Do we match? is there potential in this synastry?

Flevis · #1 08-03-2010, 07:45 PM

Hi people,
I'm new here and I'd like an interpretation of the synastry between me and the guy I love. He was born April 23, 1987 at 8:30 PM in Sao Paulo, Brazil. I was born July 8th, 1959, 23:30 Sao Paulo Brazil. Although we have this age gap it doesn't seem because I don't look my age.

Flevis · #2 08-03-2010, 08:09 PM

waybread · #3 08-03-2010, 09:30 PM

Flevis, the chart shows some sexual and emotional compatibility, and I am sure your strong Leo side loves having a "trophy boy." But you are going to start showing your age soon enough, and unless this man is really looking for a substitute mother (just possible, with your sun in Cancer) I don't think you should expect the relationship to last. It would be only natural if he wanted to spend more time with a young woman his own age; and eventually, have children.

zona967 · #4 08-03-2010, 10:25 PM

A mother to have sex with that Sun falling in his 8th house.

He helps you express yourself with his Sun falling in your first house. And his Moon in your 12th stirs your intuition. You'll have a heavy impact on his outlook on life with so heavily loading his 9th house.

Btw, if I may ask, what's this guy's relationship to his father? I suspect a missing father but would love to hear what you know about it if not too personal.

Flevis · #5 08-04-2010, 11:24 AM

Hi, good morning

Thanks for your answer! Your reading is so accurate. He has a trauma with his father. His father is a retired army coronel and is now working in the city hall as a crime prevention. In short, he is so rich. But, when he was 10 years old his father divorced and married another young woman (she's a judge in the court law). After this, his father never gave attention to him anymore (his step-mother being so jealous). His father never talks to him, never gives him advice or chat. He lives with them and she also treats him like a stranger. He is revolted with this. He stopped studying and goes to parties and travels only, just to call his father's attention to him. It's a traumatic life that he lives with him. Could you tell me more about our synastry?

waybread · #6 08-04-2010, 04:33 PM

Flevis, isn't it time for common sense?

I don't mean to sound cruel, Flevis, but I think a better use of members' astrological time and talent would be to look at your chart, to find out why you are infatuated with a young man who is not only 30 years younger than you but appears to be emotionally immature, as well. He is old enough to deal with his family and his future as an adult, not as a child who acts out to get his father's attention. Also, I have learned the hard way that there are two sides to every story. I imagine this boy's step-mother and father would have a very different version of events.

Flevis, I can understand that you very much want this relationship in your life. But astrology aside and in the cold but clear reality of your situation based on your head, not your heart: what chances do you give for this relationship ultimately working out in the long term?

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