synastry with Neptune/Chiron conjunct Venus

[jjj]

Hello everyone!

Havent posted in a while. I met this man, Aries, last October. Things have been going slow since then. We are just friends for the moment and Im wondering if he wants to take it to the next level. We are both divorced.

We have a very Neptunian synastry and a lot remains untalked.

His Neptune conjuncts my Venus and my Chiron conjunct his Venus. If anyone can point out anything, many thanks!

synastry:
http://s671.photobucket.com/albums/v...rrent=synn.gif

his natal (his TIME OF BIRTH is unknown):

http://s671.photobucket.com/albums/v...ent=natall.gif

[astrologer50]

Firstly, I would strongly recommend you changing to Equal house system as YOUR chart is very skewed with houses as uranus, moon and mars will be in 4th house maybe even venus and Jupiter

Your sun doesn't make any aspects to his chart at all, the Nodes are not linking in. Your Angles are not being activated.
Your mercury in Cappi makes all hard aspects to his Aries planets 90' square - not great

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

I am simply just focusing on the 'red lines' which represent challenges ie: 90'square and 180' oppositions aspects, rather than the blue lines which suggests an easly flow of planetary energies ie: sextile 60' and trines 120' aspects.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php

You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and 'both' of you want the same things...........then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way. Astrological natal charts cannot explain environmental factors, financial handicaps/ restraints and what position you hold in society, neither can it tell you if you are of ‘Royalty’ or beggar.

I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad.

Good luck with your journey

[jjj]

Thanks Astrologer!

I have been into astrology for years and I know most of the sites you recommended. I have attracted in past men with whom I had really good synastry (Sun-Moon, Moon-Mars, Venus-Mars aspects etc), mainly men with Cancer/Pisces moon-venus-mars (but I never attract Scorps). No surprise, as I have a Scorpio stellium. But these relationships never got off ground or failed quickly, to my great surprise! These Cancer/Pisces men were quite weak and my strength freaked them out. But this Aries seems quite strong! I have my stellium in 5th house, and Im quite fiery myself, plus Leo SN.

We have an incredible soul mate connection with this Venus-Chiron-Neptune conjunction. So Id like to hear if anyone else has had similar aspects maybe? Magy synastry points to Chiron-Venus conj as ultimate soul mate connection.

I post the composite too:
http://s671.photobucket.com/albums/v...rent=compp.gif

Moon aspects may be off, as I dont know his birth time.

and synastry with equal houses:
http://s671.photobucket.com/albums/v...t=equalsyn.gif

[astrologer50]

venus neptune may at first sound soul mate ish but it could just as easily turn into deception to.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastr...e_aspects.html

[jjj]

I know that Venus-Neptune is challenging, but I have this aspect with nearly everyone born between 1965-1970, so my age group. I dont believe all these men want to deceive me... lol. And they all are not my soul mates either.

I was wondering about his retro Mars in Virgo opposed Saturn in his natal. Can it make someone very shy and passive?

And Mars-Saturn opposition in the composite.

[astrologer50]

Originally Posted by jjj

I know that Venus-Neptune is challenging, but I have this aspect with nearly everyone born between 1965-1970, so my age group. I dont believe all these men want to deceive me... lol. And they all are not my soul mates either.

I was wondering about his retro Mars in Virgo opposed Saturn in his natal. Can it make someone very shy and passive?

And Mars-Saturn opposition in the composite.

Neptune is a generational planet, but VENUS isn't so you can't have THIS aspect with everyone.

IF you have venus/neptune in hard aspect natally then yes, you will be continually having 'rose tinted glasses' when going into relationships

Mars-saturn in the composite suggests continual stop/go situations and frustrations. It basically frustated any expression of mars action/energy.

[jjj]

I am the Venus person, I have Venus at 18 Scorps, so I have it conjunct to Neptune of all the men aged circa 40 to 45.
I dont have Venus-Neptune aspect in my natal.

And now I d like to hear some positive experiences with Neptune-Chiron-Venus synastry)

[scorpittarian]

my partner's chiron trines my venus.
his neptune trines my chiron.
magi calls them the ultimate love aspects or cindrella aspects or whatever.

my parents have been married for the past 33 years(my dad was 17 & mom 19 wen they met) & they have neptune/chiron DW & venus trine neptune. they were born 2 years apart. so it's not a generational aspect.

i haven't studied any other long-term relationships so i can't say much about this aspect.

i had venus square chiron(i've it natally) with my ex. we had venus quinkunx neptune as well. it's my longest relationship(LDR - 9 months!). but i don't really think i loved him. i was interested in many other guys at that time. i was stuck in the past coz i liked it. lots of fun!!! i realised last month that i needed to move on & that the relationship was a drain.
we had :
his nept conj my asc
his nept trine my moon
my nept conj his desc
my nept sq his mc
my nept quinkunx his venus
my nept trine his sun
my nept sq his mars
& u don't wanna know how many more neptune aspects we had!!!!!!! it wasn't reality. i was blind to all his faults as well. so these days, em running away from nept.

everyone in ur generation has venus/nept with u but that special person's neptune will somehow be prominent.
a singleton .
apex of a yod,t-square,etc
angular
unaspected
etc............................................... ..................................

my partner's chiron conj his asc so it's not an ordinary chiron.
march,2006 : we met for the 1st time.

march,2008 : my frnd told me to go out with him & then dump him.but i actually started liking him & the idea backfired. in june,2008, we committed.
i left after 1 month 15 days or something. we both were immature at that time so it was a right decision.
he would come back everytime he saw me. i'd start falling 4 him everytime i spoke to him. but things never took off. 2 years were needed for exploring our exact needs.

june, 2010 : we got back.... em a way more mature & sensitive person now seeking serious relationships. he too has changed a lot. i'll be 17 & he 19 by the end of the year. & this time, i think i really luv him a lot.