Re: think I met the girl of my dreams...chart help would really ease my mind.
Good work on posting those charts! The birth time does make a difference, as depending upon when she was born, the house cusps could be way off--you can see how different they are between this woman's two chart estimates. Also, the moon moves 12 degrees during the day, so, it can change in its aspects. Every third day it changes signs and could also be in a different house every few hours--or less. So if you don't have a correct birth time, it is best just to post the time as "unknown" and work without houses. Astrodienst will give you noon as a default birth time.
BTW, is noon your actual birth time? If not, it is well worth re-doing your chart. Hers, too if you get a correct birth time for her.
I'd say, go for it!
The relationship looks pretty good, and then no relationships or people are perfect.
Your suns are trined, suggesting ego compatibility. This is a great aspect for being friends with your GF, as well as romantic partners. Your Mars (an assertive, masculine energy) sextiles her Venus (her attractive, feminine energy.) This is hot stuff. The feeling of attraction might be stronger on your side than on hers, however, as her Mars (her assertiveness what she looks for in a man) does not have a major aspect with your Venus. However her Venus also sextiles your Jupiter in Pisces, so you do appeal to her, even if she's not the one in pursuit. Your moons do not appear to make a major aspect unless she was born very early in the morning. The moon shows emotional compatibility and a feeling of being "at home" with the other person. However, your moons are both in earth signs, which suggests a shared rather practical or down-to-earth approach to feelings. You've also got some good inter-aspects with some of your other planets.
I'd say this is enough to go on to try to move your relationship to the next stage. With her sun in Aries, however, she is very independent; yet her moon in Virgo can make her surprisingly fastidious.
You, on the other hand, look like someone who enjoys playing the field. If this is the case, well....something to think about.