Are we Scorpio moons viewed as egoistical?

[Saturnian]

Why is that?
I won't deny it,but usually the word "egoistical" is used to describe a very negative trait and is usually associated with the word "self-centred"(if I am not wrong of course).

I may have gotten the wrong message but at times my sister indirectly calls me self-absorbed,self-indulged maybe even self-centered.As I said it's indirectly,but that's what I feel like she's trying to tell me.At the moment I do feel self-absorbed as I am trying to fix and improve myself so it's only natural to be but it seems like for her it's a general trait of mine.I don't think I can relate to it that much as I see myself centering more around others instead of myself.So I feel slightly offended as to me it seems that she is taking me for granted.
The irony is that she too is a Capricorn sun as me and a Scorpio moon as me.But she has some Aquarius placements in her.
Honestly I do feel offended cause it's like saying that I care a lot more about myself than other people,and to tell you the truth I would feel more hurt if another person was to have a rough time instead of feel hurt about myself.


Thank you for any help you will provide.

My chart:
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Her chart:
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[Inconjunct]

I think any self-absorption might arise from all those planets in the first house, not your Scorpio Moon.

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Inconjunct

I think any self-absorption might arise from all those planets in the first house, not your Scorpio Moon.

I thought about that too.that's why I provided the chart.

[BalancingAct7]

[QUOTE=Saturnian;223841]Why is that?
I won't deny it,but usually the word "egoistical" is used to describe a very negative trait and is usually associated with the word "self-centred"(if I am not wrong of course).

I may have gotten the wrong message but at times my sister indirectly calls me self-absorbed,self-indulged maybe even self-centered.As I said it's indirectly,but that's what I feel like she's trying to tell me.At the moment I do feel self-absorbed as I am trying to fix and improve myself so it's only natural to be but it seems like for her it's a general trait of mine.I don't think I can relate to it that much as I see myself centering more around others instead of myself.So I feel slightly offended as to me it seems that she is taking me for granted.
The irony is that she too is a Capricorn sun as me and a Scorpio moon as me.But she has some Aquarius placements in her.
Honestly I do feel offended cause it's like saying that I care a lot more about myself than other people,and to tell you the truth I would feel more hurt if another person was to have a rough time instead of feel hurt about myself.


Thank you for any help you will provide.

My chart:
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Her chart:
http://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k8...ges/charti.png[/QUOTE]

Oh I can definitely relate to this. While, I've never been called egotistical, I do believe that people with Scorpio in their chart are considered egotistical. I have however been called stingy...selfish...mean...so on and so forth. Its not that I don't care about other people, but when you have placements such as mine, its a lot of upkeep lol. I know that I have a lot of things that I have to improve on so I tend to focus on myself. But I'm not self-absorbed though because when people come to me with their own fears, problems, issues, I'm ALWAYS there for them.

[Catatonia]

Serious answer: You get called egotistical because you have an enormous stellium in the 1st house, and your Moon conjoins Jupiter directly on the MC (midheaven). The MC is the most public point in the chart. Jupiter expands and is naturally big. With Jupiter being conjoined to your Moon, I can see how someone may get that "impression".

Obviously this is just a reading and not a personal judgment.

Catatonia

[Tamara]

i wouldn`t say that scorpio gives egoism. i have scorpio asc conj pluto and scorpio moon but really compared to others i`ve never been egiost, noway. i think it`s more because of your loaded first house

[Saturnian]

I know I can be an egoists at times and heck who isn't?After all we are human,but I don't like to be classified that way.At least I'd like to know that even if a little bit I am kindhearted.But I can not show my good side with people who most of the time make me feel negativity.

[Earth Sign]

Maybe you're just terribly important? What makes your sister think that you're self-centered without reason? Maybe you've never found anyone quite as interesting as yourself. But, heck, with all those planets in the House of Self, no wonder you might find yourself interesting.

Aquarians can be kind of uncool when it comes to egotism. It's always about other people with them. But you do have a strong underlying current of Aquarius, though, as the ruler of your chart and stellium, Saturn. How interesting! All that Capricorn ruled by Aquarius...

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Earth Sign

Maybe you're just terribly important? What makes your sister think that you're self-centered without reason? Maybe you've never found anyone quite as interesting as yourself. But, heck, with all those planets in the House of Self, no wonder you might find yourself interesting.

Aquarians can be kind of uncool when it comes to egotism. It's always about other people with them. But you do have a strong underlying current of Aquarius, though, as the ruler of your chart and stellium, Saturn. How interesting! All that Capricorn ruled by Aquarius...

Basically there is tension in the house and currently i don't really enjoy living in it with those people(yeah those people are my family).
They usually fight,there is so much drama.I've tried to be neutral and I have been accused even then.
It's just that I believe she has a very strong attachment to me,as she was the one to "raise me" when mom is working and right now she is having problems.She's a very introverted persona nd I think she feels more connected to me and at the moment I believe that she seeks love and affection from me,I feel like she's dependant on me for that.So that drives me away,scares me away I'd say and I am guilty of not being so nice to her.She's not doing it out of mean to call me like that,but maybe it's cause that's the side I show in my home enviroment.It really brings out the worst of me,no wonder I can't stand staying home.

What do you mean by "all that Capricorn ruled by Aquarius"?

[rahu]

whoa dude,
not selfish.maybe not conscious of your selfish orientation but with saturn square to pluto there is a cold, qualifying,restrictive attitude.
then the midpoint of saturn/pluto is conjunnct yoor mars/ascendant conjunction,with venus conjunct to mars.

my not down pllaying your gracious,sincere and awarene responses to those around you but you have the 3 most selfish planets focused on your ascendant and your emotional/social interactions.

your mercur/neptune conjunction allows your to sweep the selfish aspects of your behavior ,away.

with jupiter conjuinct the moon ,i can see why you feel the criticism of being selfish is unfair.as this conjunction does give impetus to the truth even in dubious spiritual environments.it treats all with fairness .

one social dynamic that might occur to you with a combination of enlightened consciousness and unconscious instinctual desires is that there is a problem going from a relationship based on your refined sensitivities and the physical manifestations of a relationship.

i would think also that some "lovers" have commented on your withdrawn, distant nature when intimate emotions could be expected to unite rather than....separate.

rahu

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by rahu

whoa dude,
not selfish.maybe not conscious of your selfish orientation but with saturn square to pluto there is a cold, qualifying,restrictive attitude.
then the midpoint of saturn/pluto is conjunnct yoor mars/ascendant conjunction,with venus conjunct to mars.

my not down pllaying your gracious,sincere and awarene responses to those around you but you have the 3 most selfish planets focused on your ascendant and your emotional/social interactions.

your mercur/neptune conjunction allows your to sweep the selfish aspects of your behavior ,away.

with jupiter conjuinct the moon ,i can see why you feel the criticism of being selfish is unfair.as this conjunction does give impetus to the truth even in dubious spiritual environments.it treats all with fairness .

one social dynamic that might occur to you with a combination of enlightened consciousness and unconscious instinctual desires is that there is a problem going from a relationship based on your refined sensitivities and the physical manifestations of a relationship.

i would think also that some "lovers" have commented on your withdrawn, distant nature when intimate emotions could be expected to unite rather than....separate.

rahu

Oh god...I am only 16,I haven't gone THAT far.
ACtually with my friends I am ok.I just don't get on well with people who expect a certain behavior from me.
I hate it!They expect way too much,I don't understand how I draw all those expactations to me.I hate being told "I was disappointed by you".Why do I have to fulfill someone else's expactations?What about mine?That's the kind of thing that makes me behave this way.I would enjoy being one of those "irresponsible" people who no one expects anything from them.Everything would be so easy,let alone that I just haven't given the right to anyone to expect something from me.So why should they?I don't like all the pressure and stress that it's caused by it and I bet no one really likes it anyway.

[Claire19]

No it is the sun sign that is our ego expression. Scorpio Moon does not deal with that as a placement. Leo suns are typically seen as egotistical and you may have other markers that relate to ego issues.

[Claire19]

Originally Posted by Tamara

i wouldn`t say that scorpio gives egoism. i have scorpio asc conj pluto and scorpio moon but really compared to others i`ve never been egiost, noway. i think it`s more because of your loaded first house

That is right. THe Moon is not our ego and especially in Scorpio.

If you have strong 5th house planets then you will focus on your own self expression and creativity and that can be seen as egotism.

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Claire19

That is right. THe Moon is not our ego and especially in Scorpio.

If you have strong 5th house planets then you will focus on your own self expression and creativity and that can be seen as egotism.

I have 5th house in Gemini and no planets there.
Most of my planets are in the 1st,10th and then 2nd,with my N.Node in the 11th.

[Inconjunct]

Saturnian, you need to stop thinking that your chart dictates how you will be or act. It is only a map of potential, it is not a rule book.

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Inconjunct

Saturnian, you need to stop thinking that your chart dictates how you will be or act. It is only a map of potential, it is not a rule book.

If I was thinking like that then I would not be here,nor would I have the friends I have now.

[Inconjunct]

Originally Posted by Saturnian

If I was thinking like that then I would not be here,nor would I have the friends I have now.

I'm very glad to hear that Saturnian, and sorry if I came across as patronising or high-handed. It's just that some people do seem to think that that quincunx or that conjunction FORCES them to be a particular way. Thank God it doesn't, as my chart is choc-full of scary aspects (Mars opposition Saturn anyone?)!

[Arijana]

I don't think they are selfish...I think that's a general trait people put to scorpio because of ignorance. Scorpio demnads a lot, because it gives a lot. Scorpio's maybe are jelaous but when they are really love-they know no boundaries,and you can be sure-some of your worst flaws which nobody would like let alone love-they will. But they expect the same in return,that's the catch,most people can't love in that unconditional way,they either become cowards and run off,or they can't accept the scorpio as much as he/she did them,and there's the trouble. I think nobody can love u like a scorpio can...honestly. No one. But I wouldn't advise a very scorpionic person to be in a relationship with the same highly scorpio type,one of the two has to be a bit balanced. I hate how,when it comes to scorpio,people can only pin point the bad and never the good..How there jelaous,vendictive, yatta yatta but only a few of them say that they are the most loyal creatures one can ever find as a friend. Not to mention when they love you-they are really into you-whenever I had scorpios even as my friends ( and not talking just sign stuff,more )they put an effort-you can talk to them about books,movies,art anything youre interested in they ( that's kinda cute to me ) really put an effort to get to know and understand...I know some of yall are thinking ''well what does that have to do with anything '' but with me ( Venus in Aqua ) it's very important whatever relationship that I have that I can talk to that person about something...deeper than '' who got drunk last friday or look at that guy's abs''..and scorpios are those type of people,not superficial. The only problem I can see with Moon in Scorpio ( plus having other planets in scoprion ) is the intensity of their feelings and looking at the other person as to themsefles ( now how can anyone say selfish with that trait? ) and if that person dissapoints them,or hurts them....it can kill them,because their partner is them,they can't separate,they look at each other as one,and if one half hurts the other...My mom has Moon in Scorpio,and Venus I believe and when she found out my step father cheated on her ( for a year ) she slid her wrists in an attempt to kill herself because ( years later she told me ) she felt life has no meaning anymore...So that's why I say it's important for the other person to be more stable ( but not too much calm,else he will run away from the intensity ) but also able to handle the love and channel it. Either way,if you know how to deal with it-you will have a wife or friend loyal to the grave,for life. How can you say then it isn't worth the fight?


Edit: forgot to mention,the ''love will turn to hate'' is a myth... When it's a scorpio,love will turn to hate only if you give them a reason,and the only thing I can think of that would anger a scorpio is if you are disloyal-if you walk out on them when they are having it hard and your supposedly close friends,when you don't care about them and they always give their all when it's about you ( scorpios aren't fools ,they won't put up with it ) but yeah-the disloyalty and simply walking out on them they do not forgive.

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Arijana

I don't think they are selfish...I think that's a general trait people put to scorpio because of ignorance. Scorpio demnads a lot, because it gives a lot. Scorpio's maybe are jelaous but when they are really love-they know no boundaries,and you can be sure-some of your worst flaws which nobody would like let alone love-they will. But they expect the same in return,that's the catch,most people can't love in that unconditional way,they either become cowards and run off,or they can't accept the scorpio as much as he/she did them,and there's the trouble. I think nobody can love u like a scorpio can...honestly. No one. But I wouldn't advise a very scorpionic person to be in a relationship with the same highly scorpio type,one of the two has to be a bit balanced. I hate how,when it comes to scorpio,people can only pin point the bad and never the good..How there jelaous,vendictive, yatta yatta but only a few of them say that they are the most loyal creatures one can ever find as a friend. Not to mention when they love you-they are really into you-whenever I had scorpios even as my friends ( and not talking just sign stuff,more )they put an effort-you can talk to them about books,movies,art anything youre interested in they ( that's kinda cute to me ) really put an effort to get to know and understand...I know some of yall are thinking ''well what does that have to do with anything '' but with me ( Venus in Aqua ) it's very important whatever relationship that I have that I can talk to that person about something...deeper than '' who got drunk last friday or look at that guy's abs''..and scorpios are those type of people,not superficial. The only problem I can see with Moon in Scorpio ( plus having other planets in scoprion ) is the intensity of their feelings and looking at the other person as to themsefles ( now how can anyone say selfish with that trait? ) and if that person dissapoints them,or hurts them....it can kill them,because their partner is them,they can't separate,they look at each other as one,and if one half hurts the other...My mom has Moon in Scorpio,and Venus I believe and when she found out my step father cheated on her ( for a year ) she slid her wrists in an attempt to kill herself because ( years later she told me ) she felt life has no meaning anymore...So that's why I say it's important for the other person to be more stable ( but not too much calm,else he will run away from the intensity ) but also able to handle the love and channel it. Either way,if you know how to deal with it-you will have a wife or friend loyal to the grave,for life. How can you say then it isn't worth the fight?


Edit: forgot to mention,the ''love will turn to hate'' is a myth... When it's a scorpio,love will turn to hate only if you give them a reason,and the only thing I can think of that would anger a scorpio is if you are disloyal-if you walk out on them when they are having it hard and your supposedly close friends,when you don't care about them and they always give their all when it's about you ( scorpios aren't fools ,they won't put up with it ) but yeah-the disloyalty and simply walking out on them they do not forgive.

Hey thanks for the post,it was good and it'd be nice if people Scorpio people were to look at it,it'd make them feel better about themselves.

You said you have Aqua venus?Well a friend of mine has Aquarius moon and we can understand each other that's why we're still friends depsite many differences.I think Scorpio moons are capable of a lot of understanding if they want.I am trying to let mostly my positive traits to come out,I mean...no matter how much I try to see things black and white I really cannot do that,I always see both sides of the coin,but I do have all those intense feelings Scorpio has.Also I think I've passed the point of being overly jealous and obsessive or even vengeful.I am jealous won't deny it,but not to the point where it starts being sick just like the average person I believe.Also I refrain from being vengeful,I know I can be hurt easily but I don't wanna be like the mean people who hurt others so I'll prefer to just move on.
I am kind of annoying though,once you tell me to do something I'll say "NO".While I will actually do it I put on resistance.Mainly because I want to be the one who decides whether to do it or not,I don't enjoy being forced to do some things,because I have experienced it and it ***** hard.I want to have the freedom to choose myself be it a wrong or right choice and knowing that I really want to give other people the freedom to choose as well.
I am still young but I do know I am quite deep,I just dive into things and explore them if they interest me.And yeah towards my friends I am always open to listening to them,I might enjoy teasing others but when it comes to serious stuff I can be very understanding and non-judgemental,I know that you can only understand someone if you can feel their emotions so in order to do that I analyze mine.Feelings and emotions aren't our enemies.

But anyway...I think I got carried away.
It is true though that Scorpios get bashed a lot,same happens in my country,they make them sound so evil.

@Inconjunct:It's not that I am trying to blame astrology,I know how I feel most of the times and can describe those feelings,but it is interesting to see if there's something in the chart that explains that feeling and which signs are more prone to it.

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by EJ53

And, being offended prompted you to learn about yourself by asking this question...

...With her Jupiter conjunct your North Node, you support each other emotionally (so it hurts when she implies that you may not have done) and she is unconsciously steering you along your NN path (hence the learning)...

[As you say, Scorpio Moon is non-judgemental...So, she is not saying "you are egoistical" but rather advising you to "be aware how you might sometimes come across to others"...which I'd guess is "businesslike", with all those Capricorn planets sitting on a Capricorn Ascendant.]

EJ

Most of the times I am but it's energy draining to tell you the truth.Sometimes even I and anyone should be allowed to hurt others unintentionally.
And you missed a point..her Ascendant is in Virgo,that can help you form a bit of an image of her.While she might not be trying to sound judgemental,she is most of the time,and that's what has made me to distance myself away from her.You can't constantly criticize a person of how they should be and always trying to teach them how to say things the right way...I know she doesn't do it to be mean but it's not that pleasant either.I want to be allowed to be implulsive as well,even if I do use the word F in front of other people it's not like the world will end.

[Oldsake]

Originally Posted by Saturnian

Most of the times I am but it's energy draining to tell you the truth.Sometimes even I and anyone should be allowed to hurt others unintentionally.
And you missed a point..her Ascendant is in Virgo,that can help you form a bit of an image of her.While she might not be trying to sound judgemental,she is most of the time,and that's what has made me to distance myself away from her.You can't constantly criticize a person of how they should be and always trying to teach them how to say things the right way...I know she doesn't do it to be mean but it's not that pleasant either.I want to be allowed to be implulsive as well,even if I do use the word F in front of other people it's not like the world will end.

Actually, this moon is a gift do not forget this fact. If you become more self-aware and forgivable you will be able to enjoy the life in a way that one can enjoy it. Also, I have moon in scorpio(7th house) sun in leo( my sun is in 5th house as well as my venus so sometimes my behavior is egoisitc) and taurus rising. My mother has moon in scorpio VIRGO ASCENDENT AND sun in leo. So, you can guess that she is not only critical but also controlling and commanding. The only way to live calmly is to accept herself( and accept yourself of course) and be aloof but without any bad feelings or bad thoughts. Maybe your feelings are very deep still save the deepness for positive activities and do not waste time and energy for vicious thoughts. In addition, you can mend the relations by just showing more pleasantness and good feelings( everything should come from your heart). I know what is to have moon in scorpio but just realize the low instincts of scorpio and develop more kindness You will find that the dark side of scorpio is useless. I am telling you this from my personal experience even though I am 18 years old.

[Earth Sign]

Originally Posted by Saturnian

What do you mean by "all that Capricorn ruled by Aquarius"?

Planets are always co-ruled by the ruler of the sign they're in. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, so if you have placements in Capricorn they are being influenced by the placement of Saturn. If somebody has the Sun in Cancer, and their Moon is in Leo, then their Sun and Moon are ruling each other.

I have the Sun in Capricorn, so it's being influenced by my Saturn in Capricorn (hooray), and my Moon in Scorpio is being influenced by my Mars in Taurus. My Virgo Ascendant is influenced by my Mercury in Sagittarius, and is thusly my chart ruler.

Jennifer Jason Leigh has the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn in Aquarius, but it's ruled by Uranus in Leo, so she has underlying currents of Leo in all that Aquarius.



By the way, you seem to have great understanding of yourself and your family. You're obviously very intelligent and aware of your surroundings. I also have to compliment you on putting up with your sister. She has the same Sun/Moon/Ascendant combination as I do, and I know what pains we can be. If only you had my brothers wildly Sagittarian method of ignoring and joking away troublesome Virgo minds. Thank goodness he laughed at me for it, because if he hadn't, I wouldn't be able to laugh it off myself.

Do me a favor and be defiant against your sister, but in a friendly way. I feel as though I have to stick up for a fellow Capricorn/Scorpio/Virgo. I was able to manage my Virgo much better once I was self-aware. Maybe you and your sister can better understand one another if you talk about your different ways of thinking. But I warn you, in the case of my brother and I, it took his defiance, thick skin, funny bone, and intellect all put together to take my critical Virgo mind. After he mastered himself, he took my insults like a brick wall took feathers. If your sister is anything like me, it's going to take a brick wall. You may need to be funny, logical, defiant, patient, and much bigger than her insults to become her friend.

Sorry for the long post...

[Saturnian]

Originally Posted by Earth Sign

Planets are always co-ruled by the ruler of the sign they're in. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, so if you have placements in Capricorn they are being influenced by the placement of Saturn. If somebody has the Sun in Cancer, and their Moon is in Leo, then their Sun and Moon are ruling each other.

I have the Sun in Capricorn, so it's being influenced by my Saturn in Capricorn (hooray), and my Moon in Scorpio is being influenced by my Mars in Taurus. My Virgo Ascendant is influenced by my Mercury in Sagittarius, and is thusly my chart ruler.

Jennifer Jason Leigh has the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn in Aquarius, but it's ruled by Uranus in Leo, so she has underlying currents of Leo in all that Aquarius.



By the way, you seem to have great understanding of yourself and your family. You're obviously very intelligent and aware of your surroundings. I also have to compliment you on putting up with your sister. She has the same Sun/Moon/Ascendant combination as I do, and I know what pains we can be. If only you had my brothers wildly Sagittarian method of ignoring and joking away troublesome Virgo minds. Thank goodness he laughed at me for it, because if he hadn't, I wouldn't be able to laugh it off myself.

Do me a favor and be defiant against your sister, but in a friendly way. I feel as though I have to stick up for a fellow Capricorn/Scorpio/Virgo. I was able to manage my Virgo much better once I was self-aware. Maybe you and your sister can better understand one another if you talk about your different ways of thinking. But I warn you, in the case of my brother and I, it was his defiance, thick skin, funny bone, and intellect all put together to take my insults. After he mastered himself, he took my insults like a brick wall took feathers. If your sister is anything like me, it's going to take a brick wall. You may need to be funny, logical, defiant, patient, much bigger than her insults to become her friend.

Sorry for the long post...

Hey I enjoy reading long post...at least those that have something to say.
Well yeah the problem is that my family is all Earth!
So it's kinda hard to live in such an enviroment,haha.
My oldest sister is a Capricorn(the one who has her chart here)
The other is a Taurus.
I myself am a Capricorn.
And my mother is a Virgo(full of Virgo in her also her moon,though I am suspecting her Asc to be Leo since she's THAT bossy,too bad she doesn't know the time she was born)

So....you get the idea kind of.It's just a family that really wants security and protection,so tehy are being over-protective of me and that "drowns" me as I want to be able to decide for myself(maybe I am rushing).
I know Virgos don't criticize for the sake of making the other person bad,but they do care a lot about their image,something I wish to let behind me.
I want to try to be a friend with my sister but I feel that no matter how much I try she'll always behave like a sister,especially like the oldest sister.
It's weird the relationship we have and that has brought us to this point,me not feeling comfortable around her.In all honesty I've always been more afraid of HER rather than my own mother.
It's just being young and all *****.Whenever I do try to voice my opinion all they say is "you're acting like a smartass,you cannot understand,you are still young etc."You know ... the typical and I hate that they don't take me seriously.Especially her since I think she could understand me best.I know that she's very sensitive about herself and other people's feelings,but it doesn't mean that another person isn't just cause they don't show it.That's all,I know I can be a smart-***,or at least look like one cause when someone attacks my views,decisions or tries to force me to "learn" something i'll stick by my choice even knowing that it is wrong(yeah...my resistant side).But she's being a smart-*** too,trying to prove like she knows how everyone feels.
Maybe I went a bit off topic,I just feel I view things in a more idealistic way,but hey I can say that I am also the most positive out of my family.I'll always keep my head up no matter what happens,I know the the following day will be better than today.And I am just as sensitive as she is,to other people as well,but she's more the showy type,she can cry more easily she did once when there was a poor man with a hurt leg and he was asking for money.But why do i have to pity people who are in a bad state to seem sensitive?I just think "hey he may be having a hard time but i want to help him to make his life better",I will enjoy helping and I will do it with a smile.
That's what makes us so different,that she views difficulties and obstacles differently than me and I do in a different way and enjoying overcoming them,although that can make me appear thick and insensitive I'd say.

On topic again,XD.
Yeah,it'd help once in a while if we had a Fire sign in the family,mostly our family is dominated by Earth as I said and secondly water(in moon usually),which makes a pretty heavy combination...I'll try to express myself with her once again,but it is obvious she will never stop trying to "improve" me.I'll just let her,although I am afraid cause lately she's been denying that she's doing it and that causes a lot of tension.
She is already seeing a psychologist and sometimes we all do as a family,but teh bad thing is that while she was kind of improving she went back to how it was and more problems arised ever since.

[AquariusT]

Having one myself, I would say so. But I have changed as I got older, which is to be expected.