Venus in Scorpio in the 8th and the trouble with detachment.

[Pandatutuness]

Hear ye! Hear ye! My libido in motion but not as much as my heart is entangled! I can surely ward off the lack physical intimacy for the mean time but I cannot ignore the lack of reciprocation. Any form of love expression presented to me that doesn't match my intensity, passion and devotion in love is tossed off as cold and inadequate.

I am seeing someone with a Moon in Virgo, Venus in Pisces who, due to my moodiness, has retracted some of his warmth. One minute I'm hot, the next I'm cold. The reason for this is that when I'm threatened or when I perceive that my emotions are left unattended, my tendency is to retract my steps from moving towards a full-blown intimacy, wear a mask of indifference, keep the scorpion deep inside as to not scare away my significant other, at least for a while. In time, my emotions comes back with a vengeance. Venus retrograde in Scorpio has truly served me well in a sense that I was able to keep my passions seethed underneath.

If he only knew that my moodiness isn't caused by emotional instability but born out of a fear of showing my true intense colors.

I'm looking for a way out of this "darkest dark of all darky depth submergence" and troublesome heaviness and drama. Its draining me beyond compare! There must be some loophole within my chart that'll provide me a way out of the 8th house of death and transformation. Death is back with a vengeance! What's more is that I have Pluto's support enlisted throughout this charade. Woopidoo! I need a the help of an adept astrologer. Help me find a way out of my 8th house so that I'll remain functional and less preoccupied by thoughts about my other half. My attention is greatly needed in another part of my life but I cannot, for the life of me, redirect it. Help!

My Chart:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/56461374@N06/5216304253/

(Posted this in yahooanswers too but I fear it might just end up getting trampled by all the questions therein.)

[Oceanearth1]

wow. Recently i've been feeling so misunderstood because of this exact reason. People may think or it appears that i have turbulent and unstable emotions yet its only because our tendency to delve into that eternal intimacy and reveal our intense deep emotions tends to scare others and when we scare them we feel insecure and retreat because our true selves aren't being seen... we fear that they wont accept our true selves because of how intense we are in intimate matters. So funny, i was asking the universe for a sign about an hour ago because recently i've been just in this stage, always of that death and transformation and as i am so grateful because of the inner growth i experience, its the hardest thing to do and it takes over my life. It becomes all of me. And i become extremely insecure and create these crazy illusions in my head. I feel as if im not good enough and that my deep emotions will never be accepted and are weird to others... yet its just because they don't understand. Im afraid they never will... I feel like i come off overemotional, attached and unable to move on from passed lovers, but mainly its because it ran so deep and to like someone is so rare for me, that they are a part of me and I will continue to grow and transform from the experience of them being in my life and the bond we shared... Always learning and growing... I just deeply fear rejection and an ounce of that will make me feel so insecure and i will tend to smother in result pushing thus person away, and this rejection will become a self fulfilling prophecy. i feel like a bother because of this to many.. my deep emotions the last few days have been driving me crazy...