Hello!
Oh I'm very interested in Lilith, having had and followed my experiences with her over the last two years since she sprang into my consciousness with her empowering presence!
It will help if you could post your natal chart with transits, including the Lilith point so we can see.
It also helps to know if you are male or female because I think it make a difference as far as Lilith goes.
As far as I know, she represents our wild side, our taboo side, she takes us way out of our safety zone into uncharted territories of experience. People have different opinions of her, I have come to realisee though that she gives us a very intense soul experience that breaks through our ego to get to our true nature. A little bit like a female Pluto. Each transit of Lilith conjunct to my personal planets has brought a wild experience with a man into my life - I'm female. Very often it has been a taboo relationship of a somewhat hidden, or triangular nature. I am currently having Lilith conjuncting my chart ruler Jupiter, and shiver me timbers I am involved with a Sagitarian man who happens to have another girlfriend and I don't know where on earth I stand with him.
It certainly has been a wild experience so far.
When Lilith conjuncted my Mars, I was involved with another man who also I discovered had a girlfriend abroad - I got very mad about that (Mars?). When she conjuncted my Sun I was involved with a man at work, another hidden relationship... He had Lilith trine his Mars at the same time, so for him the Lilith experience involved a woman in his life which gave him alot of maybe useful drive (trine to his natal Mars).
NR