Does he has a girlfriend yet?

Pan · #1 04-10-2011, 10:00 AM

My friend, she has a crush with a guy, she really like him and think about him a lot, but he hasn't shown any special signs for showing he likes her more than friend. They contact each other more often after the 2nd meeting, with sms and email, but seem he is quiet for a week. And make she feel unhappy, waiting, and miss him a lot.

Last month his secretary persuade my friend to work for his charity oragnization but she's already had a plan to do business in another country in next week, just a short time for 5 months, and she is still thinking if she will go to work for him in case she has a chance to develop the relationship with him more than friend.

She wish he would have some feeling for her and still doesn't have a girlfriend, then she will continue to contact him and trying to develope the relationship if possible.

In the chart; Cancer rising 28.44 degree, seem it is too late for the question, but I think we can still work with it, at least to know if he has somebody else.

- She is Moon in 12nd house; own domicline but the placement of H12, Does it mean she doesn't really know her feeling? Does this mean, maybe she doesn't really love him, as Moon in her dom, and even her co-sig is Venus, it is in own exal.

-He is Saturn in the 3rd house, he would thinking about to contact her but with square aspect with Moon, and retrograd, he would have some problem to do that.

- If her co-sig is Venus, He is in her sign. - He like her?

- Moon in the detriment of Saturn, He felt something negative toward her?

- If his co-sig is Uranus, will conjunct Mar in Aries , and also I see Jupiter and Murcury in his sign. Does this mean he has somebody?

And does the conclusion is "He has a girlfriend"? pls help, thank you.

virgo18 · #2 04-13-2011, 11:35 PM

Being the south node in he's 5th house I will say he doesn't have a girlfriend.
venus is exalted but doesn't aspect saturn and any other planet.

the ascendant is in the late degrees of cancer so I will not trust too much in any answer.

How many times did you ask this question? even to your self?

misskitty · #3 04-14-2011, 12:12 AM

The ASC is too late. The question has been asked before, or the querent already knows the answer and is asking out of desperation. Something is not right with the question.

Theonlymomentwewerealone · #4 04-14-2011, 03:32 AM

no much of an expert so can't help
but can i ask, did you actually know the time he was born as well as the girl or are you just leaving it at 12pm, if its not known, can you still use this method with housing placements??

Pan · #5 04-14-2011, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by virgo18

Being the south node in he's 5th house I will say he doesn't have a girlfriend.
venus is exalted but doesn't aspect saturn and any other planet.

the ascendant is in the late degrees of cancer so I will not trust too much in any answer.

How many times did you ask this question? even to your self?

Yes, my friend, she's asked the question for many times, and doesn't want to give up her hope, but for me seem he doesn't like her as the way she wish and I think deep in her mind she knows but maybe can't accept the truth, she still told me she belive in her psychic that the guy likes her too.

Pan · #6 04-14-2011, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Theonlymomentwewerealone

no much of an expert so can't help
but can i ask, did you actually know the time he was born as well as the girl or are you just leaving it at 12pm, if its not known, can you still use this method with housing placements??

Thank you for Virgo18, misskitty and theonlymomentwewerealone,
I post his, her natul, and their synastry, but the guy she doesn't know the birth date so I set his birth time at 12pm.. I hope you guys could help me a bit, just for telling me if she still have a hope with him, I'm trying to help her accept the truth and give her some advise if she still need to company him. Thank you.

The 1st one is her natul, the 2nd is his natul, and the last one is their synastry.

misskitty · #7 04-14-2011, 12:34 PM

The best way to help when a querent is desperate is to advise them to step away from astrology for a while. Astrology/horary should be a tool, not a crutch. I wouldn't even bother analyzing the natals and synastry, whatever you find isn't going to convince her to accept anything until she decides herself.

Pan · #8 04-14-2011, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by misskitty

The best way to help when a querent is desperate is to advise them to step away from astrology for a while. Astrology/horary should be a tool, not a crutch. I wouldn't even bother analyzing the natals and synastry, whatever you find isn't going to convince her to accept anything until she decides herself.

Yes, she asked me do as she know I start to learn astrology, but I would I could help her more in detail as still being a novice. All I know and can tell her is "They both have Venus and Mar aspect, her Venus trine his Moon, the conjuction of AC/DC and MC/IC could indicated a kid of soul mate. His 3 planets - Pluto, Uranus, and Jupiter fall in her 12nd house maybe cause of the mystric energy draw her feeling tie to him.

I ask her if she need me to post the charts here, and she need me do, hope someone help, thank you.

Theonlymomentwewerealone · #9 04-14-2011, 06:46 PM

hey pan, i was wondering if by any chance you could look at this composite chart between me and this guy im seeing, lots of red lines doesn't seem too happy... anyhow i find him challenging but really like him at the same time
but can't tell whether or not this is a good relationship or not...

please help im kinda lost for words where where at at the moment.....

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?c...rbp=&rs=0&ast=

misskitty · #10 04-14-2011, 11:05 PM

It is bad manners to hijack a thread! If you need help with something you should start a new post in the appropriate board or PM Pan.

Good luck Pan, but I don't think astrology is going to help at this point.

Theonlymomentwewerealone · #11 04-15-2011, 01:36 AM

hijacking! what is that what you call it!!!! you are a sour puss!

misskitty · #12 04-15-2011, 01:55 AM

Umm.. NO. Hijacking is where you post your own question in someone else's thread. You can ask anyone here.. it is considered rude. Sorry.

Pan · #13 04-15-2011, 04:57 AM

Thank you misskitty,

I understand your point, astrology couldn't help someone to move on and I agree with you, but sometime when we blind and doubt, we can't find any reasons ourself, the information form astrology could help, at least to know it would be impossible to reach what we want in any circumstance, it's sound stupid, but I think it's better than nothing. Another thing is the informations from you and another member here help me learn a lot, and I still need your oppinion if possible.

Theonlymomentwewerealone,

try to post your thread , I will see your chart later but I have to say that I just start to learn about it, so it wouldn't help you much but I think will have another member can help you as well.