Originally Posted by ALST123
Like your thinking
Especially first paragraph...
I am "the other planet person" in a forbidden fruit situation at the moment (his Saturn is opposite my Venus). And what you say about restrictions, roadblocks and depression hit the nail on the head. I have so much pent up feeling for him and just feel like someone has taped up my mouth! I feel like I would be jeopardising so much if I said or did anything, and yet my head and heart are just going to burst right open I feel so much for him. It's the weirdest thing! I wonder if he feels the same kind of dilemma about me????
Would sure be nice to drop this Saturn aspect for a while...
Thanks, ALST. So as you being venus, you might feel stuck in expressing your attraction, affection, desires, etc. At the same time, he might have a hard time seeing this side of you in a comfortable way. As far as how he feels about you, this is a whole other issue. I think i saw your post, i'll respond more about it to you there
oh nevermind, that was another user with a similar post name! lol
Originally Posted by boom
I wish I had at least one Saturn hard aspect. None of my relationships ever go deeper (emotionally). Apparently, hard aspects with Saturn are important when it comes to relationship development/longetivity.
No, no this is all backwards
You see, Saturn is the anti-emotional planet. The moon, which deals with emotional instincts, rules cancer. Capricorn is cancers opposite side and is ruled by saturn. Saturn and the moon are opposite in nature. So, saturn rules rigity and coldness. It is comfortable in slow and steady logics, brute power and ambition. Logistics and ambition do not go hand in hand with deep emotions! Saturn is connected with longevity because it represents hard work to reach an ambition. So, saturn in relationships is the indicator of a hard road ahead, going through hurdles, feeling disconnected, without emotional connection, etc.
If you are looking for emotional intensity and a deep bond in a relationship, there are other factors to think about.
For example, connections between the moon and mercury will give an ability to talk to one another comfortably in an emotional way.
Mars in contact to the moon can give passions, but conflicts.
Pluto in contact to the moon (or other personal planets) can give deep intense feelings, but also possible attachment/jealousy/power issues.
Neptune contact the moon (or other personal planets) can create spiritual feelings with one another, idealism and a desire to be close to the other, but can also create delusions.
These are all just examples. To figure out your relationships strengths and weaknesses, it takes a full long look into many indicators in the charts. I would say to listen to ALST123's advice. Don't worry and focus on enjoying the relationship! Things will happen how they happen regardless of how the astrology looks. If you want emotional connection in your life, take steps to get there. Try to connect with your partner in that way. Ask them about their wishes, feelings, etc and share yours!
Hopefully i can give you a more specific answer soon by taking a peak at your charts, but I've run out of time now.