Will i make friends someday,why all the ppl forgot me???

[Fireboy]

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[danashock]

i suppose you will if you try to maintain a steady job/healthy diet..some kind of order in your house indicated by the 6th house and also developing tact (saturn in libra oppositions) and learning to let go and not be too possessive (moon scorpio)

[retinoid]

Yes you will make friends one day...your chart is a little difficult because it demonstrates that you may really have a difficult time expressing yourself and being assertive (mars in pisces, mercury in pisces) however your mars and mercury being in the sixth will take a little of this introversion out especially when it has to do with work where you may speak your mind and being critical of others such as coworkers but it all depends which aspect (the sixth house or pisces) holds more sway. The Sun in Pisces and Virgo Ascendant can also give off this demeanor of being a little introverted...The Scorpio moon can also make you overly sensitive towards things and perhaps being clingy/possessive and you may internalize a lot of things furthering your isolation.

The reason why I say you will is because you have Jupiter in your house of partnerships (seventh house) and you also have Uranus there...Jupiter will make you LUCKY in finding good partnerships however Uranus brings you unpredictable partnerships meaning you may have dry spells of having no friends or having many friends furthermore it makes you either 1) attract people who need a lot of independence and aren't really that into structured relationships or 2) you yourself are like this.

You have the potential to have relationships but I think you may be expressing your socially awkward traits in your chart? Maybe? Also we have to look at if you are self conscious about yourself hindering you being able to form meaningful relationships. The Uranus in the 7th is slightly difficult for partnerships especially having so much water in your chart however Jupiter being there promises the potential to have really great partners.

[Fireboy]

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Friendships,an important point for me,i have emphasized many times on this.

The main question is whats the chances to rebuilt again some friendships that were in ice for many years,i need this badly.The isolation kills me.

[Fireboy]

How could you live the rest of your life alone and isolated?

[Fireboy]

[daco]

Fireboy, the chart you posted as Asc at the end of the sign (28°) and the Descending node at the Ascendent. In addition to that there's no strong relation between the ruler of the VII and the ruler of the Asc.

This means to me that is not a good chart to answer to, probably you should post again your question sometime next week and then we'll see

Ciao,
daco

[Fireboy]

And if the next chart will be not good again?

[daco]

Then probably you should change question or point of viewing things...

[Fireboy]

Originally Posted by daco

This means to me that is not a good chart to answer to, probably you should post again your question sometime next week and then we'll see

Ciao,
daco

Here we go,the same question,this week.

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[daco]

And -as the one before- also this one has the Ascendent at the end of the sign (29°). This makes the chart unreadable, I think you should probably give up on this question. Probably I would create another thread and ask what should I do to be more socially appealing...
Ciao
D.

[Fireboy]

I'll try in a few days later for once more time,if Asc again...better lock this thread.

[Fireboy]

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Last attempt...

[daco]

That's what I think:
you feel there's someone who's planning behind your back against your friendship (Moon opposite to Saturn), but it's not. In fact somewhen between 1 week and 1 month your friends will contact you again (sextile Mercury to Mars).
Let me know if it's so!
Good Luck!
Ciao
D.

[Fireboy]

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[aquarius7000]

Hi,

Fireboy, to make friends you need to go out of the house, and be amongst people in order to come in contact with them. Both your main significator, Ven; and your co-significator, the Moon are placed in your 4th house of home and family, which shows that probably you don't really go out much. Is that so in real life?

The moderator, Vista, of this forum suggested someone on a thread a website, where you can get to know people, perhaps even from your own country. Send her a PM and ask about that website. Maybe you can also check out her latest posts, and see if you can find that particular post on a thread giving that website.

Best
AQ7

[Fireboy]

Originally Posted by aquarius7000

Hi,

Both your main significator, Ven; and your co-significator, the Moon are placed in your 4th house of home and family, which shows that probably you don't really go out much. Is that so in real life?

Best
AQ7

Thats right in real life,i'm all day all night in house and isolated.I have to met and contact even with cousins and relatives more than 5 years.

[aquarius7000]

Hi again,

Originally Posted by Fireboy

Thats right in real life,i'm all day all night in house and isolated.I have to met and contact even with cousins and relatives more than 5 years.

Fireboy, then the answer and solution to the problem are clear, aren't they? You know what you gotta do then, eh?

Leave us here on these Astrology boards, and step out into the big, wide world. The world is not going to come visit you at your place. Go out and about and 'live' life. Once you've done it a few times, you will start liking it, and we will miss you more and more here.

AQ7

[Fireboy]

No exactly, i don't know the solution and nothing is clear for me,you know i don't have a friend for almost 10 years and more and it can't this change in one or two weeks of going out.

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[aquarius7000]

Fireboy,

you answer your own questions if you read your posts carefully. You know inside that things that have gone on for so long cannot change overnight. Hence, give it time and don't be morose about it not having changed yet! Also, as Gandhi said, be the change you want to see in the world. Might help to try that one out in real life. Try to 'without pressure' show others that you are interested in them/ in their company. See what interests them, let them know what interests you, and then try to find a common path, so you can share time with them. If at first they do not seem to have time, offer them your time, show them your interest and then let them be. And, when you meet them, do so cheerfully. I am quite sure, if you adopt this kind of an attitude in consistent and unexpecting manner, it might help.

Best
AQ7

[Fireboy]

I still haven't understand well what exactly was/is the problem and i don't have really friends so far.I didn't say a bad word for nobody never,i didn't ever tried to show something different from what i am.What i am doing wrong,why i feel like abandoned and forgotten from all the people i knew?They never call me back again,i never existed for them really?after school,after university,after so many years,NO BO DY,where are you all???
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I am sleeping deep so many years and someone must wake me up with a big bucket of water in the face.I don't think i have to start banging my head in the wall of my room,that's not a solution right?
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[aquarius7000]

Hi again,

Originally Posted by Fireboy

I still haven't understand well what exactly was/is the problem and i don't have really friends so far......They never call me back again,i never existed for them really?after school,after university,after so many years,NO BO DY,where are you all???

Here is where we are. And, we usually respond to your questions, too. So, you can't say people don't 'call back' or respond to you.

I think you just need to action again. If at first you don't succeed, try try again. And, perseverence is the only way certain things work. If we resign, then we should not have any questions either. BUT, you do have questions, and that repeatedly. This shows that you are willing to try. Your next question will be: How? By stopping to moan and groan, and forget the past. Think as though you were starting off anew in a new town. How would you go about getting to know people (without expectations!!!!) If two don't call you back, you don't moan, you try your luck with the next two. You see to it that you are not putting pressure, or coming off as a bit morose. You know yourself best, so practise in front of a mirror as though you were two people and how you come across (rehearse) to others as you do to yourself in the mirror. Even if you have to 'put a bit of an act'; in social language, it is called adapting and staying in tune with the others. We can only try, and, mostly it works. You have to see the glass as half full. Over analysing and feeling sorry alone won't help. Only action and optimism will.

AQ7

[aquarius7000]

You might want to ask Vista about this online site of making friends in one's town, etc. I can't remember who she suggested it to on this forum, but you can PM her and ask her. That could be a start from your side.

AQ7

[Fireboy]