Is it going to last?

[nam]

I've always had hard luck when it comes to relationships. Things seen to be going smooth for a while and then everything just falls apart.

The same thing is happening with the guy I'm currently involved with... It started in the beginning of September last year...and in a rather unusual way... I felt those 'soul-mate' signals... little unexplainable things you know... and everything was okay until July this year...I'm having emotional issues now and I am not sure if this is just a bad phase.

He doesnt seem as 'enchanted' by the relationship as I am now [My Venus Links to his Pluto...is that the reason?] ... And that leads to stress as I feel a very strong connection and I guess he doesn't.


Please tell me if our charts show the possibility of a long term relationship or marriage.
Or should I consider ending this relationship?
I'm attaching My natal chart, His natal chart, composite chart, and synastry chart.
Let me know if any other chart is required.
I'm a beginner... don't know much about relationship astrology.

Thanks
Nam

[virgo18]

Hey girl I know how you feel.

I start studying Astrology since 1 year an a half... but the only thing I can tell you about of your case is to look at your Saturn linkages in your Synastry to predict so so if your relationship is going to last. Sun-Saturn, Moon-Saturn, and Mars-Saturn. Sometimes Pluto is a good glue too, so look at the pluto linkages between both.
And look in your Composite, if they are any planets in your, 7th, 1st, and 5th house. And the saturn and pluto linkages too.


Other thing I can tell you is that maybe its a good idea that you and your boy talk about the situation, and if both want the same.

here is a good page with explanations: www.theastrologer.com
and here is another page where you can see all the aspects between both: www.configurationhunter.com

[nam]

Originally Posted by virgo18

Hey girl I know how you feel.

I start studying Astrology since 1 year an a half... but the only thing I can tell you about of your case is to look at your Saturn linkages in your Synastry to predict so so if your relationship is going to last. Sun-Saturn, Moon-Saturn, and Mars-Saturn. Sometimes Pluto is a good glue too, so look at the pluto linkages between both.
And look in your Composite, if they are any planets in your, 7th, 1st, and 5th house. And the saturn and pluto linkages too.


Other thing I can tell you is that maybe its a good idea that you and your boy talk about the situation, and if both want the same.

here is a good page with explanations: www.theastrologer.com
and here is another page where you can see all the aspects between both: www.configurationhunter.com

Thanks for the links.
Most of the planets in the Composite chart are in the first house.
And there are quite a few Pluto linkages but I see some negative Saturn aspects... should I consider those?

[virgo18]

Originally Posted by nam

Thanks for the links.
Most of the planets in the Composite chart are in the first house.
And there are quite a few Pluto linkages but I see some negative Saturn aspects... should I consider those?

If you have most of the planets in the 1st or 7th house is very good! Specially sun, moon, venus, and mars.
The negative Saturn aspects mean coldness, but at the same time give stability.

There are issues in all relationships... ad remember that the planets indicate but they cannot force you. So you can change your relationship by changing your attitude too.

good luck

[rahu]

with a jupiter/venus/sun/pltuo stellium in the first ,it seems like an arranged marriage as family is very involved inthis relatinship.the stellium shows affection and respect and with mercury/venus midpoint conjunct the sun ,there is laughter and joy.
pluto can dampen these feelings and the moon square to saturn shows that there are times of distance and coldness.
it seem he is much older and there may be a distance between you because of it.
with the moon/saturn and moon/uranus midpoint conjunct the sun and jupiter,there is again a feeling of distance at times .this pattern can be unstable as uranus and saturn together may show hesistation or uncertainty.
with the mercury/neptune midpoint conjuct to mars ,he is secretive and does not want all his activities known.

with the the uranus/saturn conjunction showing hesistation and independence,he may not want a commitment but,it is very difficult to determine if it will last as so many outsidfe influences are a play here
rahu

[nam]

Thanks for the response

You're right, there are periods of distance and yes he's 6-7 years older
Its like an On-and-Off thing... gets unstable and confusing sometimes...

But as I mentioned above, I feel there is some sort of a 'destiny' factor... which I haven't felt for anyone ever before. I've had visions and dreams about past lives and what not... It almost kinda scared me at first... lol

Do you think any of the planets or asteroids indicate something like this?

[rahu]

the moon/uranus midpoint is conjunct to pluto.this configuration can symbolize a astral reflection on past lifes.
but these types of experiences do not insure that you will be together in this life or that there will be a relationship in this life.
truthfully ,he is very independent and it is highly unlikely you and he will form a commited relationship.
it seems that he has told you this in words or in his actions.

rahu

[nam]

okay... Thank you