my partner's chiron trines my venus.
his neptune trines my chiron.
magi calls them the ultimate love aspects or cindrella aspects or whatever.
my parents have been married for the past 33 years(my dad was 17 & mom 19 wen they met) & they have neptune/chiron DW & venus trine neptune. they were born 2 years apart. so it's not a generational aspect.
i haven't studied any other long-term relationships so i can't say much about this aspect.
i had venus square chiron(i've it natally) with my ex. we had venus quinkunx neptune as well. it's my longest relationship(LDR - 9 months!). but i don't really think i loved him. i was interested in many other guys at that time. i was stuck in the past coz i liked it. lots of fun!!! i realised last month that i needed to move on & that the relationship was a drain.
we had :
his nept conj my asc
his nept trine my moon
my nept conj his desc
my nept sq his mc
my nept quinkunx his venus
my nept trine his sun
my nept sq his mars
& u don't wanna know how many more neptune aspects we had!!!!!!! it wasn't reality. i was blind to all his faults as well. so these days, em running away from nept.
everyone in ur generation has venus/nept with u but that special person's neptune will somehow be prominent.
a singleton .
apex of a yod,t-square,etc
my partner's chiron conj his asc so it's not an ordinary chiron.
march,2006 : we met for the 1st time.
march,2008 : my frnd told me to go out with him & then dump him.but i actually started liking him & the idea backfired. in june,2008, we committed.
i left after 1 month 15 days or something. we both were immature at that time so it was a right decision.
he would come back everytime he saw me. i'd start falling 4 him everytime i spoke to him. but things never took off. 2 years were needed for exploring our exact needs.
june, 2010 : we got back...
. em a way more mature & sensitive person now seeking serious relationships. he too has changed a lot. i'll be 17 & he 19 by the end of the year. & this time, i think i really luv him a lot.