Is our friendship over?

[gatorzone]

Hello All,

I asked the question "Is our friendship over?" I had quite a big argument with a friend of mine on Saturday. We have not spoken since then. So that is why I want to know if our frienship is over. I am Jupiter in the 3rd house and the Moon in the 12th house. She is Mars in the 8th house and Venus in the 7th house. I do not see any aspects between the signifiers so I think this is a "No" answer. Mars, her signifier, also rules the "end of the matter."

It makes sense that I am in the 3rd house because the reason we had an argument is because of communication issues or "lack of" communication.

Any feedback would be extremely helpful.

Thank You,
Gator

[dr. farr]

I think your horary logic is sound! May I say, though, that its up to you whether or not your friendship is over, at least relative to taking the first step (toward your friend)

If that first step is rejected, then a question relating to whether or not the friendship is "actually, factually over" would certainly be indicated, although even in this circumstance I (personally) would be more inclined to make an advice-request such as "What should I do regarding this friendship situation", rather than a asking a simple yes/no question (my opinion only)

[gatorzone]

Hello Dr. Farr,

Thank you for your feedback. Thank you for the suggestion of casting a chart for an advice-request question if my attempts of contacting her are not successful. You are correct in that I think it will be up to me to contact her. Maybe that is also why I am in the 3rd house. I suppose I could ask a question that is not a yes/no question, but the problem is that I really don't know where to start as far as how to analyze the chart in order to come up with an answer for that type of question. Where in a yes/no question I know you simply look for aspects between the signifiers.

Gatorzone