is it time to take the lead ?
so there is this guy who says he is in love with me . we work together and his position is superior to mine , so things are really in a thin line .
i havent given in yet because i was getting over a previews heartbreak ...
he has been flirting with me for 6 months but only when other people are around - when we are alone he is more uptight , still flirting but never really claiming to have a relationship with me besides the flirting .
also i was very careful because i dont want people at work talking and whispering about the romance - especially when i have been working really hard for it .
he filled my office with red roses on valentines day but when we are alone he "escapes" from it
finally , after 6 months he invited me on some event he took part , this happened 3-4 times ... but when the event ends , he always leaves and runs away - so we end up separate .
he keeps flirting with me and he smiles like a little child when i kiss him on the cheeck .
i saw him today and i asked him why does he always leave when he invites me to go see him ...
he seemed totally lost and naive about it and he asked me if the problem was that i couldn get a cab .. !!
he is so distant at times , when i try to reach him he actually leaves no space to do that ... he feels awkward when noone is around ...
he is getting angry that i dont make a move on him , and its like i wait for him - he waits on me and nothing ever happens ... i really like this guy he sounds honest and he is so kind ...
i think he ll not make any other move cause of his insecurity (ive been avoiding him for 7 months , i was recovering from a breakup) , and i dont want to lose him , so i ask :
is it the right thing to make a clear move on him ?? will that go well if i decide so ???