in your Sign of Aries (Ruled by Mars -you)... So he does strongly care for you but he is also in detriment, very weak to do anything about what he feels. So he won't be pursuing you, if you ask me...You may need to act yourself to move this forward....

Is he single? Newly separated or? He has just left a conjunction with Uranus which could point to some separation or sudden life event in his life...Uranus usually doesn't count in traditional horary, but I do look at it if its conjunct a significator to gain extra information.

You will need to ask another horary to find out whether he is in your future as a partner... :-)

p.s. Neptune can make things look rosier than they are, so be careful.... Imagination can be high with this transit so make sure you keep your head on the shoulders and feet firmly on the ground, so to speak... lol

starryair · #5 04-24-2011, 04:57 PM

Rafaella, the problem is I don’t know if I do want a romantic relationship with him, he is such a complicated person, I feel I would be putting a lot of my emotional self at risk. All I know is, I at least want him in my life, so I did another horary asking if we would be friends at least with in the next 2 years. I don’t think the chart looks good, Saturn in the 1st house opposing venus ME, and in detriment

! Can the moon sextile venus and venus being in the 7th house redeem the situation?

EDIT: should I be looking at the 11th house ruler instead of the 7th house for this question?

rafaella · #6 04-25-2011, 12:29 AM

iIf he is someone you have feelings for then he is 7th house.... yes retrograde Saturn in the 1st would be straight out no to your question, very negative... Moon is also Void, so nothing to come of this question.... no friendship....am sorry...

dr. farr · #7 04-25-2011, 03:26 AM

Starryair:
Yes, in the first chart when I referred to "blocked" (because of the pitted degree) what you posted above is what I meant.

Although I use a very different approach to horary, nonetheless I completely agree with Rafaella's delineation of your second (will we be friends) horary chart.

But I believe in asking the Cosmos for advice (in this I am very different than followers of standard horary, who generally believe that this cannot be done) Given the information you have posted about this situation, the obvious qustion (in my little mind, at least) would be: should I pursue a romantic relationship with X?