plz give ur opinion about the synastry and composite charts.

[PEPE.JONES19]

Hi everybody , I want to know about my synastry and composite chart , he's been a good friend but wanna know how this relationship is going to be , will this relationship break as there's lot of uranus interactions , does he love me , sort of confused , if i have let go or not , is it a stable relationship ?

[rahu]

with the composite uranus square the sun and mars,this is a unstable relationship,it marks breakups and inidicates he will never settle down with you.
though venus is conjunct mercury on the descendant,showing affection,happiness and openess and with the venus/mars midpoint conjunct the sun, there is a great passion and love ,but pluto is on the nadir indicating there are very selfish motives in this relationship.with pluto square to venus, it seems that sex is more important than truely bonding emotionally.
this shows a intense physical/emotional relationship and the passion are electric.

rahu

[PEPE.JONES19]

Thank you! Rahu ,
Practically ,I know the relationship can't seem to be long lasting romantically or settle down in a committed manner.. as he is already married and has a committed gf , I was his friend , daamn! the venus and uranus aspects and some few other aspects of moon and pluto , asc and north node really took its own form of intensity , trying to let go it and its best letting go ....but lol I never been in such emotional intensity before .... this is sure kiling me... , just want to know is it just me or does he also feel such an emotional vulnerability ? or will I be his best friend ?

[rahu]

unfortunately the mars/uranus midpoint is conjunct to neptune and the uranus/sun,uranus/mercury and uranus/venus midpoint all fall between the neptune/saturn opposition which means the intense passions and psychic connections are use in a manipulative manner.that is ,he is not mebracing the emotional quantum as you are.he is simply manipulating you and your love for sex.sorry to be so blunt but.......

rahu

[PEPE.JONES19]

I get the point , thx for enlightening me , am sure I'll be fine anyhow I have north node and neptune in 7th house of my natal chart , so each relationship is just a lesson in life....... lol I understood the but...... I knew its double trouble , just my emotional attachment kept me in there....
Rahu , I have attached another synastry n composite of mine with a very close friend of mine , can u plz enlighten what sort of a relationship and is it long term ? or am I being manipulated here too.......

[astrologer50]

what can be interesting with composite is to put your own planets around the outside and see how *you* relate to THE relationship and do the same with his.Also composite resonate with transits, so you can see how these affect 'the relationship' to.

Her mars conj your Saturn creates stop/go situations and frustrations. Although you need Saturn in relationship cos it acts as *cement* for good OR bad. I am simply just focusing on the 'red lines' which represent challenges ie: 90'square and 180' oppositions aspects, rather than the blue lines which suggests an easly flow of planetary energies ie: sextile 60' and trines 120' aspects.

To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful. If you choose to post the synastry bi wheel from astro could you please select the 2nd synastry option as it will put the houses and degrees onto the wheel which is far better for us to evaluate matters....
If you post the synastry chart and realise it doesn’t show the degrees (which we need to look at) you can find the degrees and other information in a separate PDF on the synastry page of astro.com. Look for the link "View the additional tables (PDF)" and click on it to see the additional information. Reading a synastry chart is mainly about reading the aspects between the planets in the two charts. So once you find the PDF, scroll down to the bottom of the page and look in the synastry grid that is there. Unfortunately, you can only see/read these and not save/upload. That’s why I like to see both natal’s and composite. This grid (in my opinion) has too many minor aspects and the orbs are quite wide. I like to use + - max 3’

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..


If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php


Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature for marriage or childbirth, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem confident in this area. There are indicators and potential as there would be with natal, solar return chart but guarantees -- (post 2 & 3 below)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=207744#post207744

Your chart is a blueprint of your personality, facets and penchants and the whole chart is 'potential' for development. There is nothing guaranteed or fatalistic in charts, I do believe we still do have free will. I also believe we chose our parents and childhood circumstances best suited to learning those Lessons in the best way we can.

I think it's worth bearing in mind that the natal chart, like solar returns is all about 'potential' but as we all know we don't always fulfil that potential do we.

It's like someone saying you can predict death, but with modern medicine and sciences the way they are and the potential to 'die' three times in a life, doesn't mean to say you will does it

I think lots of people have unrealistic expectations about what astrology can and can't do. astrology is an 'art, science and craft' and not clairvoyance either. If there were a formula or signature, don't you think we would ALL be using it?

With 15years age difference it shows your saturn's are in opposition and her saturn opposes your mars, saturn and moon - not great. Her pluto also squares this stellium of planets in Cappi. Pluto is all about control, power and manipulation.

There are no Nodal contacts, or Angles other than your Uranus (the planet of surprises, disruptions and freedom) conj her IC/home roots and family matters. Thing with uranus it can start and end relationships rather suddenly (or so it seems) Your uranus is also opp her sun/mercury which creates *excitement* and something unusual, different etc but it can also create
"It might seem that whenever the Sun person needs the Uranus person or puts any kind of pressure or demands on Uranus, that Uranus rebels, disappears, or reacts in an inconsiderate manner. On the flip side, your partnership doesn't get into the kinds of ruts or emotional stagnation that characterize many relationships. Much will depend on your individual personalities and how open you are to a level of instability in a partnership. In some cases, the circumstances surrounding the partnership are such that you are separated at key moments "
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastr...s_aspects.html

Asc in Scorpio (fixed) Asc in Gemini (mutable) are actually 150' quincunx signs -- so the outer expression and 'face' are totally different. Scorpio is a very very pricate secretive sign, extremely analytical, but also stubborn, jealous, possesive and plays mind games. With gemini it's restless, procrastinating and doesn't like making decisions and tends to sit on the fence or simply let other's make them, a social butterfly and likes lot of stimulus.
Both suns, mercury are in same sign Aquarius, (I bet you talk lots) and same moon signs Cappi (in it's detriment and not well placed) so there are lots of similarities with internal core beliefs and values

Hope this helps

[rahu]

this second composite makes me think of an arranged relationship with strong input from yopur family.
the stellium of sun/mercury/venus/jupiter is excelllent for it gives affection,active mental connections,respect,good will and a mutual enjoyment of lifes experiences.in the 12 house,though, the affect of your social milieu is strong.there is hesistancy or"cloud",a social restriction is affecting this relationship.thuis position can be very good for material stability especially as saturn is trine this stellium.this gives favorable material circumstances but these "easy" aspects can often bore one,as if there is no excitement in your lifes.

there is another interesting configuration with chiron opposed to pluto/uranus sextile to the moon and trine to neptune at midheaven.
this shows a amazingly sensitive emotional life to your relationship.there is a clear spiritual connection in this relationship and you both are committed to spiritual growth and evaluation.this pattern shows awareness and healing emanations.i bet all your friends say that he and you should be together as your friends draw inspiration and comfort from your friendship.together you have a very soothing and calming affect on those around you.with neptune at midheaven and part of this pattern, these aspects may manifest ion creative careers or socially concerned avocations.

with saturn square to mars,there is a distances though.this marks a man who is very involved with profession and life so that emotional matters may seem less important to him.this can show this material background is simpler than yours and this may be the social distinction i saw earlier.the midpoint of the mars/saturn square is conjunct neptune.
this is a difficult aspect to anticipate as it can be supremely spiritual and nonattached or in the depths, a licentious wastrel .
here with the sextile/trine pattern affecting neptune, the loftier goal is more probable because there are strong aspects of honor and righteousness.
this neptune/mars square may be part of the reason that your are very close friends but have not taken the relationship to another level.it just seems he is not comfortable will a physical relationship as the square can show he is devoted to idealistic pursuits.

rahu