what can I do, divorce or continue, I need your help me

[caghe]

Here are my husband and my charts. First one is belong to my husband. He wants to divorce me and we have a terrible relationship. However, I always believed that he has loved me alot since we got married. We have a 16 months old baby boy and what can I do about this marriage? Sometimes I feel it is like a torture, sometimes he is very fine to me but today he told me that he was gonna divorce me after I could graduate from university. As a result, he will not need to support me or give alimony.
please help me, I need your comments

[juicey J.]

Your husband is a very antagonistic person, sun square mars, mars in opposition to the rising, and with no aspects from the benefices(venus/jupiter) to counter these. I would need to see the composite chart and the way each of your charts aspects it tosee if this relationship has a chance of working out.

[caghe]

how can I get our composite chart?

[fushiafairy]

astro.com

their extended chart selection has composite charts. There is also a Davison relationship chart. Most people look at Composite charts, but some also use Davison. Both are helpful in my opinion.

good luck.

also they have synastry charts that compare both of your natal charts on the same wheel. It is alot easier than looking at one chart than another.

[caghe]

I attached our composite chart))

[astrologer50]

synastry and divorce
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13745&highlight=synastry+divorce
Synastry & divorce--- really great article, well worth reading-----
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA46&lpg=PA46&dq=astrolog y+2nd+marriage&source=bl&ots=DoV__K_IQS&sig=dI1UAX 5oprrQLtfzYUrJ4_XzuKU&hl=en&ei=zBV0SsfnHYqhjAf5rN2 nBg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6#v=onepa ge&q=&f=false

Your question would be suitable for a horary question, IF you follow the basic rules
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/faq.php?faq=horary#faq_horary_astrology_boards

[astrologer50]

My way of helping newcomers is for them to do more research and learning rather than just ‘drop the answer in your lap’ and not necessarily to provide professional readings and forecast future events. If you are truly interested in astrology, I and most others here will help you…..

Having a Sagittarius MC which is the sign of the teacher and I do indeed teach astrology. This forum is a wonderful community of all mixed levels and types of astrologers. So I may provide links to encourage you in the hope that if you are sincerely interested enough you will do the research and enlighten yourself….

12th house planets/aspects
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/dkfArtTwelfthHouse.htm
http://www.gotohoroscope.com/houses-in-chart-12th.html
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoun...rmaHouse12.htm
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/inhouses-sun.html#Twelfth
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_dgtwehouse_e.htm
http://12th.tribe.net/thread/c160721f-6268-42d8-bf31-897977f99188
http://www.astrologyindepth.com/The_12th_house
http://www.myastrologybook.com/Mercury-Venus-in-the-twelfth-house-12th-house.htm
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusinhouses.html
http://www.astrologyindepth.com/The_12th_house

Bucket chart
http://www.myastrologybook.com/Bucket-planetary-pattern-astrology.htm
http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/bucket.html
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology#Aspect_patterns
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/funnel.html
http://www.astrococktail.com/planetaryorderIII.html

he has bucket chart with moon as handle and planets in 12th house.

[juicey J.]

Originally Posted by caghe

I attached our composite chart))

You have moon conjunct saturn and the sun and venus squaring saturn with no aspect from jupiter to counter any of it. Along with your husband's highly aggressive chart its no wonder your marriage isn't working. You might well have to get a divorce. I would love to believe everyone can work out their differences but some times one has to cut their losses and run for the hills.

[caghe]

There is a Taurus in my 1 st house and there is a scorpio in my 7 th house, so according to the book(art of predictive astrology), I can not divorce easily, I like commitment. On the other hand, my husbands moon is in pisces and it is in his 7 th house as well. Does it show that he will have another marriage?

[juicey J.]

Taurus decedent nothing, if your in a bad relationship and can't work things out GET OUT.

[caghe]

Yes, you are right but we have a 16 months old son and I gave up everything for this marriage and moved to the usa. If I divorce him, I can not find a job here and in my country either. İf I can wait 2 years, I will be able to graduate from school(MBA) and ı can find a job and I can earn money. so, I dont know what I can do now? I need really help?

[caghe]

his accurate birth time is at noon. His mother told me and she had written his birth time on her notebook. I controlled it. Maybe there can be 1-2 minutes difference.