could it be just a flert with such a synastry?

[Athina]

Hi everyone, I'm new here. I've read some posts at this forum before and I was very impressed with the people's advice and knowledge.

I'd appreciate to hear your reviews and comments on the synastry below!
As it really doesn't let me sleep well.

It was a quick, sudden thing but it was over before I even got used to it.
Actually, looking at the synastry I believe this relationship is much more than just a flert, but probably my knowledge is not enough or I just can't see some things..
Please have a look.

Aspects:

From Aspect To Orb

Sun Parallel Moon 0°28'
Parallel Venus 0°34'
Parallel Mars 0°35'
Parallel Jupiter 0° 3'
Parallel Uranus 1°11'
Parallel Neptune 1° 4'
Conjunction Neptune >3°30'<
Sextile Pluto >53°32'<
Square Vertex >85°51'<

Moon Opposition Sun <170°44'>
Opposition Mercury >176°26'<
Trine Mars >118°50'<
Opposition Saturn >179°48'<
Contraparallel Uranus 0°46'
Contraparallel Neptune 0°53'

Mercury Sextile Moon >63°35'<
Parallel Mercury 0° 5'
Contraparallel Node 0°19'
Parallel S.Node 0°19'
Trine Lilith >121°16'<
Opposition Chiron >177°40'<

Venus Parallel Mercury 0°45'
Contraparallel Node 1° 9'
Opposition Node <178°58'>
Conjunction S.Node <1° 2'>
Parallel S.Node 1° 9'
Sextile Vertex >58°38'<

Mars Antiscion Moon 179°50'
Conjunction Mercury <0° 4'>
Sextile Mars <57°32'>
Conjunction Saturn <3°25'>
Contraparallel Chiron 0°27'

Jupiter Sextile Sun <66°12'>
Parallel Moon 0° 6'
Parallel Venus 1° 9'
Parallel Mars 1°10'
Conjunction Mars >4°14'<
Parallel Jupiter 0°31'
Conjunction Jupiter <5°46'>
Sextile Saturn >56°44'<
Parallel Uranus 0°37'
Parallel Neptune 0°30'

Saturn Trine Moon >127°46'<
Opposition Venus >177°23'<
Contraparallel Uranus 1° 4'
Opposition Uranus >175°20'<
Contraparallel Neptune 1°11'

Uranus Square Mars <86°27'>

Neptune Sextile Moon >62°52'<
Parallel Mercury 0°29'
Contraparallel Node 0° 5'
Parallel S.Node 0° 5'
Trine Lilith >120°33'<
Opposition Chiron >178°23'<

Pluto Contraparallel Sun 1° 2'
Trine Moon >124°18'<
Square Jupiter >94°27'<
Square Neptune <85° 3'>
Opposition Lilith >178° 1'<
Trine Chiron >116°57'<
Conjunction Vertex <4°18'>

Node Parallel Moon 0°32'
Sextile Mercury <55°45'>
Antiscion Venus 179°20'
Conjunction Mars <1°51'>
Parallel Jupiter 0°57'
Sextile Saturn <59° 7'>
Parallel Uranus 0°11'
Parallel Neptune 0° 4'

S.Node Trine Sun >111°25'<
Contraparallel Moon 0°32'
Trine Mercury <124°15'>
Contrantiscion Venus 0°40'
Opposition Mars <178° 9'>
Contraparallel Jupiter 0°57'
Trine Saturn <120°53'>
Contraparallel Uranus 0°11'
Contraparallel Neptune 0° 4'

Lilith Sextile Moon >65°21'<
Parallel Venus 0°26'
Parallel Mars 0°24'
Parallel Jupiter 1° 3'
Trine Lilith >123° 1'<
Opposition Chiron >175°55'<
Sextile Vertex <63°16'>

Chiron Sextile Moon >64°15'<
Trine Venus <119° 6'>
Square Jupiter >94° 7'<
Trine Uranus >121° 9'<

Vertex Parallel Moon 0°27'
Parallel Venus 0°36'
Parallel Mars 0°37'
Parallel Jupiter 0° 2'
Parallel Uranus 1°10'
Parallel Neptune 1° 3'
Conjunction Neptune >4°17'<


Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS

Sun Sagittarius 2°05'16 end of house 6
Moon Pisces 28°04'34 in house 11
Mercury Scorpio 28°05'21 in house 6
Venus Sagittarius 6°12'39 in house 7
Mars Sagittarius 19°58'45 in house 7
Jupiter Capricorn 11°38'40 in house 8
Saturn Virgo 2°05'30 in house 4
Uranus Scorpio 17°01'08 in house 6
Neptune Sagittarius 17°33'18 in house 7
Pluto Libra 18°19'08 in house 5
True Node Pisces 22°15'34 end of house 10

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 3°26'20
2nd House Cancer 1°32'02
3rd House Cancer 25°31'45
Imum Coeli Leo 21°15'46
5th House Virgo 22°41'33
6th House Libra 27°32'20
Descendant Sagittarius 3°26'20
8th House Capricorn 1°32'02
9th House Capricorn 25°31'45
Medium Coeli Aquarius 21°15'46
11th House Pisces 22°41'33
12th House Aries 27°32'20

You can see the composite chart here:

http://www.astro.com/cgi/aclch.cgi?b...&nhor=1&nho2=2

I know there's no Sun-Venus and Moon-Venus aspects (except for those mentioned, among which there are so many parallels! should we count them?) but what about those Saturn aspects, although hard?

The composite is not easy either but shows all those Venus-Sun-Moon aspects missing from the synastry...

We met when his Pluto at directions was (still is) in conjunction to my natal Venus.

The date of acquaintance was 17.02.2010 at 23:29 - virtual (through internet)
First meeting date (I must check) I think was 21.02.2010 at 21:12-13 ( I remember there was sextile between the Moon and Uranus if we check it as elective; I'll check the date and will correct it here if it's different)

Also in question: what shall we consider a first meeting date if people met online - the actual date when they met online or the first meeting date in reality? Or we take the 1st chart and then it takes corrections with the 2nd?