Help to analyze strange dream?

Vagabondgirl · #1 11-16-2010, 08:28 PM

I had a odd dream 1-2 weeks ago. It was about a person I was interested in before. In my dream he had a girlfriend and looked extremely happy. I never heard about any girlfriends the whole time Ive known him actually. But I felt happy for him in the dream. He had told me that he got 3 gifts from her for his birthday.

Also in a dream right before this one, me and my friend asked him to take our photo but he said he didnt want to be in it. But I said he misunderstood and we asked if he could take a photo of the 2 of us (my friend and I) and he said ok, and took 2 photos of us with flashlight. And in the photo we had teddy bears or something silly....

But back to the "big one": He looked happy with the girlfriend. But then I had a mission to go to a big house and look for his dead body, because someone said he was dead. I went through a tunnel to the house together with my current boyfriend. We looked through bathrooms to find him. I felt we had to look for him, that it was some kind of "job"... Then we found him in the bathroom in a bathtub naked.... Alive actually. But his girlfriend was there too (also naked), and she looked dead and it looked like he was trying to recussitate her down in the water. I felt sad for him... And embarassed for seeing something that I shouldnt see.

Can anyone help me with analyzing this??

Mark · #2 11-17-2010, 01:07 AM

Much of what you've described is rather personal imagery and so you would be the best (or only) one to interpret it. If I had to take a stab at it, I would say that you see him moving his life in the wrong directions and for bad reasons. It's difficult to say much more without knowing him, but the imagery would seem to indicate that he has committed himself to spiritually rescuing someone else and you want to rescue him (also spiritually). It's generally a spiritual act to try to save someone from themselves. In short, the whole scene seems like a chain of people trying to save each other from themselves.

Vagabondgirl · #3 11-17-2010, 01:45 AM

The thing is that I asked him out on a "date" some time ago, when I was single. But for some reason he wasnt able to....Nobody knows why. Now Im back with the ex, for some time now too.

I tried to move on emotionally. I tell myself and I told him that I have a boyfriend, or it just comes up now when we talk. It never came up before.

In a way I want to distant myself from those old feelings, but in another way we are closer friends now than before. Talk more and so on.

Maybe none of us has really moved on from some past? Cause if I expected him to be dead and he wasnt.... Anyway it felt like I saw something that I wasnt supposed to see in the dream.

I even got a name in my dream about the "girlfriend". Not that I can ask him if he knows a person by that name:/ Im not so lunatic

Vagabondgirl · #4 02-19-2011, 09:10 PM

DREAM UPDATE:

Today I had a new dream about the same person. And it was kind of similar, about him being under water again... But a little different this time.

First he was "burried alive" under the earth and then cement and water was poured into there where he was. I was glad that he went under there, because in a dream he was scary to me for some reason. So I walked away from there and started hanging out with other people... But suddenly a guy came over to me who needed help. He said he was the spirit or "other half" of this guy. But he said he needed my help because he couldnt live normally without a body, he was like a ghost but I think only I could see him or something, for me he looked like a normal person. He said he asked me to do this because he felt we had good contact.

He asked me to reach down to the hole under the water and cement where his "other half" was. So I did that, first reaching down with my hand and held his hand. When we talked he came up gradually from this hole. I tried to comfort him, and said that I cared about him. Then I asked him about something I asked him about before in real life, and asked why he said what he said (personal stuff). And he answered these questions. Then his ghost was sitting on my left side while he was sitting on the right side. The ghost thought that we had some intimate relationship before, and was shocked to hear that we actually never had this... The ghost seemed like opposite of him, more of a "playful" type, and he is more serious. The guy was not so happy for having this "copy" of him, the ghost. And I told him that if he had a normal relationship to other people he wouldnt be split in two, and he said: yes I know...

Then finally I asked him what he actually feels for me, and there was only silence.... I tried to listen for something but I heard like no sounds at all. Then I asked his ghost, the ghost was also completely silent.

Anyone know the meaning of a person being split in ghost and body/2 persons? And the cement and water?

I must have been semi-lucent or something in the dream to remember our previous conversations and try to ask about this in the dream....

Mark · #5 02-20-2011, 06:41 PM

If you were lucid, you would have been aware of your surroundings (i.e. you would know you were dreaming). Even while involuntarily dreaming, your unconscious still has access to all the information you know. So, it isn't surprising that he was able to answer some of your questions. I would consider it likely that you already knew the answers to those questions and just didn't accept them. That is what makes it more significant that no one answered the question of how he really feels about you. That you didn't know. You probably didn't know because you had an emotional attachment of some sort to him in waking life. Having an investment means that you're pulling more for the answer you want than for the Truth of the matter. If you didn't care, it would be much easier to get straight answers.

It's possible that this guy is a part of your "soul group." This may or may not be the case, but it seems likely from the manner of your dreams. Talking to his "spirit" and his "body" both and separately seems to support this. It's also worth noting that his "spirit" thought you have an intimate connection of some kind. If you were part of the same soul group, that would all make sense. It's also possible that these are karmic connections between people of different soul groups. Perhaps you've been intimately related in previous sojourns, but haven't made that connection in your current experiences. Either way, you've been dreaming about this guy for a while and that is probably because you've been thinking about him for a while. You tell me what that means.

Vagabondgirl · #6 02-20-2011, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mark

If you were lucid, you would have been aware of your surroundings (i.e. you would know you were dreaming). Even while involuntarily dreaming, your unconscious still has access to all the information you know. So, it isn't surprising that he was able to answer some of your questions. I would consider it likely that you already knew the answers to those questions and just didn't accept them. That is what makes it more significant that no one answered the question of how he really feels about you. That you didn't know. You probably didn't know because you had an emotional attachment of some sort to him in waking life. Having an investment means that you're pulling more for the answer you want than for the Truth of the matter. If you didn't care, it would be much easier to get straight answers.

It's possible that this guy is a part of your "soul group." This may or may not be the case, but it seems likely from the manner of your dreams. Talking to his "spirit" and his "body" both and separately seems to support this. It's also worth noting that his "spirit" thought you have an intimate connection of some kind. If you were part of the same soul group, that would all make sense. It's also possible that these are karmic connections between people of different soul groups. Perhaps you've been intimately related in previous sojourns, but haven't made that connection in your current experiences. Either way, you've been dreaming about this guy for a while and that is probably because you've been thinking about him for a while. You tell me what that means.

Thanx for your answer

Yes, I think its starting to become a bit TOO CREEPY right now. I mean because I dream so much about this one person in all kind of states of mind. I have liked guys before just as much and not being bothered with all these crazy dreams...

The sick thing is that this guys has the exact same birth date + year as my recent ex boyfriend:/ I didnt know that until not long ago. And they are like oil and water, totally opposite! Dont know if this has anything to do with him being double?? hmmm

I think I became more and more lucid because I went from deeper sleep and until I woke up straight from this dream. And when I didnt hear anything anymore it was like time was up or something. Like no more signal from a phone or something. And I didnt know the real answer to any of these questions actually, cause he is different from "normal" people. Much hidden stuff that nobody knows or understands. Lucky me

Although this is a nice person on the outside, I do actually fear my feelings and the rest of "the creepy things" happening around us...Because its so deep, complicated and kind of unknown. I usually am good at reading people (Mercury conj pluto in scorpio), but this time it is really tricky.

Vagabondgirl · #7 02-20-2011, 11:30 PM

By the way how do you recognize someone from the same soul group? Is it your whole family too? I heard something about this before, but not much.

Vagabondgirl · #8 02-20-2011, 11:51 PM

By the way I kept having reccurring dreams about a complete stranger, a guy that worked at a library who I wasnt attracted to at all. And the eye contact thing was kind of scary too, but nothing sexually. Other than that I used to have reccurring dreams about a female teacher when I was younger. Maybe the subconsciousness sees something in these people that we dont see when awake??

Mark · #9 02-21-2011, 11:20 PM

Everyone is constantly broadcasting tons of information about themselves. Many people would like to think that they are closed books and mysteries, but this is only a dream of theirs. We are not actually separate from the people and things around us, so it's impossible to "hide" something in the first place. You can effectively hide something in the sense of making it seem too boring to investigate, but anyone who looks will see.

Soul groups can but don't necessarily include the family to which you are born in the physical world. Differently groups work differently. Soul groups can best be thought of as "higher tier entities." Just as every individual is made of a conglomeration of cells, every soul group is made of a conglomeration of souls. In speaking of this, we must remember that every object is a group and every group is an object. Atoms, molecules, solar systems, galaxies, and even human societies are all both groups and objects. So, a soul group is effectively an entity that is made of souls in the same way humans are made of cells. Remembering that all groups (and therefore objects) have consciousness, we can come to understand ourselves as part of greater beings in many tiers.

Think of the chain of physical matter. Waves build particles, which build atoms, which build molecules, which build solar systems, which build galaxies, which build even bigger things that are completely unobservable from our current perspective and way of thinking. We can see something very similar when we examine the organisation of souls. Little individuals come together to build a group. Those groups come together to build groups of groups. Those groups come together to build groups of groups of groups. This is probably the reason that mathematics is so very good at describing the Universe. Anyway, every person (by genetics) has an immediate family, then an extended family, then a society. Every soul has a soul family, which is the smallest group you can recognise bigger than yourself. You assume that you are one individual (object), which you aren't (you're actually a group too), but we can leave that discussion for later. These soul families operate together to make bigger groups, then bigger and bigger until there is only the One which is All. There is a corresponding "chain of being" for every type of existence (sphere, dimension, et cetera). There is a physical chain, a spiritual chain, and a soul chain. There are probably many others that I don't know about, but I don't know about them.

Vagabondgirl · #10 02-22-2011, 08:07 PM

I dont know if this is true, but someone said that the soul groups are like many parts of one consciousness. It sounds a bit hard to understand though...

Ive always felt "different" from my family members in many ways. I only kind of connect more with one half brother who I actually did not know before I was 20. Also we have mercury exactly conj. in scorpio, and his Sun exactly conj. my SN, which Ive heard is indicative of some past life connection.

So have you ever met someone from your soul group? And what does it feel like?

Mark · #11 02-22-2011, 08:59 PM

If I have met anyone from my soul group, then I didn't know it. I figure that it is likely, given the Law of Attraction. Very few people meet by chance and there are things that open up huge avenues, like the internet. If you're not already sensitive to those commonalities in people, then you could easily bump into someone close to you in your soul group without ever noticing. Becoming aware of and sensitive to those things is the only way to know.

If you find soul groups confusing, then think of them like this. Soul mates are essentially two halves of the same "soul." Soul groups are like soul families. Then there are bigger groups that function like societies. The thing to remember is that every group has a consciousness uniquely its own. Your soul group knows itself to be itself as an entity, just as you know yourself to be yourself as an entity, even though you are a group made up of many smaller groups (cells). Everyone is a Universe of worlds within themselves, just like soul groups.

Vagabondgirl · #12 02-22-2011, 10:13 PM

Ok, interesting stuff. Im not sure if I believe that we have only one soul mate, or I heard they call it twin soul? And that they never end up together or something because of some intensity. I think that maybe you have alot to do with other soul connections.

Anyway, Ive felt this strong emotional intensity with 2 guys totally. I dated like none of them. The first one I met abroad, some kind of "love at first sight". We kept contact on and off for like 10 years. Somehow we never got the time or opportunity to meet again, but it was a strange connection.

The only one that I can compare to this one I have right now, 10 years later. But the only difference is that we see each other almost everyday, at the same school and on the same carreer path. In the beginning I felt some kind of familiarity about him, but didnt have those strong feelings at the moment. It all started with these dreams...It maybe just sounds like being in love, but I think it is not really that. Doesnt feel normal. It feels like something else one cannot explain. Almost dark and mysterious, but still there is nothing evil about him. I feel very uncomfortable around him, like too intense.

Im afraid that so much generated energy (emotions) will result in something paranormal and people will start noticing.... But I guess this may be my paranoid thinking

Sceptical people usually brush things off as "coincidence".

Mark · #13 02-22-2011, 10:47 PM

Most soul mates can't be together until both have finished their evolutionary processes alone. When you've gone as far as you can by yourself, then it's time to join. Until that time, there isn't the necessary inner stability to deal with each other. Soul mates are polar opposites to one another. That means that with agreed ideals, right thought, and right action, it will be the most fantastic and fulfilling relationship possible. If the two try to join too early, however, they won't have the skill needed to deal with each other. What happens when polar opposites are exposed to each other? Flow of current. If you resist the flow, that's when you get heat, sparks, and injury. If you try to join with your soul mate too early, you will have an hellish experience. The best course of action is to continue refining yourself until there's nothing left to improve. When you actually are ready, you won't have to worry about anything, including not knowing them. When you're ready, you won't be able to stay away from each other! That is meant literally, by the way. Such highly developed people don't have intense emotional dependence. It just means that if you try to leave, you'll end up seeing them again anyway.

Vagabondgirl · #14 02-26-2011, 11:42 PM

Im sure everyone is connected somehow. And maybe some people are more prominent in your "focus" to get passed some issues...

I still dream about him every single night, and pretty disturbing. Before I could say that I was kind of "in love" with him, but now I dont think its the case. Now Im just a bit scared and confused. "The energy" or whatever it is has just got too intense for my liking. Sometimes it feels as if Im going to self destruct if we are close. Either I feel nauseos or other times that Im going to cry.

But another weird thing... Is that the first dream I had about him like a year ago or so was with my ex (his astro-twin). That I was on a mountain with the ex and that I gave birth to a boy that died, and they took him away from me the nurses and said he was dead. And in the dream I cried so much and was very sad. Then I broke up with my ex who was very sad, and I got together with this other guy and was "happy". But when I awoke I thought that that would never happen, I mean that I would leave my ex and like this other guy.

The truth is that I did have a miscarriage with the ex before this dream, and we had big issues before that about the pregnancy and I was very hurt, and depressed for months after. And now Im working in a study group with babies with this other guy ("coincidence" again). One day we were looking at this baby boy, and this guy stood right next to me and the baby was looking at us I got this unpleasant feeling and felt like I wanted to cry. I did but at home luckily! Maybe its from the dream?? Cause these feelings are somehow unexplainable. Strange subconsciousness...

Mark · #15 02-27-2011, 06:12 PM

Let go of your fear and you will know.

michel12 · #16 02-28-2011, 06:05 AM

i used to go out with this guy and i wanted to break up but did not know how cause he was so nice. one day he told me he had a dream that i died and he was uppset. i did leave him in the end! so i think death means u must let go of that person. when i got divorced i had a dream that i died-i had a new begining! u must let go of the past.

Vagabondgirl · #17 02-28-2011, 11:02 AM

The death dream was about the unborn baby... But I lost the pregnancy so early, so I didnt get so attached. But maybe it was death of the idea of the child that hurt me? I did let go of this guy. Or maybe I just transferred something over to the other guy.

The dream about that guy that was burried wasnt death... It was more like bringing back someone from "the grave" or something.

Im usually quite sensitive about people and what they are feeling, kind of empath-like (plus Moon square Neptune). So I feel there is "something" there, but I dont know exactly what.... Maybe he is being inconsistent about what he told me and how hes acting in person that triggers some kind of subconscious reaction:/ Usually time does tell, so I better just keep patient and maybe it will reveal itself in the end whatever it is.