I AM Joey Lorraine but like to go by Kolani. Somehow my user name got swtiched to my birth name when I forgot and reset my password. I am rather private...found all the responses via google(
) but was very excited to see the discussion.
I'm in complete agreement about this being a panel discussion. I'm currently interning with an astrologer and asked him about how interpretations for aspects are actually defined, since the same aspect can manifest in so many different ways...I was under the impression that research was key, in the making of so many of the cookbooks that have become so popularized...but he actually said CONJECTURE is more of the process than RESEARCH...., it's the conjecture that keeps me hooked!
I liked what you said about Uranus...giving one another space so we can be committed. This is a long distance relationship and technically isn't really a traditional "relationship", yet it's been going on for about 5 years now and the intimacy has just been off the charts.
I didn't initially respond to Rahu's statment because I knew if I did I wouldn't be able to seperate my response from my emotions..I needed distance, although my thought and feelings were more aligned with the other responses...It was a delight to see them confirmed when I found them!
The composite in my mind is the RESULT of the relationship...you can probably see through the charts there is terribly stong emotional connection...I already know that...it's like I know we are soul mates...but is this a soul mate connection that could be marriage, or a lasting affair?? What does the RELATIONSHIP say?
I'm trying to see things more "Gestalt"- going back to the natal charts,synastry etc. to piece the pieces of the composite back together for a clearer picture.
***his Cancer Moon conjunct Uranus is the apex of his T square...I'd think this would be a hot point for him, especially since he's also Cancer Rising...
His exalted Aries Sun is square is diginified Cancer Moon-that sounds like a biggy too.
His Saturn is trine is Venus...makes me think maybe there's hope...he's much much older than me, has 2 children and been divorced-where as I am 34 single, no children...makes me think chances are slim as he's "been there done that"
but he's mentioned he'd like to be married again...could that be Saturn Trine Venus talking? If so, what are the chances of it being ME?
My Venus is exactly square my Pluto-and Neptune,the ruler of of my 7th is widely trine Saturn...and what about Chiron representing the husband?? I've heard that before...
my Sun hits his Uranus( conjunct moon) within a degree ...and Since Uranus is moving into Aries, his Sun sign, I'm wondering what kind of impact it might have on us??
*This man is quite a maverick -a very successful entrepeneur, where as I am still struggling to find my way, constantly financially on edge...more than the age difference, it's the disparity professional caliber and success that give me the most doubt for marriage...if he marries, I think it would have to be with a woman on his own professional "level"- and the chances of ME reaching THAT level...concerns me...but maybe this is not really even a factor in his mind?
If not, what IS? What do u think?