Re: Venus/Pluto Trines & Sextiles In Synastry
What people genereally tend to overlook with Pluto-Venus contacts is.....Beauty and the beast.Pluto is...
the enchantress...or enchantor. I've described this once as if your inside an empty,dark theatre in the dead of night,and when you step onto the stage,slowly,carefully,the reflectors suddenly come on.and your blinded. It's shinny,new,exciting,but the seats are all empty...there is no public...so who's turning on the lights,fi your all alone? And you stare and blink in the light and twinkle your eyes because it's a bit tad bright and you don't know who's watching you,and from where. You feel explosed,and despite how echanting and aluring it is,you feel threatened. Also,when I think of a Venus-Pluto contact what comes to my mind is....You know the fairy tale about the boy with the flaut who used to play his instrument so good little children were drawn to it and they followed him around,enchanted by his melody?Long ago,I watched a documentary and they said that the fairy tale was actually based on a true story..of a boy,who used to put some sort of opium scent in the flaut that he played,so,when he played it actually the flaut sent of that intoxicating sent so the little children were entranced really,following him,up until he happyily made them follow him into the woods to a certain cave where he killed them. Somehow that is the feel of Venus and Pluto,because Pluto has two natures.
One,it's the enchantress/ magician,the benevolent patron of Venus if you will,the big bad protector, echanting Venus,whispering things in her ear,alluring her,making her feel so exposed,so naked,but so safe in Pluto's arms,and when you first take a bite of the Venus-Pluto,it really feels like that-the Pluto person understands you the best,the Pluto person is unlike any other,he enchanted you and entagled you in his web,nobody knows or understands you like the Pluto person does,and for some reason you feel exposed,and like you have a dark cloak ( him,or her )around you that protects you from any harm. The Pluto treats you like his little gem stone,in a way.
But More than the love for Venus...Pluto loves control.
and when Venus feels ( in the end ) too smothered by Pluto's ''love'' that's Venus starts to feel edgy-she wants to get away,be free,because in it's essence the way they love is in two different ways= Venus threw beauty,harmony,tolerance, Pluto in getting in your mind,deep,intense,strog, inclusive,so their love natures are in essence incompatible and hence why they are attracted to each other-Pluto to the beauty he wishes to see in himself ( and probably does have,just it's in the dark ) and Venus to the seductive darkness,because nobody ever stripped her before...like that.
But then,Pluto's second nature starts to play,when Venus gets away. He is no longer her dark knight that will be there for her-in Pluto's mind,Venus can't leave,because,didn't Venus know that once she said she was his she belonged to him? When she said ''forever together''.... it's forever together.
But Pluto isn;t doing this out of malice-he deeply loves Venus,and is..afraid. Yes,big dark brooding,misterious is afraid,afraid of loosing his shinny gem,because he needs it-he doesn't want to be left alone in the dark,and Venus brings him joy. It's just that,because of the nature of the two,Pluto can't express fear of abandonment in a healthy,gentle way0in stead,pluto would get self defensive,anrgy,mean, using violent ( or just pushy ) methods to make Venus stay,and Venu'ses enhantor becomes her beast.
anyone remember the scene when the Beast locked Belle in her room after she agreed to stay with him in his dark castle,and she told him she doesn't want to be there? Or the scene when she says she is not hungry and doesn't wish to eat and he goes '' you will eat with me and that's final!! '' ...Or when he tells her to get out of the castle and roars and breaks things when she runs down the stairs,but when they show him in his room he covered his face with his hands,and latter defended her when the wolfs attacked her... but when she tried to heal his wounds he turns angry and snappy?
Basically...it is a unique,twisted love. Pluto loves Venus,but Venus needs to understand that Pluto can't express emotions like him/her because he/she fears loosing control,and someone leaving you is just that...=loosing control,over your emotions,yourself,and Pluto does not like to feel exposed.
I do believe these relationships can turn into something powerful if both of the people ( especially whoever has the more Pluto in his chart ) are mature,otherwise jealousy,jumping at each others throats are a possibility.
Venus needs to understand Pluto better though.